I meet up with my friends every week for a game night. About a month ago one of my friends got a girlfriend, and she came to meet us. I later found out from another friend (who was there) that she has a crush on me and thought I was much smarter.
She found some bullshit excuse to break up with him a couple days ago, and now she is practically stalking me. She messages me constantly and tries to ask very personal questions. I blocked her number, and she immediately got a new one to call me from. :eek:
What should I do about this?
Tell her to leave you alone.
Well, if she’s attractive, bone her.
If she’s not your type, just keep ignoring her.
And if your NOT hooking up with this girl because of some stupid “Bros before Hos” code; I laugh at you.
ETA: Also, there is no such thing as a “Bull shit excuse” for breaking up with some one.
Tell her, in no uncertain terms, to fuck off. Don’t try to be nice about it, and keep blocking her numbers and on social media wherever any blocking applies. Next step if she keeps it up is see whether her actions are something you can get a restraining order for. Document what’s been happening.
Huh? Sure there are. Dishonesty is bullshit in cases like this.
If you want to break up, break up. But be honest. “I don’t love you any more.” Okay. But, “I have to take care of my ailing mother,” or “My job is making too many demands of me,” or “I just don’t think I’m truly worthy of you” – those are (if not the true reason) bullshit.
This is all after he bones her, right?
There’s no way to know what to do until you bang her.
Get a pet rabbit.
Don’t get too attached, though.
A person doesn’t need a “valid” reason to break up with someone. If they want out, they’re are allowed to get out. And bonus points to her for being upfront about, instead of not saying anything and fucking around behind the guy’s back.
Usually when someone lies to you for their reasons for breaking up, it’s because they’re trying to spare your feelings.
It’s much better to say to someone: “I’m just not feeling it anymore.” than it is to be honest and say: “You know, since we’ve gotten together, you’ve gained a lot of weight and now you physically repulse me. See ya’ fatty.”
Dude, your name is boffking.
lol I’m calling “sneak brag” here. 
Whatever his initial reason might have been for not being interested, the girl in question seems to have provided additional reasons for not hooking up with her, i.e. “Don’t stick your dick in the crazy.” The “bros before hos” code doesn’t have to have anything to do with it.
“Don’t stick your dick in the crazy” only applies to people 30 and older. A young adult most definitely should stick their dick in the crazy.
You have to stick your dick in the crazy at least once. I believe that to be a rite of passage.
I disagree, having known a number of instances where the young guys who steered clear of the nutcases had much happier outcomes than the ones who succumbed.
For example: my husband was energetically pursued by a couple of crazies back when we were all in grad school. They would have slept with him in a heartbeat, but he demurred (and ended up with me instead). The men they eventually entrapped did not fare so well, and ended up wasting a lot of time on drama that could have been spent studying, looking for a job, finding a healthy relationship, and so on.
Still, everyone needs to make their own choices. If you like sleeping with crazy people who are waving giant red flags in your face, by all means do it!
Crazies can’t have a whole lot of effect on your life if you tell them to “fuck off” after you’ve had your way with them.
The problem is, a lot of guys don’t have the balls to do that. Instead, they feel obligated to entertain their crazy person’s drama.
Well, in the case of the young ladies who pursued my husband, I’m pretty sure you are correct that saying “fuck off” would have worked.
Not everyone is that callous though. Even horny guys have been known to behave like decent human beings from time to time.
Fertile crazy ones who produce a positive pregnancy test a few weeks later can.
Or ones who decide that you took advantage and go talk to the boys in blue…
(disclaimer - I don’t believe there are many crazies out there who file false rape claims, and I believe almost all women who go through the not-fun experience of submitting a police report are genuine. But why take the risk of meeting the 1 in however-many-thousand who will?)
Tell her you’re gay. It works.
No matter how crazy a woman is, I’m confident I can boink one with out getting her prego’.
Well, that’s crazy alright. But let’s be honest here. The bar for which folks today label women “crazy” goes far below “file a fake police report” crazy.
I mean heck, all a woman has to do is be opinionated, strong willed, aggressive, or have a bit of a temper, and she gets the honor of being labeled crazy.
I can deal with that kind crazy.