I should clarify that my “concerns” in this area are not solely w/ people seeking disability benefits or other “special treatment.” Instead, I’m appalled at the frequency with which people/media discuss such things as anxiety and depression - in all of their forms - as though they are ALL unavoidable and treatable pathologies. (YES - I readily acknowledge that such things as disabling anxiety and depression exist.) What I perceive is a blending of the moods with the pathologies, as well as what are considered appropriate/acceptable responses to both.
Life is hard. Any number of complicated social/business/health interactions can cause stress - no matter what your wealth, intelligence, social supports… But I believe people have considerable agency as to the extent to which they allow themselves to get involved in, prepare for, and respond to such stressors. There impresses me as a trend more in the direction of “someone ought to take care of me” and “it isn’t my fault”, from, “Damn, that sucked/I fucked up. Now what do I have to do to make things better? And, in the meantime, I have to continue meeting my minimal obligations.”
Just one example. High school and college kids have ALWAYS faced various stresses. Their bodies and minds are changing, they are constantly exposed to new information/situations/experiences. There are countless opportunities for self doubt and insecurity. Job/life futures have always been uncertain. But more and more recently I’m hearing of social (and other) anxiety among young adults discussed as a pathology that ought to be treated and accommodated. I think that trend/tendency tends to infantilize people, and excuse them from responsibility.
And you always used to hear of the “cop” phenomena - where if 1 cop was involved in a shooting, EVERY cop felt they had been threatened. Now, it seems as tho people seek out ways to suggest they were personally involved/affected anytime something bad happens. “Jeez! I’m terrified. I visitied the twin towers once.” Or “My neighbor’s friend knew someone who worked there.” Or, “I work in a high rise in another city.” Or, “I saw it on TV.”
Depression is another one. The APA recently removed “bereavement” as a diagnosis. Sure, it is hoped that you will be depressed when a loved one - or a pet - dies. But I’m regularly seeing such experiences cited as explaining PTSD or MDD.
And take the military. Yes, armed conflict has always been stressful, and service-related trauma woefully under-addressed. But my personal (and minority) opinion is that the HUGE number of post 9/11 military applications for VA and other disability reflect a pendulum that has swung well past what is reasonable.
In at least SOME subset of emotional stress cases (we could debate how many), I believe the individual has SOME control (we could debate how much) over how they respond. In other words, do you “give in” to your feelings of self pity/helplessness/anger/whatever, do you pretend it never happened, or - like most people - do you make use of the resources available to you to figure out how to continue struggling on.
I think people - as a whole - are a lot tougher, and able to recover from stress, than a lot of modern commentary gives them credit for. Moreover, I think at least some elements DON’T LIKE TO ADMIT that they recover so readily from stressors such as a loved one’s death. We are fortunate that we are so wealthy, and have the resources to sit around and feel sorry for ourselves, instead of needing to get out there and put food on the table tomorrow.