That’s what pillows are for! The average thickness pillow slipped under her butt brings everything up and makes things so much easier to reach. Your neck will be at much less of an angle, making it far more comfortable for you as well.
yeah, but pillows can’t knead and squeeze and pinch and caress and they don’t have thumbs or imaginations and several other things that I can’t think of right now.
Commitment issues?
As I mentioned in an earlier post, the hands are needed elsewhere - stroking labia, etc. Nope, give me a pillow so both my hands are free to assist. One additional benefit is that the pillow is there to catch drippings instead of the mattress. No wet spot.
What? You don’t swallow ?
Nah, if I got it, I’d have to give it. No thanks.
So many talented enthusiasts here! I wish you’d been around to instruct my husband when I was married.
Helpful hint: just like with kissing, don’t pour buckets of drool onto her.
As for instruction, all I can do is repeat what I said above - every thing I know about this subject I’ve learned from the women I’ve gone down on. The ones who told me what they wanted reaped the benefit, as did the ones who came after. Tell him. Even if it’s something as simple as one word commands - “up”, “down”, “harder”, “faster”, “notTHAThard!”, etc. If you don’t let him know what you need, you’re not likely to get it. Anyone with a tongue, a desire to please and the ability to take instruction gracefully can become a decent lover (and good oral skills are an essential part of being a decent lover).
I don’t make a huge mess, but when two things with moisture producing glands meet, dribblage happens.
Reach up and gently squeeze and knead the nipples. Yes, the hands should be free to do other collaborative activities while the tongue is busy doing the core job.
If anyone in the future makes this mistake, I strongly suggest subtly informing them of this after the fact rather than closing the door on a barrel o’ fun for life. Just sayin’…