OKcupid: So we both "liked" each other, am I the one that is supposed to break the ice?

[Lemmytheseal2]

@Stringbean

Women almost never send the first message; they are too prideful.

Here’s how to play it:

Send a friendly message.

If she ignores it, send a second friendly message a few days later.

If she ignores that, you’re done.

**By friendly message, I don’t mean some pussy boring shit like “Hey you’re pretty and I’d like to hang out sometime.” You gotta stand out and make a connection.

I do that, again and again and again, and nothing happens…

@Eliahna

Sometimes women can be afraid that sending the first message is too forward, and they’ll be considered slutty, desperate or aggressive. There’s a subset of men who do react that way.

Damn, I would love that!

I noticed this thread because, recently, I upgraded my membership so I can see everyone who’s actually indicated that they “like” me. I can’t figure out why they do this when we’ve got obvious deal-breakers. It’s been disappointing so far.