Life Sucks!

Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
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I am hating life right now! First we lose my Aunt to Breast Cancer now we lose my cousin to a car accident. May I just say I am pissed! He was in a single car accident at 2:00 A.M. on guess of all days it had to happen on? You guessed it right! Friday the 13th! He was out with friends then, not sure if alchol was involved but that’s not the point. He was on the highway and was coming around a bend and lost control of his car. We are devistated! He was only in his 20’s! So he is my Aunt’s grandson that we just lost in December. My Uncle (his Grandpa) is coming out today, I can’t imagine how he is doing! We just went to Mexico with him and had an awesome time and now this! They will do an autopsy and as far as we know the Memorial service will be this Tuesday at 3:00 P.M. if my cousin and family can get the church they want. Prayers and thoughts are sought from our Doper friends all over. Eldest son is not taking this well as youngest isn’t either. Eldest said yesterday First Aunt _____ and now Cousin ______. He then said “He was too cool to die”. Broke my heart all over again. Youngest said this year hasn’t been the best. I found out at work, I was in our teacher’s lounge looking at books, gifts etc. we can purchase when my Mom called. I was almost screaming when she told me. She thought I was driving but I told her I was at the school still since we were having an assembly at 1:50. I didn’t want to believe it. After talking to her I ran out of the lounge crying, one of our students and my youngest saw me and asked what was wrong and all I could do was run to the office to talk to my friend/co-worker about what happened. She thought I got into it with another employee but I told her no. She hugged me while I cried my eyes out and I didn’t even see that there was a student in my clinic. Life Sucks! He was too young to die. I can’t imagine how my cousin’s family feels. My cousin’s weren’t just brother & Sister, they were best friends. I call him my “Big Little Cousin” or my “Tall Little Cousin” because he is so freakin’ tall but he is my little cousin. We all will miss him so much. We know that his grandma was up in heaven waiting to greet him and take him in her arms but it wasn’t his time.

Thanks for reading this if you do and for letting me get this out. I didn’t sleep well lastnight and I doubt the next few nights I will get much sleep.

Goddess Bless Cousin, you will be missed.
J

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*Glomps badkittypriestess. Best wishes for you and your family 'hon.

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Moving thread to MPSIMS.

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This is not MPSIMS! My cousin died, yeah maybe I didn’t cuss in the Pit but this is crap. :mad:

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Thanks, it’s not been the best 2 days for us.
{{hugs to you Autolycus}}

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Cussing has nothing to do with it. We typically move these types of threads to MPSIMS based on how we expect the discussion to go. I wasn’t in any way implying that your problems are in any way mundane or pointless (and my apologies if you took that from my comment.)

In a lot of ways, MPSIMS has evolved beyond its name – we’ve had many major life events announced and discussed here, from births to deaths, marriages to divorces. But it would be confusing if we changed the name now, so we’re stuck with these occasional conundrums.

My deepest sympathies to you and your family for the loss of your cousin.

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My condolences for you losses. Hopefully, Bobo and your children are helping you thru this.

Blessed be.

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Thanks Mouse_Maven, it’s been pretty hard to not think about him. The boys are better and we are keeping busy at home. We are getting FIL’s old wide screen tv so our big screen tv is now downstairs and we will bring the other tv over later. Not sure when the service will be, sounds like Wednesday. Thanks again for the well wishes.

Blessed Be.