A woman’s nipples which had a lot of really long hairs spoiled it for me, once. When with another woman, in semi-darkness, I stuck my tongue into a navel which full of lint. Regarded that as a really bad omen.
I don’t think I ever could have had sex with anyone that wasn’t completely gung-ho.
Unignorable BO.
Unignorable halitosis.
Saharagina.
Isn’t that the motto for the Olympics?
I can’t WAIT for THAT spectator sport!
Is it Ok if we can talk about this stuff with accusations of pedophilia being flung all over the place? Seriously. Every time this topic comes up there’s always someone who screams “You like to fuck little girls don’t ya!?!” It gets old really fast. There are other reasons to prefer smooth, ya know.
For the record, I think this comment:
is perfectly OK. Not insulting , and just pointing out what the poster things, and no accusations of wanting to fuck 11 YO girls.
When I met my wife she was shaven, as were the last 20 something women I have been with. From what I understood, a lot of women shave because they enjoy it also, they get more pleasure.
So add this to bad sex for me…too much hair. I am visual and like to see in detail what I am eating.
You guys should bite the bullet and try shaving. Just use moisturizer and be careful of the razor burn. It’s really not that big a deal and it does feel different. Better? That’s up to you.
you might find it’s a kink you like.
Regular is fine. It’s the pubic Amazon that almost has its own ecosystem, where you’re fighting wiry hair every step of the way, that turns me off.
Ah, so that’s why they’re called “love handles.”
Thank you Anaamika. It’s not about pedophilia. I personally like the “clean” look. And I’d much rather eat a pussy than eat a cat. A long-haired cat. Nothing turns me on about gagging on a hair.
And yes, I have shaved my pubes, and maintained that state for years at a time. I’d do it right now, but my GF doesn’t like it. And it has nothing to do with me wanting to feel like an 11-year-old.
A little bar soap and a disposable razor. Takes an extra 2 minutes in the shower every day. No big deal.
OK, the first occasion of hair removal is a big deal. Plan on spending most of the day. Avoid the temptation to use a beard trimmer.
Seriously, avoid the temptation. I’m not kidding.
No, NOT seriously. Joking… hyperbole. Google those if they’re not ringing a bell.
And those are? And saying a woman who doesn’t choose to shave or wax a very sensitive area of the body is unfuckable or unattractive doesn’t get old really fast? For the record, it does.
Are you offering a seminar on posting etiquette? May I please sign up for it?
I’m gonna line up behind Anaamika on this one Rubystreak, it was meant to be funny. It’s not. Lets move on. (Initial poll results are showing the other folks in the thread agree)
I’m intrigued, from a sociological perspective, that the interest in bald pudenda seems to have coincided with the spread of AIDS, the revival of prophylactic-free oral sex as alternative to intercourse, and the current vogue of cunnilingus. As one who visits dating sites, I’ve definitely seen a change in what men brag about, and it’s all about cunnilingus now. In our increasingly sterile world, I can see why some prefer to see what they’re eating.
However, as one who has had plenty of pubic hairs caught between her teeth over the years, it’s no big deal. Really. Personally, I like man-scent.
Sorry. It wasn’t funny. I’m not seriously accusing anyone of pedophilia, though there is a certain sentiment underlying this pubic hair issue that is bothersome to me. I think the gross-out on women’s body hair is just as tiresome and offensive as you think my sentiments were. Saying that a woman with pubic hair is unattractive or that a woman is unacceptable with pubes seems like a form of blatant chauvanism to me, since it is an expectation that generally men have for women that women do not have for men. Yes, some men do it, but it is not expected nor have I ever heard of a woman rejecting a man because he had pubes.
It is not funny. There was a article recently on Salon about this, and many of the respondents were rather vehement in the characterizations of men who prefered shaved being in-the-closet pedophiles. Different people prefer different things, and fads come and go. This preference is little different than long hair versus short hair; blond versus brunette; or cherry, lemon, orange, grapefruit or cantaloupes (figger it out).
Personally, neatly trimmed is fine. Too much and it is no fun to go downtown. Other than that, whatever the ladies preference is fine by me.
Which is hardly unique to pubic hair, really. I think that men (and women!) generally have different expectations of “acceptable” grooming and attractiveness for women than they do for men.
I have had women state they do not like men who are hairy a-la-70’s porn. My wife personally likes when I shave.
I am not in for starting another thread about hairy or not hairy, but it might be a good one if anyone is interested. Although I am sure there are a million out there, go for it anyway, if everyone wants to debate this.
Of course - and I certainly appreciate it if the guy I’m with has things trimmed up and tidy.
BUT - if I was really into him and wandered down to that particular neck of the woods and things were sort of furry, I think I would carry on with what I was doing, and after suggest a shower and a haircut. It sure wouldn’t make the sex BAD - just not ideal.
Further, to the whole “woman being shaved” thing - there are some of us that are TOO sensitive down there for that to be workable. Don’t get me wrong - I keep things neat and tidy, but if I’m totallyshaved (as opposed to just “key areas”) you pretty much can’t get anywhere near the thing because it’s too sensitive.
I know for some guys, right after ejaculation the head of the penis is REALLY sensitive where it’s almost painful if you apply too much pressure to it (or any, really). Well, imagine that ALL THE TIME - it really makes things not so much fun.
It makes me sad to think that some fella might right me off as “A Bad Lay” because I need a bit of a buffer down there.
Wrong.
I’ve met plenty of women who have a much larger aversion to men’s back hair, for instance. In fact, I find that women are much more selective than men, and some of the things they select for are just plain kooky.
Wrong? That women don’t expect men to shave their pubes? I have never heard of a woman saying she wouldn’t date a guy who had pubes. I have heard the opposite though.
I think it’s rude to expect a person to remove large quantities of body hair, regardless of who does it. If you want to shave or whatever, for yourself, that’s fine, but requiring it? Not cool.
As for women being more selective than men, eh. I’ve seen more fugly guys with hot girls than hot guys with fugly girls. Women seem to tolerate a much greater range of appearances in men, but now we’re getting to the realm of opinions and I’m not sure we’re going to change each other’s minds on this.