lissener, video clerk to the stars

The problem for me (not that anyone really cares) is not that lissener has “met a few “celebrities””, but that in threads where his cred or position is challenged, he drops the “Well I know someone who knows him/her so you can’t challenge my authority on the subject”… it’s a “my post is my cite” kind of thing. It’s really fucking annoying. Like the whole thing with the “I have emails from professors as proof I am right, but I wont reveal them”.:rolleyes: Dio (though admittedly have only seen this a couple of times) does this with politics. the whole “My dad works for some agency or such and has told me… so just trust me on this”

This board, or so I thought, was supposed to be about fighting ignorance. With the pedantry that takes place in pretty near all forums, one would think that the unprovable “I have the inside scoop and you can’t challenge it so… nyahh” wouldn’t fly.

I’m sure it would be, care to offer up proof of him doing this?

Surely… http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=10215088&postcount=51

How cute. You’ve taken it upon yourself to rid the board of its asshole worship. Asshole Man, watch him swoop in and restore the Pit to its former glory! He even has his own motto “Today I might be lame, but lissener will always be an asshole.”

How grateful people will be when you’ve run the assholes out on a rail. Damn people for having their own opinion about people! You’ll show them!

“Oh Asshole Man, you’re my hero!”

Honestly, I can see where that would be annoying. Like I mentioned before, I have little experience with lissener. But, do you think anyone takes that and says “Oh, well he’s proven it!” and that’s the end of the story? Why do people place such importance on whether or not this guy agrees with their opinion?

You really do have a valid point here. What little I’ve seen of lissener, I will say that he is a bit over the top about his opinions when he doesn’t like something. Someone else mentioned that he spends most of his time in Cafe Society, so maybe his opinion is there so frequently, it seems even more irritating when he does it. I’ve found a LOT of comments in that forum to be insulting. It isn’t just “I don’t like this, but anyone who does has to be crazy.”
Not everyone, to be sure, but plenty. There’s a lot of snobbery on this board regarding nearly any topic. The thing that I don’t get it is why would anyone care if lissener thinks they’re stupid for liking a movie?

There was a thread in Cafe Society earlier in the year about Mariah Carey and who the fuck would possibly buy her crap. I really like Mariah, and I have (like you mention) many memories of times I’ve spent surrounding her music. I read a few comments, responded that I liked her. Many of the comments were questioning the taste of anyone who would buy her music. I laughed at the idiots and moved on. I honestly (no bile or sarcasm) wonder why so many people have trouble with just dismissing his nonsense?

Because his nonsense is everpresent. The man almost can’t help himself from threadshitting. His original post about Henry Rollins in the “Who were surprised when they came out of the closet” thread was a single sentence about how Rollins was a “macho shithead.” There was no point to the post, just lissener being a jackass. When someone asked him why he thought that way, he came back with “my friend fucked him.”

Insightful commentary as you can see.

Well, he is a macho shithead.

I know because I MET HIM.

Now, go pit me.

Are you a raging asshole in every thread you post to too? If not, why the fuck are YOU getting so worked up about it?

Silly boy, I’m not in the slightest worked up. I’m laughing at you and your twisted panties. This isn’t rage, this is amusement. You’re funny to me.

Much like Manda Jo, there is no real bile, at least from me. It’s just really fucking annoying.

No one else seems to understand that though.

Even acknowledging that your #1 and #2 breakdown of my assertions is accurate, I’m still bewildered by this statement. My “behavior”? Trying simply to explain the validity of your point #1, which you acknowledge as accurate, while being viciously attacked from all sides? What behavior of mine was out of line? Colibri insisted I was 100%, pittably wrong. You acknowledge that’s not the case; it took me two years to gain that acknowledgment. Colibri is the one who “refused to admit he was wrong,” and pitted me when my initial point–despite the unclarity of later attempts at explication–was, as acknowledged by you, correct. The out of line behavior I see is Colibri’s, not mine. As to the other phrases you needed to decontextualize before you could call them wrong–(“Castilian” is slightly better than “Spanish” in an obscure semantic technical precise pedantic official way.)–well, when the obscure semantic technical precise pedantic official context is simply and only the relevant phrase in the Spanish constitution, which is all I was ever addressing, then no, it’s *not *false.

Or, “Depending on the context, ‘Spanish’ is open to a degree of ambiguity,” this is also true, in the constitutional context, as explained by my secondary cites above, dismissed by you as “hyper literal,” which I acknowledge, but I don’t see how that means “wrong.” In the same limited constitutional context, “‘Castilian is the official language of Spain’ is 100% accurate.” is also true.

But I agree that " ‘Spanish is the official language of Spain’ is somewhat less so, depending on context," is more problematic, because outside of the single, textual example of the constitution, “Spanish is the official language of Spain” is of course perfectly accurate.

You say, “Both statements about the lack of precision in the word “Spanish” were utterly and completely false, since “Spanish” was a noun in both contexts.” I’m sorry I was unclear, because in the first instance I was addressing the reason that “Castilian” seems to be the preferred official translation of that phrase in the constitution, which is that the adjective “Spanish,” not the noun as you assumed I meant, could–in that constitutional context–add ambiguity due to the fact that there are three other languages spoken in the *Spanish *state.

In any case, you’ve made a very helpful contribution to this whole discussion by highlighting where I was most unclear, and affirming where I was accurate (which was never meant to be more than the narrowest official context of the Spanish constitution).

Unfortunately, due to the fact that he has two years of vitriol invested in this “feud,” I don’t see Colibri acknowledging, as you have, that there was a narrow truth in what I was trying to say, even if further explication only clumsily served to cloud it further. Again, I feel that was partly due to the fact that Colibri, et al., insisted on keeping the discussion in the Pit, where they knew that I would never get a fair hearing.

Another point here: in live conversation, if someone says something unclearly, they’re allowed to clarify it and move on. In this typed-forever context, no matter how many times you try to clarify, someone can still scroll upthread and say, “but that’s not what you said, you originally said ___.” Whereas, partly I think because the discussion took place in the Pit, all of my pretty ordinary, everyday, conversational attempts at clarification were met with venomous accusations of lying. “That’s not what you said before, you’re just covering your ass,” or whatever. My clarifications were not taken as face value; on my original, hurried, sloppy, qualified statement was taken–oddly–as immutable gospel; it was decided by the crowd that that was the only time I really meant what I said; everything else was a self-justifying lie. That’s a pretty impossible situation for a discussion to develop intelligently and maturely. As you can see.

I didn’t offer that as proof, only as an explanation for why I believe it. I never claimed it was proof, and I never would because I know it’s un-cited hearsay. But does that mean I shouldn’t explain why I believe it myself?

In other words, you’ll have to do better than that. Find a post where I try to prove something factual by nothing more than namedropping. The thing with the spanish professors, first of all was simply backup to a slew of footnoted cites, not standalone proof. I explained why I did not publish the personal contact information of private individuals who had not given me permission to do so. But I did give enough information to allow you to track them down and ask for confirmation if you would choose to do so.

So, if those are the only two instances you can find of me “my post is my cite”-ing, then yeah, you’re full of it. :slight_smile: (See? Smiley!)

Especially since I don’t do that. If I express my opinion straightforwardly, it’s because I expect anyone who reads my post to understand that it’s just my opinion. I never say “I don’t like this, but anyone who does has to be crazy.”* As I acknowledged upthread, I once facetiously expressed ironic pity for people who dismissed movies that I thought were worth finding a way to enjoy. Once. Facetiously. Acknowledged and *apologized *for. Four years ago. Is this really all because of that?

*Find a cite, and I’ll apologize and acknowledge I’ve been wrong.

Sigh… I don’t really want to be sucked into this (it’s like trying to nail jello to a wall), but together with this post it is stated as fact with the post I previously cited as evidence of this stated fact. There is no “In my opinion…” or “I have heard…” or “I believe…”; it is presented as a fact.

Dude, in a Cafe Society thread, when you’re expressing an opinion of an artist or a work of art, it’s taken as a given that it’s a statement of opinion. The fact that I don’t talk down to you like a child and preface every such statement with “In my opinion” doesn’t change the fact that such a statement is, unequivocally, a statement of opinion. If you’re going to assume that everyone who fails to preface every single goddamn statement of opinion they make with “The following is an opinion, not a fact” then you need to stay out of CS.

IOW, if your only proof that I’m an asshole is that I don’t explicitly label every opinion as [opinion]___[/opinion], then you’ve just proven that almost everyone in CS is an asshole.

Yeah well not for nothing, but interpreting a work of art or your opinion of an artist is a bit different than expressing someone is a homosexual. Thusly “Starship Troopers is the vilest piece of shit ever to plague the entertainment world.” or “Paul Verhoeven’s work is reminiscent of a toddler with shit-stained Pull-Ups flinging his fecal matter at a camera” is a bit different than “Henry Rollins sucks dick cuz my friend said so.”

Geez, what’re you, his mother? I believe he’s gay, I told you why I believe that. Move on.

Thanks for the reply

Sincerely,
Mrs. Garfield

You’re still a liar. I didn’t “bring it up at every opportunity” at any time. I have had very few interactions with you of any kind since the original pit thread. You’re really not worth the trouble.

As far as your mischaracterization of the original argument and multiple lies in your subsequent posts, again, you’re really not worth the bother of getting into this again.

Really, lissener, I feel more pity for you than scorn.