I’m not keeping her from spreading her bullshit at all. As a matter of fact, I wish her well. However, just so you know, if you tell your audience that you wear a size 6 jeans, it is totally unnecessary to also mention that you wear size 6 panties. Even allowing for variances, why in the hell would your audience need to specifically know that your jeans are a size 6, but your undies are a 6.5? Because no matter what, her jeans couldn’t have been a 6 and her underwear a size 14 (which would be something worth commenting on). It was just another highlight to say that he was more turned off by her age and it’s progression than anything else that could’ve been wrong with her. Braggart indeed.
Not offended at all, just wondering why you have your twat in a bunch over this.
Some guys will definitely not fuck a woman because she’s wrinkly.
Well, there may be a sneak-brag parallel…
You first.
Nobody is saying otherwise.
Y’know, if she had a little subcutaneous fat, maybe she wouldn’t be so wrinkly.
Is it remotely possible that something like this really happened, and the guy was actually turned off because she was too skinny? This just now occurred to me.
You have to ignore your dick, there is no reasoning with it.
“Gimmee that!”
“Forget it. She’s a tornado of issues, needy, greedy and insecure”
“Want it! Want it now!”
“Remember last week, she was wearing a ‘Team Edward’ t-shirt…”
“That was irony! Want that!”
“No, it wasn’t. She started to talk about it and you tried to hide.”
“Don’t care, gimmee!”
“She has four cats. Fluffy, Mr. Whiskers…”
OK! OK, forget it, gimmee that one!"…
I don’t know, but the guy in her story was (according to her) so brutally honest that he didn’t seem like the type to lie about his reasons.
I’m a chick, by the way.
“No man would spend a weekend naked with some woman he was interested in and not screw her because she was too wrinkly. None.”
I stand by that statement. It doesn’t mean that a guy will stick his dick in just anything, but it does mean that it’s beyond unusual for a man to be dating a woman for several months, arrange a romantic weekend, sleep naked with contact in the same bed, then Monday morning bluntly say “I didn’t screw you because you’re old and wrinkly.”
Guys can be assholes, but not like that.
So we’ve established that being in bed naked in not necessarily a sexual situation, and that some guys will not fuck a woman if she’s wrinkly.
Given that, the story is perfectly plausible.
You’re wrong.
Guys can be exactly like that.
She says that they were in bed in a sexual way, so no.
She thought it was a sexual way.
Perhaps he was thinking “God help me, how do I get out of this…”
Additionally, this appears to be a recent event.
She’s supposedly an international speaker about women’s issues and ageism.
What do you think the odds are that she forget to mention her new career to her new beau? I’d say just about zero chance. I’ve met these types of self promoters, and they can’t resist any opportunity to talk about themselves and their pet causes.
So, this guy is dating a woman who makes some sort of living off of empowering women against society, sexism, ageism, and he’s going to bluntly say he’s not going to have sex with her because of wrinkles?
Bullshit.
You really don’t believe that a man can be shallow enough to not fuck a woman because she has wrinkles, and also insensitive enough to tell her so?
She says they kissed and implied they did some other things.
You’d think that someone who couldn’t figure out how to get out of the situation would stop taking his pants off. You’d also think someone so confused about how to handle the situation wouldn’t be so brutally honest about things when asked. He sure didn’t have any hesitation about telling her that he thought she was hard to look at and that he closed his eyes and pretended that she was younger.
And I think the part we find hard to believe is the inconsistency. He’s insensitive one minute, but wondering how he could get out of the situation the next. Why not get in the car and go home?
Right…just like all sorts of people take showers with friends of the opposite sex, in a completely non sexual way. Because…water conservation?
Not saying that it’s completely impossible, anything is possible.
But, no.
So he went along as much as he had to in order to avoid it getting awkward during the weekend trip, but once that was over he knew he wouldn’t be stuck with her and was able to be honest.
Why not go home? He doesn’t seem like the type to stretch the awkwardness out over a whole weekend. Check that, over three nights.
Not to an international speaker with a new book about sexism and ageism and self actualization.
I’d be more prone to possibly believing this story if it didn’t happen recently. Coincidentally recently. Pure coincidence. Really.
Okay, just so I’m clear on what would have to happen here for this story to be true…
1.) Guy is used to younger womens, but decides to date an ‘older’ woman anyway.
2.) They date for several months without any sexy times at all that require him seeing her naked.
3.) He likes, apparently, everything else about her.
4.) He spends all weekend in bed with her naked, still without no sexy times.
5.) After the fact, he tells her the reason for no sexy times was her too aged (for him) body. And this is something he says to a person whose career is fighting against ageism against women.
Wow. That’s some kind of fella to meet all that criteria. I can believe that all men don’t sleep with every woman that presents the opportunity. I can believe that men find all sorts of things unattractive and unappealing. I can believe that some men are brutally honest in their rejections. What I cannot believe is the perfect storm in that article. Nope.