Where are the best places to meet chicks online? And I don’t mean match-maker sites.
I’ve met some interesting people in chatrooms, but I’ve also found that a majority of chatrooms are filled with the most annoying people in the world.
Thoughts?
Usenet newsgroups. Trust me on this one.
Um, no hostility intended here, but 1. Don’t refer to us as “chicks”, and 2. Don’t make it so plainly obvious that you’re looking. That only works if you’re looking for cybersex. If you want anything deeper than that, you should change your strategy a bit.
To what? Hmmmm…ever thought of being yourself?
Here, here! Other than that, I’d say check out Drain Bead’s site.
::snickers::
Ooooh, silver fire, you’re climbing even higher! lol
High five going up to Audrey! Go girl!
I have always found that gaming places are good… Try Igames… The Zone… There are pretty nice peeps on both places… however just like in real life there are alot of idiots too… Gotta weed 'em out…
Just do yourself a favor… avoid nicknames like MeJoeStudly, Some4U, TonguesRUS, 9inchNatch…:rolleyes:
Just my 2 cents 
I love the irony. Be yourself, but “1. Don’t …” and “2. Don’t …” Here’s my take on it: the message was obviously only intended for guys, so why not leave it alone?
Aaron B’s B. I’m going to help you out more than anyone else posting can. Shut the computer down. Go outside. Realize the sun still exists. Meet people. Looking for love online is not the best way to go. There’s one simple thing to remember about dating…tangible is the way to go.
Damn. Can I change my answer?
I didn’t mean to offend…I can honestly say I’ve never met any female who was offended by words like “chick” or “babe”. It’s such a cliche’ to say “some of my best friends are (fill in the blank)”, but I’ve had numerous frank conversations with women, and they’re just as quick to objectify men in a playful, innocuous way and have had no problems with my non-nonsense approach to sexual dynamics. It’s part of how I “just be myself”.
See, you’re supposed to say, “where can I meet attractive women online?”
To which we reply, “anywhere, but half of them are really men!”
To which you say “I know that, but I want to find actual women”
To which we reply, “yeah, we know, but why would we help the competition”
See how it works?
Some people…
I’m going to avoid the obvious issues of one person on the internet telling another person on the internet to turn off their computer. Reminds me of when Chevy Chase went on P.I. and complained about the evils of television.
But I must defend my fragile male ego. I do know the sun still exists. I do go out regularly — roughly two or three nights a week (admittedly weak for a single, virile 27 year old, but what can I say? My relatively simple question was spurred by the fact that I spend several hours a day on the computer for my job. And several hours after work for my career. And to keep myself sane I surf over to places like this to remind myself that there is more to this than 1’s and 0’s. So sue me, I was distracted by something more primal.
P.S. I didn’t bring up the “L” word, you did.
Aaron B.'s B. Don’t be offended by me, everything’s friendly here.
I assume that by “meeting chicks” you are trying to find someone that’s attractive to you, otherwise you could have asked about “people” in general.
As for me being on the computer, I’m off work today and I have to drive across the state tomorrow, so I’m lounging around as much as I can.
I usually meet girls at work or at college, two ways which don’t work too well for you. As long as you have a few close female friends, you can try meeting people they know. Just MAKE SURE your friend doesn’t set you up with a freak of nature. But again, meeting people online is a very poor choice. If you’re becoming that desperate, you may want to consider “playing the entire field”…or possibly getting a pet sheep? My advice, stick with friends of friends.
Dude, I’m not desperate. I just thought if I’m going to meet people online, they may as well be female.
Pshaw with all these cynical people!
You most certainly can find friends online and you can find someone to love as well if that’s what your ultimate goal is. Meeting someone online is really no different than meeting them in any other fashion… You would rather meet someone in some seedy bar/meat market? BAH… I think the trick online is that you have to actually have the personality to engage someone in interesting conversation in order to get their attention…and KEEP their attention. Be friendly, be open, chat and have fun!
What, the SDMB isn’t good enough?
Damn. Just put your profile up on any site like yahoo or excite with your picture and a good brief description, and well, let them come to you…
no, wait, that’s how you end up with my problems…
I just don’t think the net was created at all with “meeting chicks” on mind. So no chance I figure of there being a best place for it. Sort of like IRL. What’s the best bar, or club to meet chicks at? Always depends more on what type of woman your’e looking for and whether or not you are going to take the patience necessary in dealing with such things in life as meeting a chick. I doubt there’s a best place for it. But if any at all. The SDMB is by far (IMO), the best place I have met any women at all. (It’s just a darn shame I actually respect these women so much and that most of them are married…) As far as the net is concerned.
What a gorey name. Is your ex named Hamilton, by any chance?