I highly recommend sex in the shower, nothing like it.
I think I’m ready to try it with a partner…
In a shower is good. Outdoors is over-rated. Immersed in any kind of water is not good (that natural lubrication thing Arden Ranger mentioned) :eek: I’ve never tried it in a car and can’t imagine why I’d want to.
As soon as you find a suitable partner, I would recommend you rent a convertible (big, think Cadillac) and drive it out to a deserted field.
You can thusly combine car sex with outdoor sex, and still have a modicum of privacy, in case someone shows up to “check” on you.
Dang, DMC…you had to go and bring up the other unusual sex thing I’ve never done. I’m on my third car, and I have yet to christen any of them. <sigh>
OK, sailor…I have MapQuest.com open, I’m anxiously awaiting an address. That shower sounds divine…I agree that taking a shower with someone is lovely…one of my favorite activities. It’s just that actually having sex in the shower is, in my experience, a drag. Before the shower, fine. After the shower, fine. In the shower, drag.
Did I mention that my best friend’s family has a lovely 26’ Grady White on the Chesapeake Bay? My other fantasy is to have sex on a boat, out on the ocean, out of sight of land. Or does that get lumped into the general category of “outdoor sex”? 
Ahhh, sex in the wide outdoors! It’s just as enjoyable as being indoors, and you don’t have to worry about the phone. Middle of a small city park, after dark, very pleasing - watch out for the loose goose mousse.
On a blanket up in the woods in the fall, crunchy earthy leaves all around, very nice.
On a tailgate in wide field, blazing sun overhead, spring blossom-scented air, fresh breezes, ooo-la-la!
Not that I have any preference for outdoor sex, and I’m sure that being a virgin until age 24 has no effect.
Go ahead, live a little!
>> My other fantasy is to have sex on a boat, out on the ocean, out of sight of land
Well, my fantasy is to sail the caribbean with a nice companion… If you’d like to come with me we could do both things: sailing and sex. How busy are you these days? 
I am emailing you my address… let’s see how serious you are about this
Once in my life I’ve had outdoor sex. It was at a deserted beach in Oregon. There’s nothing quite like the feel of baring your butt to the open sky while you’re diddling your sweetie.
It would have been perfect, if I hadn’t, um, fired off my cannon too soon.
Qualifications: Must own boat. Outdoor sex fantasies optional.
Jadis ← keeping an eagle eye on her inbox…
Wait a minute! Houston? We got a misundertanding here!
I mean, I thought you were looking for someone to fulfill your fantasies and you were willing to provide fair compensation. I mean I have to pay the bills, I can’t give it away for free… what would my other clients say? 
Sailor ← We fulfill fantasies at very reasonable prices – discounts for groups and students
Outdoors can be wonderful, as has been mentioned. The beach isn’t the best because of the sand, but it can be a good place for foreplay. You simply move to a better locale when you can’t wait another second. My SO and I have also enjoyed each other’s company (that seems like a nice way to put it) on a middle of the James River laying on a rock in the middle of the day, on the roof of an apt. building over looking the skyline, around her pool about a gazillion times, and laying in the middle of a freshly mowed field looking up at a sky that was literally awash with stars. My sex life bloomed when I met her - I’m 37 and she’s 45. Age has absolutely nothing to do with it. Spirit, love, soul, and a wish to make each other happy has everything to do with it.
Jadis, you’re only 30. A lifetime of debauchery awaits you!
When I was 35, my ex-SO and I (who was 12 years my senior), went for a hike in the California Redwoods. Maybe it was the velvety green of the fern fronds, or the beckoning of the Bannana slugs; but the ‘urge’ hit us. Before we were able to ,um, finish, a forest ranger happened upon us in our frenzied state.
We pulled together our clothing, and attempted to appear as though we were looking for petrified wood. The ranger just smiled and nodded at us; and said “Isn’t Mother Nature awesome?”
All three of us were in agreement!
plnnr, et al…you’re all giving me hope. I’m willing to accept that I’m not too old for impetuous sexual adventures. The only obstacle left is finding someone to have them with.
Yeeesh, Jadis, I wasn’t even married (or laid) when I was 30. Our first outdoor (aside from tents) event was just a few summers ago when the bedroom was way too hot and we couldn’t risk any cooler room in the house for fear of having small people wake up and ask “What are you doing?” We took a quilt outside to the back yard and enjoyed the breeze and the moonless night. (We are fortunate in having a large back yard with no neighbors behind us.)
Outdoor sex can be fun. Well, any sex, if consentual, can be fun. But there are drawbacks as have been noted - tics, park rangers, passing strangers, rain.
I should add a few other things, watch out when on the beach, sand can feel like sandpaper. At extreme elevation, it can take a lot of effort (and oxygen). Sunburns can embarrassing too.
You are never too old to experiment. Sex outside is great!
What is with all this talk of sex in the shower? That is not exactly taboo. Besides, this is typical sex-in-the-shower dialogue:
"OOh baby. I…(glugglugglguugg)…Uhh. can you move over? the water is aimed at my face. SOAP IN THE EYE SOAP IN THE EYE!!! Oh yeah…You are…(gluggluggglugg…spit)…(choke). I want you to(squeek)…AHHHHHHHHHH (CRASH). I think i broke my ribs. (glugglugglugg) (spit) Turn off the water, please.
The think about “risque” sex is spontanaity.
Whatever turns your crank, I guess, even if it is sex in the shower.
On my 30th birthday, overlooking Canyonlands with the rest of the group up ahead because we had to “Take a rest and drink some more water- catch up with you in a few.”
And getting caught? Well, I did once…years ago camping on the Olympic peninsula. Found the spot, pitched the tent (punny?) and started to get great head…I looked up and there were people standing above us looking out. They didn’t notice us until I looked up at the same time they looked down. HELLO!
“Oops, we’ve been caught!” I yelled.
“It’s OK!” as they walked away…they then mysteriously came down onto the beach and took a nap about 50 ft. from us…Hmmm…unfortunately, we had already had our fun…
Go for it. Sex and nature mix well.
-Tcat
It’s great to be a pagan. Outdoor sex is almost mandatory. Actually, just generally being a hedonist, for me, means it happens wherever the mood strikes me (within reason). I am fond of the shower myself (went there this morning) and in fact any place where the water is more or less natural works fairly well, as long as you move quickly, otherwise rawness can, uh, occur. So rivers, and our hot-tub that has some fancy-schmantzy oxygen-based cleaning set-up works well. Pools with chlorine, or beaches witt salt-water- ouch.
30 is by no means too young. I rendered unto Mr.Mielikki under the stars last night, and I’m 33. This was at Burning Flipside, which is the Burning Man inspired event in Texas. There were many people over 30 there (not the majority, but there were plenty), and at the pagan camp-outs I attend, and they’re seen in post-coital glow as much as the young 'uns.
Just use a blanket, and remember sound carries. It’s true the thrill of getting caught can add to the fun, but sometimes you can find yourself in a situation where you can make all the noise you want, and that’s fun too. On top of Enchanted Rock (large granite uprising that is clambered over all day, abandoned at night) under a full Moon was one of my favorites.
Go for it, move ahead, etc.
Showers are not good for sex. Showers are, however, perfect for giving blow jobs.
IMHO.
I’ve had outdoor sex before, in three different places in Montreal. Not to mention lots of outdoor making-out. It’s fun.
One time…
Outside Sedona Arizona,in the back of a pick up. We parked under a huge rock formation,laid a futon pad in the truck bed,topped it with a fur bedspread…it was around midnight and the only light came from the moon and the stars…
::sigh::
Now if I had done that with someone who was good in bed-but I digress…