Massage etiquette question.

Factual Questions
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I had a bit of an accident that resulted in going to a chiropractor (which has worked wonders). When I am getting a massage there, at the very edge of the area the masseuse is working on I get a sensation that is best described as a slight itch (is something else, but that will have to do for lack of a better word).

My question is: Is it ok to scratch while on the table? It seems kinda rude (and I am definitely not asking her to scratch me). Also she is using lotion and it gets messy when I scratch and then I don’t have where to clean my fingers. What’s an itchy guy to do on a massage table?

It is not a terrible itch, so I am just doing mind over matter, but I am sure I would relax better if I could just take care of it.

Hoping for a factual answer but aware that a collection of anecdotes is likely to come. Answers from masseuses/masseurs more than welcome.

2

Massage etiquette is for you to be as comfortable as possible. It’s OK to say, “I’ve got an itch” and scratch it, unless it is possibly in your crotch. :wink: You kind of avoided saying where it is.

3

Also, since you know this is a common occurence, you can prep the therapist in advance, i.e. “When you work on my lower back I tend to get a little itchy, so please don’t mind me if I have to scratch every now and again.”

4

This is how I’d go.

5

:eek:

If that’s the case, you might want to check where this masseuse got her credentials! :stuck_out_tongue:

6

And be sure to let us know!

7

Although a massage is normally a quiet, relaxing experience, that doesn’t mean that communication is out of order. If the pressure is too much or too little, say something. If you have to scratch, say something. If what you say is inappropriate, the therapist will end the session.

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Hah. Wasn’t trying to avoid saying anything. It’s on the neck and the area she is working is the neck and the shoulder blade.

9

Chiming in to agree that it’s perfectly acceptable to scratch. Re where to wipe your fingers, since you’re partially unclothed, I assume you’re draped in some way? Just wipe your fingers on the drape; it’ll just go in the laundry after your session anyway.

Additionally, you might want to mention your recurring itch, as it may be of interest regarding the treatment. For example, it may have to do with fascia being worked or possibly a histamine issue.

10

Speak up. An itch could be a sign of a nerve reawakening.

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Actually, in the two massages I’ve had in my life, the masseuse has actually asked if there was anything they should know like sensitive areas, muscles you’d specifically like worked on.

12

Interesting that the itch might mean something and not just be me unused to this. Will mention it before the next session starts.

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