Can I just say how much I love this thread?
ITA with everyone who said that healers get none of the glory and all of the blame. I was shocked that nobody has mentioned the DPS / Tanks who feel like they have the right to complain / bitch / moan about the healing because, at one point, they had a healer. There’s an undercurrent of bitterness in my guild because of how quick the GM and certain others are to blame the healing whenever anything goes wrong. Granted, there are certain fights where it is all on the GM. Patchwerk, I’m looking at you.
That being said, a healer can’t be expected to counteract the effects of every single dumb mistake a raider might make - being on the “correct” polarity side in Thaddius, not moving out of KT’s circles ‘o’ death, etc.
And Nava, can we work on designing some extravagant punishments for that circle of Hell? We have a DK off-tank who consistently pulls before anyone is ready, and by the time we get to him, he’s on the brink of death, if not dead. This guy has the patience and tolerance of a fifth grader, and so then he proceeds to gripe in raid-chat, making the GM upset and ask why the healers aren’t doing their job. Funny thing is, the GM never clues in on the fact that all the other off-tanks and main-tank don’t have any issues. Sigh.
And if I may make a quick threadjack… for those of you who use DKP systems, I have a question regarding “ethics” and whatnot. My guild only started instituting a DKP system in the past two months or so. We’d been running 25-man Naxx a lot beforehand, and I obtained a lot of gear from that, upper-end crafted items, etc. At the time, my Holy Priest had the highest +healing of all guildies in the class (and higher than some in other classes, as well). So, when the DKP system was instituted,
if an item was a minor upgrade, I’d typically pass on it. My logic behind this was, if I get a +2 upgrade from the item, and someone else would get a +29 upgrade from it, the guild would be better served by the item going to the person who would benefit the most.* This wasn’t an issue at first, but soon, when all the other raid members started accumulating a deficit because they were taking items, and I was still passing, people started noticing. Soon, snide comments were being made about my point total, without people even seeing that an item I passed on wouldn’t be an upgrade.
The only thing I really want out of 25-man Naxx is the Torch of Holy Light (the best “healing mace” in the game), so of course the stupid thing hasn’t dropped after 4 kills. I plan on using my DKP for that item, but otherwise, there isn’t much that I need / want. Even after I get that item, I’ll still have the second-highest DKP in the guild, by a decent amount, and far ahead of all of the other priests. Am I wrong in passing on items that might be a very minor upgrade? The way we “bid” is by whispering the GM after items drop, so I wouldn’t have any way of knowing whether others were interested on the item until after I whispered (and subsequently won). I don’t want to “waste” DKP, especially with Ulduar coming up, but if I’m committing some in-game faux pas, I’d like to know, as well. I don’t think many, if any, items have gone to waste, but if I have some sort of social obligation to reign in my DKP, I guess I should start using it.
- I oversimplified “numbers” for the purpose of the example, I know…