A woman having an orgasm is the hottest part of sex, I don’t give a shit if she brings a jackhammer to the party. Now of course as a true male, I’d prefer it be me having the orgasm. But the thing about a woman having an orgasm is we men like to think she’ll come back for another!
Paging Dr. Freud.
Who you callin’ a dickhead?
Yeah I was wondering if I was going to get an answer to my request for an update:)
We’re in the same position, her fingers are always welcome to join the party. Watching your partner cum is the biggest turn on and sure to send me over the edge.
He said it wasn’t the extra hotness, because I, being one of the majority who needs a little extra to get off, masturbate a lot in front of him. He said he could feel what I was doing and that got him off.
As to the really belated update, I actually got stood up for that date (thanks to you guys I was not too upset by this) but I scheduled a new date later that night with a new guy I had been talking to from OKCupid. We met at a diner, talked all night, and then, um, did something else for a couple of hours. Yes, that’s right, I did it to him on the first date :o but it my defense it was a 7 hour date. And to be honest, he had gotten in my pants the moment he said he spoke Korean.
So, yeah, now I want to marry this guy. Seriously. I’ve never felt this way about anyone before. He’s head over heels too. Last week we were shopping and he just randomly said, “When we have little ones, I just want you to know I want to spend some time with them every day reading to them, or playing chess, or listening to classical music.” I, of course, said, “Duh. As long as we get some art time too.” Swoon.
since I was around 17-18 I always figured the whole entire point was to see how many times you could get her off, and if it gets her off then its fair game as far as I am concerned. whats that saying? The harder they cum the harder they fall? something like that.
Good for you! My girlfriend and I had a 23-hour first date, the last 12 or so of which were spent more or less in bed.
OP: Works for me. Its’ more a psychological thing than a physical one. See, with doggy it can be hard to tell how she’s doing because, well, her face is being pushed into a pillow and facial expressions are hard to read through the shoulder blades. But this gives a little confirmation that, Yep, she’s still into it. Which is always encouraging.
Scriptural you and him are one in flesh and his pleasure should come from the pleasuring of your body and yours from pleasuring his, and his body is yours and yours his. This depends on a scriptural form of love, if his desire is to pleasure you, instead of the form that corresponds to lust which would be his desire is to pleasure himself through you.
So if you were pleasuring yourself, and his desire is your pleasure I believe he will experience greater pleasure.
I am a man.
I decree this hot, and encourage it.
Oh lordy, no. :eek:
Deprive oneself of pleasure because of what one’s partner might think? Communication is the key. Talk about what you enjoy with your partner.
Look, buddy, I don’t know how you do it, but in my neck of the woods we don’t play like that.
I dunno. My girlfriend complained the last time I stuck it up her nose.
I’m kidding, of course. I don’t have a girlfriend.
Is anyone else a little afraid of what might be included in a raunchy post? 
and the coffee comes out my nose!
Seriously though, broadly speaking, responsiveness from my partner is smokin’ hot
Dude, your nose isn’t for coffee, it’s for penis. You sick bastard.
This for sure.
This discussion reminded of something Dave Chapelle said (paraphrasing) “We just like to know the woman is participating. Shit. I’ll cum on the TV set if she asks me too.”
Not to be snarky, serious question.
Do you guys have sex with non-responsive women? Often? Is it the exception, or the rule?
Not very often. If they’re non-responsive we probably won’t having much more sex.
Well, the morgue ain’t what it used to be.