An ex-boyfriend of mine from about 3 years ago is in town for the week. We went out when I first moved up here, but we lived about 45 minutes away and neither of us had a car at the time, so getting together was a pain in the ass. We broke up, but stayed friends. We’ve talked online at least once a week since then. He moved to California, and got engaged. We’ve still been close.
He’s back in Boston until Saturday morning. He wants to get together and hang out. His fiance broke off the engagement. If we meet, we’ll end up having sex. It’s tradition. I told Rashad I was meeting him tomorrow probably after I get out of work, and he flipped. “Let be past stay in the past Pam…he’s out of your life finally, keep it that way.”
So, what do you think I should do? Meet him at South Station of 8 pm, or go home and sleep? Decisions…
And more importantly, do I want sex with him or not?
[sub]Important Disclaimer: This post has nothing to do with my relationship, present or future (or lack thereof), to the OP. I’d say the same thing to any of my friends, or anybody. [/sub]
Depends on some stuff I don’t know about you. Number one: Is Rashad your boyfriend? Are you in a committed relationship at all, actually? Number two: Are you the type of person who is emotionally capable of having “fuckbuddy”/“Same Time Next Year” status, as opposed to “S.O.” status? If you’re single and can handle the aftermath, go have fun. If you’re attached or hesitant in any way, don’t do it.
Rashad’s my best friend in the whole wide world, who lives about 2000 miles away. We’ve hooked up before, and if we were in the same city, would do it again. I’m not in any relationship at all right now, unless you want ot count the creepy gas station guy who thinks we’re together, but I’m seriously thinking about getting a restraining order on him, so I would go with no…
And as for the fuckbuddy part, most of my previous relationships have been along those lines. The last time I had a serious commitment, I was 15. Pretty sad huh?