This is the most twisted thread of any message board I have ever read. My eyes are bugging out from trying to figure out left from right, up from down! Bears? Peanut Butter? WTF does that have to do with the tea in China? < hehe >
I think what Poly may be trying to say, from my interpretation is, it’s time to take down the armor and try have healthy discussions. Read and state your post in a manner that suggests thought and understanding (even if you don’t understand.)
I have stated (in my few short months on this board) that this a message board which is so different than a chat session and farther from real life conversations. You can’t politely interupt the person speaking and as in IRL you can’t evoke your emotions with your voice.
Lib, you and I have a lot that is in common with regards to our beliefs. I must admit I stayed away from the Up the Butt Bob board as the first few comments after your posting seemed to be quite rude to anything you said. In addition to that, I have stayed away from some of the stronger debates because of how impassionate people can get which in turn leads to almost insults.
I have experienced this in some of my own “conflicts” on the boards. My concern for you from what I have seen on this thread is that(trying hard to word this right because again you and I have a lot of the same beliefs) you are taking David B.s and others beliefs and making them sound as if they are discounting you. From my own experience as a non-Christian but a theist and a former atheist, that I may disregard my family’s beliefs about Jesus Christ, the Bible and such, but in my heart I know they are the same people I have loved all my life. I don’t look at another and state, well you believe this way therefore you don’t exist. I know in my heart that the things that my family learns and studies everyday don’t apply to me for my own very personal reasons. But I can’t convince the color blind person that green and yellow are different.
What you feel in your heart is obviously dear to you. But as a Libertarian first and foremost you also have to accept that there will be those that oppose your views religiously as they do under any other form of government. But you Lib, you of all people should not feel as though you are being personally attacked by what you believe and what other’s don’t. Yes these are issues with you that help you through the day…but my friend, there is a time that you need to step back and take a deep breath. There’s never a good place to hold back, but maybe in some instances there are times you do need to take a deep breath.
In issues that have been brought up about your Father, I don’t believe for a minute that they mean any disrespect to you at all. I think not believing is easier than believing. I back you up whole heartedly on having a strong belief, but again if someone believed in Budda or The Shaman only sets you apart as humans thinking not as spiritual beings in my eyes. I don’t think of Atheists looking upon us thesists and saying “you think about God, therefore you are worthless.” They see, from my own perspective as a former atheist, what the hell are you people doing? You believe in something that I can’t touch, feel, taste or see therefore it doesn’t exist. Not all think this way but many do. But I, well, I always figured, if that’s what gets you through the day fine. I have changed because of certain things in my life that should have had a different outcome, there was something there protecting me I truly believe this.
As for David B. (don’t kick me outa the boards please < on knees >) but you obviously have stricken a cord with Lib regarding his beliefs. I say to you too, there are times when one needs to hold back a little and think about what consequences your words may have on the other. I know this is not a popular view with anyone, but it’s true.
I was blasted in the adoption ring for my beliefs and I calmly (I think) came back with an answer that didn’t offend anyone but stated my position on the matter. Stupidly I bring up a lot of personal stuff that people seem to love to take through the ringer. Hey, no skin off my back. If I said it, then I better be able to back up my words or eat them.
As for anyone on this board, except for the people that come in here souly to create problems, this is a good place to come to. Poly is right, “When people sign on this board, they get welcomed warmly and share in a lot of intellectual and sometimes emotional give-and-take. And that’s what makes a community.” The rest will find their way out the door. And unfortunately from my many years experience on AOL all it takes is for some fuck up to screw up the entire party, if only they had an ignore button for those that you call “trolls.”
Damn, this is long…sorry, I just wanted to put in my two cents worth…and Lib…take it easy listen to some mellow music while on the boards, dang I am so mellow!
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Hope that came out right < keeping fingers crossed >