Right now…I am pretty lonely in my life…and I’m quite sure there are alot of others out there that feel the same as I do…so I think that when people feel lost they should connect and talk to other peop[COLOR=“Yellow”]le like them.[/COLOR]I’m sorry I like colors xD
That is hard on the eyes.
Fortunately, I have never understood the concept of loneliness. People often behave like they are not complete without somebody else to be around or depend on them. I have never been lonely because loneliness does not depend upon others. It’s an internal concept in my opinion. You need to be comfortable with yourself and get out and do something. Develop some interest. Exercise, read, construct things or volunteer for something. If a person can’t don any of these things, they are not lonely. They are dead.
No thanks.
Let me try to describe the concept of loneliness here. It’s a topic that I have spent some time thinking over.
It’s what some people called ‘lacking a support group’. There’s no one to turn to in time of needs and trouble, and you are invisible on the radar of your other friends. You’re somehow excluded, and when you try to talk them they are rather aloof to what you are passionate about.
I would like to state that sometimes what I as a lonely person want is not 24/7 exclusive attention, or 100% dependency; just rapport and bonding. It’s like if you get into trouble, say a car accident, is there someone who cares you who you feel comfortable calling? You have certain activities which you like to indulge in; is there someone who share the same interest and want to join you?
Do friends remember your existence? Do you always have to plan the events and ask them out, and they’re rather lukewarm about it? Felt like you are have the least priority in the world? That if you just disappear and drop off the middle of the world only bill-collectors would notice?
Yah that how I feel.
No, not “alone”, “lonely”…like the way I feel…I can be surrounded by people…and still feel this way. It is as though I am trapped within my own mind…I can’t open it up to get out or let anyone in…that is lonely…what you were describing was alone. Yes, I am dead, and empty.
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[Double Rainbow guy]
What does it mean?
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Yes, well. Ahem.
Perhaps you should work on your introduction.
The black bleakness of despair and need is so last week.
You must not like Alphaboi’s sig line then.
I know what the OP means. I have never had any use for a large circle of friends (and frankly can’t conceive of same), but for me at least it’s been a bit too long between kindred souls.
I do know what you mean, and often feel that way myself. Is there anybody that you can really talk to? I find that talking about it really helps, and think it’s good that you’re trying to get the help you need here (and just ignore those who are making light of your situation). I love colors too and think that your rainbow looks lovely.