Anthracite -
Yes, please post 
Moans are good; screams are good, but not necessary. The little rhythmic whimper/moan is very inspiring. I take direction well, too–tell me what you want, and I’ll do my damnedest to supply it. I know I’m going to have a good time, so I devote myself to making sure my partner has a good time. Any feedback that helps me reach that goal is welcome.
One of my favorite sounds is the sound of a woman having an orgasm.
Stormi, It sounds to me like you’re an active participant in things, he just wants you to make more noise.
So–get yourself a compressed air horn (a la major sporting events–no comments from the bleachers, please) and fire it off at the appropriate moment.
While he’s on his knees trying to push his ruptured eardrums back into his head, look at him sweetly and say “I thought you wanted me to make more noise, dear.”
(I’m not really evil, I just think this would make a great Monty Python sketch.)
OK - I think the sound of a woman vocalizing her pleasure involuntarily is the most erotic sound on earth.
Moaning, whimpering, gasping, crying and sobbing (with PLEASURE, not pain), giggling, talking or babbling as she feels the rise towards the crest of the wave. I don’t care for “dirty talk” really at all - at least not the harsh stuff. And no screaming or yodeling, please.
And since I really love women with English accents, probably the most erotic thing I have ever heard is the sound of an English woman moaning, vocalizing - but not screaming - as she reaches orgasm. It makes my toes curl just thinking about it - I need to find an English ex-pat lesbian…
If any ladies would like to mail me some .wav files, especially English ladies…
Screaming and/or moaning?
Amateurs.
I figure I’m finished when my partner’s eyes roll back, and she/he passes out.
In my experience, there are three kinds of women: moaners, screamers, and biters (some of you may have encountered a ‘whimperer’, which I feel is a subset of the moaner). They’re all fine, so long as the screamers don’t cause the neighbors to call the police; in any case, some kind of feedback is much appreciated, no matter what the form.
Feedback is important. Otherwise, how can you determine what works and what dosen’t? Think of it as positive reinforcement. I have poor self esteem, and need a lot of reinforcing.
And even without the feedback, it’s very pleasant to hear. Dosn’t have to be loud, but something is nice.
Dirty talk is good too, if things are going that way, and as long as it dosn’t sound too forced. Or maybe even if it does. An 80’s porno style “OHMYGOSH OHMYGOSH OMYGOSH!” is right out, though.
The best sound, though, is that little, involentary breath catch when I first run my hand down the small of her back . . .
Calling on my vast experience of course . . . 
Yeah, I’ve had victims die prematurely on me too. Bummer, isn’t it?
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“I’ve had more time to read the manuels!”
Seeing as how this topic has raised so much difference of opinion, I believe that scientific inquiry is needed.
Please send me one (1) each (moaner, screamer, silent, biter) and I’ll get back to you.
I like to hear when a guy moans a bit. Makes sure I am doing the right thing, and it inspires me to be just as vocal, if not more vocal than him.
Thank you, Stormi, for starting this thread. I’ve lived for many years wondering if I made too much noise because of one idiotic ex-boyfriend.
Feedback, yes. Acting NO!
I love to see and feel i am giving her the best time and the greatest pleasure but I can tell the real thing, even if it is quite subdued, from the overdoing it. I hate it when I can tell she’s acting. It is a big turn off.
Some noise is nice, but I have to mention a girl friend I had. She was the silent type. Not a single moan during sex. However, she had this amazing facial expression that was incredible. Blissful is the closest I can come to describe it. When we where doing missionary style, I just loved to look at her face. When the orgasmic shakes would start, her facial expression went into nirvana. No sound required. The face said it all. I guess it depends on the girl.
I’m with the rest of the guys that say I just want you to enjoy the experience, and any genuine reaction you have is just fine by me.
I’ve been with some noise-makers in my younger, sluttier days. But I think someone who reacted like Kim Catrall’s character in “Porky’s” would probably be annoying, mostly because it would probably be disingenuous.
Intimacy and honesty should be interwoven, IMHO.
Here’s a kind-of funny, related story. At a newspaper I worked at a couple of years ago, we had a police scanner in the newsroom. Police were dispatched to some trailer park one evening due to a possible domestic dispute; screams coming from a trailer.
You guessed it. A while later the deputy came on the radio and said, “Uh, central dispatch, we’ll be (whatever the code is for leaving the scene). There’s no domestic dispute here … in fact, quite the opposite.”
I spent years either sleeping with people while their parents were home or while MY parents were home. Now I’m the parent, and I have to be quiet because the KIDS are home. I’ve found that proper applause (as 'twere) can elicit unheard-of efforts, though; so when given the opportunity I sound off. Not screams…well, not often.
Just POV from a chicky-chick. And I like a certain amount of noise too, but I have to say that if I’m…involved, and I hear a porn line like “yeah, suck that fat cock” it’s all I can do not to break into hysterics.
I love when a guy makes noise. Again it goes back to validating what your partner is doing for you. If I know what I am doing is working for my partner, then a little noise encourages me to do more of that. The ultimate is when they make alot of noise when he orgasms.
I would say I am more of a moaner than a screamer, but there have been times when I am sure the neighbors could hear me!!!
Noise is good, I like noise. You definatly want to know your doing SOMETHING right.
I have a screaming story I could tell that is SO FUCKING funny I can’t beleive I’ve never told anyone. I couldn’t even tell the nameless faceless masses. 'sides, that’d be a hijack.
Hey, at least its better than hearing “Ow!” and the sound of your face being slapped.
Oh, the timing. Hubby and I just had this conversation yesterday. He says that he likes the noises I make. I though I was too noisy, but he said I’m just right. And I have to say that I like when he makes those “out of control” noises, too. Means I’m doing something right. 
When Silo comes to town, all the ladies moen around.
Once apon a time, long ago, had this girl that made me seriously consider triple-soundproofing my room. My god she was like Krackatoa–you could hear her halfway around the world. I think she triggered a minor earthquake, but I’m not entirely sure of that.
Moaning is good, but don’t be too loud.
Subtle moaning is the best. 
Then again it’s been awhile sine I’ve had any action. :sigh:
Well, I’m a moaner. Unfortunately there is no one around to hear it lately.