You have my sympathies. I, too, have suffered through the loss of a brother and if you would like to “talk” to someone about it please feel free to email me.
You’ve suffered a terrible loss.
But, go to your parents right now. They need their other child at this moment. Desparately. The best hugs are the ones you can give to them.
My condolences.
my sympathies… I am so sorry that anyone has to go through this. The loss of life at such a young age is the worst possible experience for a loved one to bear.
((BIG OL’ HUG))
Man, first Wombat and now you. My heart goes out to you and your family.
The Death seems even worse when it happens to one so young, full of future and potential.
Yaway’s blessings and strength to you and yours at this time.
I’m so sorry. I wish I could say something helpful 
I am so sorry, Modro. Having lost family members also (dad, mom, dad-in-law, aunt, cousin, mom #2, and more) I remember those feelings of being lost and helpless and utterly not comprehending all too well. Time is the only thing that helps, and sticking thiscloseandcloser to your family. As Bosda said, go. Hug your parents right now. They need you every bit as much as you need them, perhaps even more so.
We are all here for you, Modro, and please don’t hesitate to call on any of us who have offered support and a sympathetic ear and shoulder. Including myself. In a larger but very real sense we, the SDMB community, are also a family. And as such, we all stick together, especially at times like these.
Take care of yourself and your parents. Look to God if that is who you believe me, for I assure you, He is watching over you and yours. I will add my prayers for healing and coming closer than ever to the family you have left. Be as strong as you can when you can, and when you can’t, let your parents be there for you. They need to know they’re still needed.
{{{{{{Modro}}}}}}
purrplebear, [sub]with a decidedly blue, sad tinge and tears in her eyes[/sub]
Survival guilt is a painful thing Modro, the most you can do is recognize it and understand that it will be with you for a long time. The road is going to be rough for a while, but it’s best to travel that road with those you love. They are just as worried about you as you are for them.
For the most part, the virtual community here at SDMB is the most compassionate and understanding bunch you could find. Feel free to share whatever you feel you need to share whenever you feel the need to share it. We’ll be here for you.
modro, my condolences to you and your family.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
My thoughts and prayers are with you…my condolences on your loss.
i’m so very sorry. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
(((modro))) - my heart goes out to you and your family.
Oh, modro, I’m so sorry…
I’m so sorry.
{{{MODRO}}}
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and you. I lost a brother recently, and like plnnr and so many others have said, if it’ll help to “talk” things through, please feel free to email.
Again, I am so sorry for your loss.
Modro I’m so very sorry. Hugs to you and your family. I’m sending strength and healing thoughts your way.
I am so sorry, modro.
Jesus, Modro, I’m so sorry to hear this. That’s terrible. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers. My best to you and your family.
Tibs.
Oh Modro, I’m just so sorry.
Sounds like your little brother had a wonderful big brother. Please accept my empathy. I lost a younger brother, too.