I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months and have known her for 1 year soon. We started talking together a lot last year, 2 months after I talked with her for the first time. But 1 month prior for me starting to talk a lot with her, she talked a lot with a mutual friend we have I have known him for 1 year and 6 month, she for 1 year soon.
When talking with our mutual friend they both used cams and showed their naked bodies, they also talked slightly dirty and generally just flirted a lot. This stopped when I stared talking a lot with her for some reason although they still wanted to sleep with each other and flirted occasionally.
Neither I not her have ever met our mutual friend. After we fell in love she told me that she don’t want to sleep with him anymore but she still consider them friends and now it turns out he is coming to stay with some of his friends not far from us and she wants to meet him.
Also before she fell in love with me she planned to visit him with me and tell me it wouldn’t work out between us as I was in love with her and then sleep with out mutual friend.
Also on a side note my girlfriend have not been lucky with her past relationships so she have had some “mental” walls with made her able to not mix feelings and physically intimacy which is why she have had a friend with benefit for the last 3 years but broke of all contact from him after we came together. That also means she have never really been in love with anyone besides me, she only “liked” her ex’s and was more interested in a one night stand with our mutual friend.
Am I just being silly for not liking it and being uncomfortable with it?