I see my question and its point FLEW RIGHT OVER your head
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Does that illustrate how the point flew right over your head?
Does an ad hominem attack really get your point across much better than before?
I guess my feeble mind can’t possibly comprehend why masturbation when you’re with a partner is all that bad, and why you can do all those other things but think watching your partner get herself off (or having her watch YOU do it, which is not unheard of and fun as hell) is “kinky.” Methinks that since the rest of the people in this thread are just as vociferously disagreeing with you, you’re the one with the screwed-up sex life.
And I notice that you still don’t understand the point that I was trying to make. Sad…
Confused Rude Reader-
I was saying perhaps they were right, so show me what I am missing, convince me that I really am “missing” something.
So let them talk. As for you… [silence] anyways
"When a true genius appears in the world, you may know him by this sign, that the dunces are all in confederacy against him. "
Jonathan Swift
If!?
Geez. Hair trigger?
Rysdad!
I knew it you follow me! I went to GD and you posted after me, then here too!
Cool, nice to see you again. 
"When a true genius appears in the world, you may know him by this sign, that the dunces are all in confederacy against him. "
Jonathan Swift
Different strokes for different folks, I guess. (Pun intended). For MANY, MANY people masturbation is a fun part of a healthy sex life. Watching, doing, mutual- whatever! Toys, skin- no matter what is being used, there is nothing unusual about it- and no one “has” to masturbate.
If it feels good, do it!
Zette
Love is like popsicles…you get too much you get too high.
Not enough and you’re gonna die…
Click here for some GOOD news for a change Zettecity
You seem to be hung up on which is “better”, sex with a partner or masturbation. That’s a flawed way of looking at it. The simple fact is that they’re just different. Sometimes your SO might be asleep or on a business trip or just plain not in the mood. I personally think it’s a great way to start the day and makes taking a shower a lot more fun. Whoever pointed out that it will make the main event last longer also makes a good point.
Live a Lush Life
Da Chef
Only at the movies.Once. Don’t want to be doing a Pee Wee Herman.
I did a couple of times when I had some laying around.
And though the frequency of my masturbation lessened when I was in live-in situations with women, it did not entirely go away.
Mutual masturbation is fun, and watching is a big turn-on, and I’ve been told that watching me was a turn-on by more than one of my lady friends.
Yer pal,
Satan
Zette - Hear, hear!
‘Mutual masturbation is fun, and watching is a big turn-on, and I’ve
been told that watching me was a turn-on by more than one of my lady
friends.’
So how many were there at the time?
Wearing a condom for jerking off is okay if you don’t have any rubber gloves around & don’t know the person very well.
Starvin, glad you seem to be coming around to our side. Just remember that it’s not a choice between real sex and masturbation – you can have both (sometimes at the same time).
A slightly tangental story:
I once knew this guy who swore that he had complete control over himself, and that nothing I could do to him would turn him on unless he wanted it to. Well, I can’t turn down a challenged (plus I really wanted him) so I immediately devoted all of my attention to proving him wrong.
I took my clothes off, I took his clothes off (well, not totally, we were at a friend’s house), I was doing everything I could think of (not saying most of it). Nothing worked. He just sat there and smiled at me , probably congratulating himself on getting me to throw myself at him – like that’s a huge accomplishment.
Anyway, eventually I stopped, sat down, and stuck my hands in my pants. Within moments he was drooling all over me. 
I would’ve gotten away with it, too, if it weren’t for those meddling kids!
People, check www.jackinworld.com. Highly entertaining, for all sexes, discusses all this in detail
Cessandra-
Perhaps I need the saem type of therapy. WHat time are you available? Ill send pictures to show you that Im “throw yourself at me able” in the looks department, but rarely ever let it go to my “head”
So help me out here, show me what Im missing folks.
"When a true genius appears in the world, you may know him by this sign, that the dunces are all in confederacy against him. "
Jonathan Swift
Please send all pics, measurements (you know what I mean) and 3 references to Cessandra@. . . what? What do you mean Carl won’t like this?
Damn! Commitment sucks!
I would’ve gotten away with it, too, if it weren’t for those meddling kids!
When I was young and horny, I used to carry an extra pair of socks in the car, and whack off to and from work