I am extremely picky but there are a few things that I don’t notice. I don’t care about height at all unless it is really unusual. 5’1" to 5"8" are all the same to me. I don’t like the really tall ones. Breast size? I never cared about that either as long as it fits the overall form. Like my preferred KFC combo meal, I am a leg and thigh man myself. A pretty face is the absolute most important thing of all but I have a no strict no fat chicks policy. Extra pounds could work but I stress the ‘couple’ and they better be willing to hit the treadmill hard to get rid of it.
That just means normal fit, no anorexia and absolutely no female body builders. I don’t like blondes much either. They can be cute when they are young but don’t tend to age well. I always pick dark brunettes hopefully with blue eyes but the last part isn’t that important. A semi-evil personality combined with some version of personal morals always a turn-on. I think Vivian Leigh and I should have gotten married if she had not died before I was born. Lynda Carter is another and we even corresponded for a while but again, too old. I even married someone who fit the role exactly but that didn’t work out worth a damn over time so dreams don’t always match up well with good life choices.
Curves and a good hip to waist ratio are what are important, there is a lot of leeway within those parameters (skinny, chubby, tall, short, big breasts, small breasts, etc). People in general judge themselves too harshly.
Really, ladies, just emphasise your good features and downplay your bad, but don’t stress about it. Trust me, the guys will either look at you anyway, or some super-hottie will come by and it doesn;t matter what you are wearing. Wear what makes you happy and comfortable, and secondarily what makes your partner get all hot & bothered. Don’t worry about the rest of us.
Eyes? At the* beach*? :eek: Sure, I notice eyes myself, but not at the beach (my excuse is that everyone is wearing sunglasses…). But yeah a size 12 can be hot, no doubt.
Totally agree. A good looking woman will get a second look, but your average looking woman just seems to slide right by my line of vision almost completely unnoticed. It’s almost like the “gray man” assassins in the WOT books, too ordinary, you never see them. Of course, if someone stands out completely either by looking odd and dressing completely odd, then they will get noticed as well.
Not trying to be snotty, I swear, but since you seem to go over women’s bodies with such a fine-toothed comb, do you consider yourself a catch, physically? I’ve known quite a few guys in my day who were into only THE hottest girls, but who themselves were nothing special to look at. That always annoyed me.
I’m bi, and not in the ‘I do it to impress guys’ category, I might have some decent input. As a woman, I’m conscious of every tiny flaw I have on my body, and thanks to genetics and Bikram yoga, they’re minimal. But, men never notice them, other women do. But, when I’m checking out women, or, back-in-the day up close and personal with a naked woman, I focus on all the good stuff, and not those minor flaws.
I suspect men have that same attitude…cellulite, what cellulite? She has the most magnificent tits ever!
I just got a chance to read through the rest of this thread, and I’m glad I started it! It seems to me the consensus is that men will focus on what they find attractive. And thanks to the lady posters for your opinions as well! Now if only we could wire ourselves to forgive our own flaws the way others do…that’s my next project.
