My guess is that just by puting the word SEX in this thread it will draw a lot of attention, and likely a great number of replies.
I’m posing some simple questions:
What is the best experience you’ve had in the world of sex?
Techniques, kinks, voyeurism, what gets ya off?
What would you like to tell the opposite sex for their(and their partners) benefit?
No pervs please, just some good wholesome chat about what makes us all go!
Well if no pervs are allowed, than most of us are disqualified.
Best Experience. For some reason, sex is always better stoned. Now I don’t get high much anymore, but the experiance is always hightened for me if I am.
Kinks. I’m a roleplayer. Dress up as the trailer trash waitress and I’ll put on the fat line-cook suit and lets make hamburgers, baby!!!
Dear Opposite Sex. It’s the head…the head!!! Pay attention to the head!!!
I’m kind of with BB on this one. Also, the pervs are the only ones who are going to make this thread interesting, so disqualifing them may not be prudent.
So I’ve always heard this, and I’ve masturbated while stoned and it was fantastic, so I decided to get wicked stoned with by boyfriend, then take advantage of him. And it was going allright, and then it started raining, and we both got completely distracted.
“Hey, look! It’s raining!”
“Word–really?”
And that was the end of that.
Well, I wouldn’t say this is my best experience ever, but one time someone seduced me totally unexpectedly. It happened so fast, I had no clue beforehand…mmm-mmm, was that good! It’s sad that it’ll probably never happen again (I’m married now), but at the same time that’s what made it so special. 
There was this other time I had sex in the cargo nets in Battery City Park, in the shadow of the Twin Towers. Actually, I did that more than once. Taht was fun.
Ah, to be young again… 
Hmm…what kinda kinks do I have?
Well, I really like to be submissive. I like a big, strong man to take what he wants.
Yeah.
Rose
Dr. Lao, Bedrosian Bixby, point taken. All pervs welcome!
As far as the cannabis heightened experiences- you damn right! A little sensi sets the bed aglow. However, for men you may experience a little reluctance from little Jim if you know what I mean. If you stick to the good green stuff though, and say no to the brown frown it shouldn’t be a problem.
If you want to experiment with other supplemments, one I would suggest is Yohimbe.
This herb actually shows up in medical texts, in references both to aphrodisiacs and to cardiology. It increases your blood pressure (which is where the aphrodisiac effect comes from), so it may not be the safest thing to experiment with. At the very least, use it in moderation (like “sex” and “moderation” sound good in the same sentence).
This herb actually shows up in medical texts, in references both to aphrodisiacs and to cardiology. It increases your blood pressure (which is where the aphrodisiac effect comes from), so it may not be the safest thing to experiment with. At the very least, use it in moderation (like “sex” and “moderation” sound good in the same sentence). **
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This is actually very true, and I should have mentioned that you want to start your dosage small and see what works for you. Too much can actually make you uncomfortable and have the opposite effect. Anything that raises your blood pressure can potentially do damage in the form of microscopic tears to your heart muscles.
*What is the best experience you’ve had in the world of sex?
Techniques, kinks, voyeurism, what gets ya off?* Being tied up, talked dirty to, and the whole submission thing.
What would you like to tell the opposite sex for their(and their partners) benefit?* Right there! Don’t stop until you’re told to. Harder!
Ah sex, man that’d be sweet…
(At the rate I’m going, I figure a loss of virginity at 30)
What would you like to tell the opposite sex for their (and their partners) benefit?
“Quality not quantity” It does not matter that you can last 3 hours, if she gets bored
and starts thinking about what color to paint the bedroom.
Best
Oh, goodness is this one difficult… Can I pick a “best of breed” for each guy?
Guy #1- The Halloween Party out in the woods where we played eyes for five hours before we touched. And he spend the time sparring and sword fighting while I spent the time getting really, really worked up with a pile of people. (thirty or so, both genders, hot, hot, hot…) and then we curled off by ourselves under the stars with the party still raging a bit away and reclaimed each other from the rest of the world.
Guy #2- We had planned on going to the mall but made it to a motel. Think dirty honeymooner sex, without the marriage part. For a few hours. Wild.
Guy #3- He’s just a special person and his sensitivity to others, attention to details, and perfectionist nature is not dulled at all when naked. He’s a fantastic lover. I can’t say I can pick just one. Okay, I will, the first, his first. He was just so sweet and so entranced by the experiance. I feel honored to have been there for it. (He also wins the Cutest Dick award.)
Guy #4- Tie between our last really wild role-playing session and Friday afternoon. I just got really hungry on Friday and everything worked well. The moons aligned and both of us were ON, and fed off each other for a really good time. For the former, it was the aristocratic princess and her barbarian captor, and he’s sooo good. Rough and wild, just the way I like it.
What gets me off
Depends on the moment. In general, some good ideas are: submission, role-playing, bondage, dirty talk, nibbling my neck, playing with my hair… I’m up for just about any kink as long as its not going to permanently injure me. (Yea, I’m twisted. Sue me.) Ahh! I forgot blow jobs! And water. Sex on beaches and in showers and hot tubs. And giving blow jobs, fun and good things.
Advice
Have fun and be enthusiastic. Sex is FUN, not some serious test of abitity, goof off, play around, experiment. At the very worst you’ll decide that whatever you tried isn’t for you. The journey counts here far more than the end.
Yeah! This is why I started this thread!
The journey counts here far more than the end. !!!
Hey Medea’s Child,
How you doin?
I like sex. I miss sex. It’s been a (long)while. But pretty much, any kind of sex is ok. I’ve not got any particular kinkiness that I know of. I just like sex.
The best I ever had? It started in the college library- a quickie in the stacks, and then moved back to the dorm room. I was in love-and I think that made it better.
Of course, I dumped him later, but damn, he was good in bed.
Advice?
Condoms, condoms, condoms. Have fun, but do it safer. Don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself and try new things-you’ll either like it or you won’t, but either way you’ll have learned something.
advice:
when manually stimulating a woman, repeated jamming of one’s fingers into the hoohoo like a freakin’ piston is not really that nifty for the girl, despite the noises she may make. She’s trying to make you think you’re doing well, so she’s faking it. Your notion that “the faster I can do this, the better” is flawed.
Man, I’m so glad I’m not in high school anymore.
which is the hoohoo again, I’ve forgot?
Oh, good call by OpalCat there. And on that note, communication is absolutely imperitive. If you do not tell him(/her) what you like and don’t like, he(/she) will never stop doing the things you don’t like and will never start doing the things you do.
ejolen, I’m fine and procrastinating studying for a Thermodynamics exam tomorrow.
Ohhhhhh…and what Opal said.
More Advice
Communication. Honesty. Talk about what you like and want and need and listen to what your lover likes and wants and needs. Its not bad, dirty, or immoral to have the most fun possible. This might take planning and actual intimacy with another human being. Pay fucking attention. My Guy #3 is stellar in bed because he’s an attentive, sensitive, caring, thoughtful person and carries that over to his actions in bed. No technique or drug can replace that.
Best sex? Hmmm…I guess that would be never (still a virgin ARGH!). Since I can’t get any help, I don’t see the harm in Do-It-Yourself once or twice a day
What is the best experience you’ve had in the world of sex?
The best wholesome one on one experience I ever had was in a cheap, ugly motel room about 2 hours north of where I live. There was snow outside (And it never snows down here in Phoenix, blech) and my SO had just gotten his hair cut (from pretty long to very short). He looked so absolutely perfect above me. happy sigh
But the most exciting situation had to be the makeout/heavy petting session in one of those 12’ diameter above ground pools on a warm summer night with 4 other girls. Rawr. It was awesome. No boys. No pressure. Some alcohol and lotsa laughs.
Techniques, kinks, voyeurism, what gets ya off?
A boy who can tell me what he likes gets me off to no end. Moan, tense, and tell me what you like! The quiet ones make me think I’m doing something wrong. =(
And being on top. That has the highest sex to orgasm ratio for me.
What would you like to tell the opposite sex for their(and their partners) benefit?
Communication is key. If I dont know what butters your toast, the chances of a physical relationship growing and changing for the better are nil.