I’m in a relationship that was going extremely well and I loved my partner to bits. However, recently my partner got circumcised because of medical reasons and I was all prepared for this and okay with this fact. But after the operation something suddenly just changed, and my own view of my partner and how he is, entirely changed. I still knew that he is whom he is and that his personality is intact, but my love for him and the way I see him had vanished. He became just an acquaintance, and I did not want to be near him.
Things worth mentioning to this text is though that I could not handle the circumcision itself at all, and the fact that it happened still makes me shiver. Why that is I don’t know, but I do have a fear of separated limbs. It should be completely irrelevant in this case though in my opinion, but you never know.
Also, I know I’m crazy, but this makes me believe I’m truly insane!
And I’m not circumcised myself, because I’m a woman.
Now to my question, is there a way to fix this according to your opinions? Or should I just drop the relationship like its hot?
Oh and, has anyone else ever experienced a problem like this? Feelings-loss, or circumcision problems that is relevant to this matter.