Not sure where to put this. I have argued with my Dad, a retired Army general, about the NFL protests started by Colin Kaepernick for awhile now. He’s a lifelong fan, but now refuses to watch the games, because he claims that (along with fucking Trump) that they don’t deserve the game, it’s a priveldge, should be fired, etc. Except I’ve caught him watching the games too, Thanksgiving and Christmas…this after lecturing me that the NFL is suffering because of guys like him that have staged online veterans counter protest groups.
Frankly I tire of this issue with him because he’s wrong, he doesn’t understand the plight of minorities to this day, doesn’t seem to get that it’s free speech, etc.
He sent me this email and this is my response. Remember that this is a highly educated, West Point grad Engineer with a degree in science from Illinois. My mind still boggles and I will be very curious as to his reply.
His email (copied) to me: “NFL FACTS”
*In 2012 the NFL had an issue with Tim Tebow kneeling for each game to pray, they also had an issue with Tebow wearing John 3:16 as part of his eye-black to avoid glare, and made him take it off.
In 2013 the NFL fined Brandon Marshall for wearing green cleats to raise awareness for people with mental health disorders.
In 2014 Robert Griffin III (RG3) entered a post-game press conference wearing a shirt that said “Know Jesus Know Peace” but was forced to turn it inside out by an NFL uniform inspector before speaking at the podium.
In 2015 DeAngelo Williams was fined for wearing “Find the Cure” eye black for breast cancer awareness.
In 2015 William Gay was fined for wearing purple cleats to raise awareness for domestic violence. (Not that the NFL has a domestic violence problem…)
In 2016 the NFL prevented the Dallas Cowboys from wearing a decal on their helmet in honor of 5 Dallas Police officers killed in the line of duty.
In 2016 the NFL threatened to fine players who wanted to wear cleats to commemorate the 15th anniversary of 9/11.
So tell me again how the NFL supports free speech and expression, all of a sudden…
It seems quite clear based on these facts that the NFL has taken a position against any action by NFL players demonstrating RESPECT for any issue: For God, social causes such as mental health, cancer, domestic violence, for cops killed arbitrarily for being cops, for the Memory of 9/11…
But, they will allow demonstrations of DISRESPECT for our National Flag, our National Anthem, for America, and for the American People, if it will help mollify a particular Group and its supporters (such as BLM, and other leftists)
That is who and what the NFL has shown itself to be.
Pass this post along to all your friends and family. Honor our military, too many of whom have come home with the American Flag draped over their coffin.
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My reply (how did I do?)
**Dad-
I’m sorry but the logic doesn’t follow here. Yes, many players have personal “crusades” and “causes” that they donate money, time and attention to, and, pay fines for when they violate NFL uniform rules. I think the movement with the Anthem, started by Colin Kaepernick (whom still doesn’t have a job because he’s been blackballed by the league…and is mediocre), was just a different (and apparently more effective) way to grab attention to a serious issue of race, that still exists in the 21st century, though you’d think it wouldn’t or shouldn’t be an issue anymore after everything we’ve been through with slavery, Jim Crow and the civil rights movement.
Police are STILL killing black people with little or no repurcussions, nor much in the way of a valid reason to do so. Police circle the wagons in defense of their fellow officers when these cloudy killings happen, many of which have video evidence to support that the police were in the wrong, or acted prematurely with deadly force when other options were available to them.
I understand you are a patriot whom has fought for his country and served a large portion of his life, and that is commendable, honorable, and worthy of respect.
But as this email mentions, the NFL seems to be saying that they don’t support free speech…until they do. Kneeling for the anthem in this case was NEVER INTENDED to disrespect the flag or our veterans. It was meant to draw attention to the ongoing plight of minorities that continues to plague our nation, even though we’re supposedly the “land of the free” (if you’re white, or rich, evidently). Veterans only TOOK this demonstration as a sign of disrespect. And then ran with it. If you ask any of these guys, they’ll tell you it was a means to an end…to draw attention to an ongoing problem, not to say that they hate America.
Remember when Tommie Smith and John Carlos raised their black-gloved fists in a “Black Panther” salute in the 1968 Olympics in Mexico? Can you not see the similarity here? Remember the outrage that those “niggers” DARED to cause after winning the 200m race? That’s what a lot of white people thought at the time, in the heart of the civil rights movement to boot. Uppity niggers is what whites thought at the time. How dare they, during that sacred anthem?
Have you ever once considered that the anthem has a very different meaning to people of color than to us? For hundreds of years, it meant slavery and discrimination. And it still does, to some extent, even if we don’t wish it to be so. We can’t handwave it away, nor should we condemn the free speech rights of people of color to express their dissatisfaction with 2017 race relations, even if they are relatively rich athletes. Most people of color live below the poverty line, it is them that they are drawing attention to. You can bring up all the welfare, etc arguments that you want, but your white “loser” son lives because of such programs right now because right now, I do not have another choice, and neither do many of them.
I thought you were a student of history. What about the treatment of Native Americans that continues to this day? Whereby they’re herded onto reservations, isolated from the world, in a land of deserts, casinos, alcohol and depression. Are they not worthy of our pity or compassion? We put them there collectively as a race of whites.
This is the issue in a nut. It’s not about the song, it’s about the perception of what it represents to different people. They are entitled to their perception, especially when their perception of America is colored (no pun) by the situations they are in, the history of what we, as whites, have done to them, and ultimately…yes, it is about free speech. Burning the flag, as reprehensible as many, including myself, might find it, is also free speech. It can’t all be good. The rights we have include all these things, just as it is your right to get mad about it, choose not to buy the NFL product or watch it, or whatever.
I love you Dad, and please believe me when I say that I am NOT a bleeding heart liberal. But I subsist on a combination of your generosity and state programs that many, many minorities also subsist on. The NFL protests are small potatoes compared to the other problems that still infest our society.**