Cause I’m curious, and it’s not like any female doper is going to be reading this thread.
hehehe, Female checking in. 
Wanna know what seduced me?
~ Ugly guy coming into the cafe. Sits next to me, says: “How are you?” , leans on the counter, * his elbow slips! * falls with his chin on counter. ~
I was helpless with laughter. We got to talk, etc. etc.
The punch: He later told me he did that to all the girls he liked.
The moral: Make them laugh.
Oh, suuuure we’re not…
Carry on, no women here! 
Jeez… now you’ve spooked 'em.
As a female, we always know when you are trying to seduce us. We either play along or scoff derisively.
I dunno from seducing women, but I would think “Spill!” would be a bad first move.
That’s only when it’s done poorly. If it’s done well you’ll wake up up thinking how bold, and in charge of your sexuality you are, and your panties will be missing.
The best way is to start a thread like this, and…
oops, sorry. Carry on then.
A friend told me about a male friend of his who drove a bus in a big city and whenever a cute chick boarded his bus he would say to her, “You wanna f**k?” He says it worked more often than not. No reports on how many black eyes, complaints, or pink slips (heh,heh) he got.
Walk slowly through the singles’ bar, dragging a dead herring behind you on a string.
If she doesn’t have her “sunny side up”, you don’t have a snowball’s chance in hell. Although, if she is feeling amorous, be polite, be funny, be unable to control yourself. Have a ciggy afterwards, cuddle, and say nice things about her.
I dunno, I guess I’m just an old fogey, but I’ve always thought that if a guy used a “technique” instead of just being himself he was a jerk.
To paraphrase George Burns, sincerity is best. If you can fake that you’ve got it made.
In all seriousness though, astro, I can only contribute from the seducee side of the thread. And almost every man I can think of who was actually seducing me (rather than the other way around) used humor predominantly. Sometimes it took months of getting to know a guy, sometimes it was right off the bat, but all of the most memorable lovers I’ve ever had had that one quality in common.
Except that guy who just wore me down with persistence, and I never was too happy about that in retrospect.
I absolutely agree.
Of course, there are caveats; make her think she’s the most important person in the room, don’t smell, etc. But the really important thing is to make us laugh.
I’ve always heard you gotta tell’em three things:
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You’re not like other women.
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You really light up the room.
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I’ve never felt this way before.
I don’t claim they work; I’ve just heard you gotta do it.
Married for over ten years and now with 2 kids and both with jobs that require a lot of time:
- ‘Hey, are you free Wednesday night?’
Prior to meeting Lady Chance I generally dated and if the subject came up told the girl ‘Hey, it’s your choice. Would I like to? Sure. But I figure better still you decide when.’
Takes the pressure off.
An old friend of mine would have a conversation with a woman he just met; then he’d step back in mock alarm, “Fifty bucks?!?!” If she was still speaking to him at that point, he felt he had the advantage. :rolleyes: :dubious:
Yup. That’s my way of doing it -or WAS my way of doing it until I got married.
Of course, I got my current wife because she heard stories from mutual friends about my little MG Midget and she wanted a ride around town one warm summer day.
I quietly sidle up to really assertive women and wait around until something happens.
Works every time.
I’m really not this tall, I’m sitting on my wallet.