In this IMHO thread, Heckity tells us that her son’s girlfriend has been raped, and she asks for input on counseling her son not to take the law into his own hands. (He’s 20, strong, an MMA fighter, in his mom’s opinion he’s potentially “dangerous,” and wants to kick the rapist’s ass.)
If you’ve ever had a rape in your family (I’ve had more than one), then you know how traumatic the situation can be for all involved.
But msmith537, FoieGrasIsEvil, bengangmo, and Mr Happy decide that this thread, at this time, is the best forum to point out that it’s just possible that a rape victim–scratch that; this isn’t in the abstract, it’s about real people in a real situation–that it’s possible that Heckity’s son’s girlfriend is a lying whore.
They claim the moral highground of “devil’s advocate,” but the festival of brutal insensitivity–sorry, the helpful input designed to make sure everyone thinks of the rapist’s feelings too–starts with this post, from the ignore-list regular msmith537:
–and continues, still being constructive here–
–and ends up here:
My posted response to this got me a Mod warning. My unposted response would’ve gotten me banned.
In response to my WtF, the rest of the guys chime in, defending msmith and the rapist, refusing to understand that while their points are worth discussing–are in fact currently being discussed in other threads, so they wouldn’t even have to start their own–worth discussing in the abstract, but not in this thread, at this time.
Pretty fucking disgusting. (What’s the limit on the ignore list feature?)