If your wife’s eyes are wandering, are you supposed to smack her upside the head?
Judging from her family pic, she seems to have a nice rack, even though she’s hiding it behind her baby and sweater.
The husband seems to have his mouth ready to say “yes dear.”
It’s going to be a bad day for that guy when she finds his porn stash.
I feel sorry for her. She set up this blog as just a personal thing, then wrote stuff that somehow got attention because it was a bit odd.
It’s just a blog, still. She has no power; she’s not a judge except in her personal life. She was probably hoping for strangers to read her blog and post, but I doubt she was expecting the stuff that will be coming her way now.
I read the blog post; something I admit I’d not done. I pity her. She’s a victim of the “daddy owns my vajajay” syndrome. Purity classes? Nothing that daddy disapproves of can be worn in public? Whoa.
She’s got such massive body / image issues that whether or not her husband eyes the bosoms of other women in public is truly the least of her problems. Her anger over her husband’s supposed wandering eyes stems from the fact that her husband is a normal sexual human being. She is not. She knows she is not. She’s powerless to alter the imprint so fiercely placed upon her as she grew up in that environment and she’s using her husband’s normal range of response as a trigger to release some of the anger she feels towards herself and her own sexuality. Is he abusing her? Does she feel unsafe with him? Does he force her to view porn, to look at other women’s bodies along with him? Does not appear as such.
I can’t really laugh at her, having read this. She’s damaged in her head and that’s not really a laughing matter.
I have to admit -------- hoping for examples/illustrations/pictures is why I read the entire thread.
I feel ya! (See Post #4) But it ain’t happnin’.
(Love that “born to be shunned” thing, BTW.)