I got a call at 10:30 last night from my older brother letting me know that my cousin was being prepped for emergency surgery following persistent migraines and vomiting. He’s been complaining about headaches for a while on Facebook.
I haven’t seen him in a while, but I think of him almost like a third brother. Growing up everybody said we seemed like separated twins, since we looked similar, had similar personalities, and are only six months apart in age (he’s got an actual twin sister). He was a groomsman at my wedding.
I’m a little nervous. I don’t worry about anything, and I’m worried about him. I’m going to call my aunt a little later and see what’s up.
I’m not really asking for sympathy or anything, I figured it wouldn’t seem so bad if I wrote it down. Well, that didn’t work.
Got an update from my mom. There were blood clots causing mini-strokes and some sort of fluid buildup, but the ultimate source is still unknown. He’s 30, wtf?
The good news is he’s stable. Also, by coincidence, my other aunt, who was a longtime nurse, now a nurse supervisor, was visiting his family. The bad news is he doesn’t have any insurance.