(Old) Be-Laboring A Point- An End Of Summer MMP

Looks like we’re helping my son move tomorrow.

nellie, I’m glad it wasn’t terrible news about the knee. Buck that rude guy!

FCM, hope no one was hurt or worse in the fire.

I weed wacked, edged, and mowed the lawn today. Watered my plants, and gave the birds fresh water too.

Summer is definitely waning around here. The quality of the light is different and the yard isn’t getting as much sunlight as a month ago because the sun is sitting lower. The trees behind me cast a lot of shade and are very tall. I snapped some pics and shared them on the book of faces. My firelight hydrangea is looking nice with the older blooms and new blooms have slowed down.

Hope that the knees continue to improve cookie and nellie.

Don’t overdo yourself helping your son move taters. I’m glad that he’s getting into a better living situation.

Hope that no one was injured in the house fire Moooooom.

I was an earlier adapter of the mobile phone. I was living halfway up the Cumberland Plateau and driving to east Nashville to irk, 47 miles in each direction. When I got bumped to second shift, I decided that, since I had to drive through the projects on the irk end and had sixteen miles going home that had nothing open at that hour, I really needed to have some means of communication in my vehicle. Back in those days, I was paying 70 a month just for connection and the clock began ticking at .38 a minute as soon as anyone began talking. I gave that number to very few people. Even my mom didn’t have it, since she had no sense of for emergency use only , although Dad did have it. I had Verizon as a carrier the.

When I moved back to the city, I went from that old Nokia the size of my hand to a Samsung flip phone and went with Cingular. Then it got swallowed up by AT&T and I’ve had them since. I’m looking at switching back to Verizon though, because Ma Bell is beginning to get a bit spendy. I haven’t had a land line since, oh, about 1998, when I went from dial-up to cable internet.

I went to the far side of the 'Boro to pick up a MarketPlace buy this afternoon. I got one helluva deal (only spent $5 and got 3 Cricut cartridges, new in the box that would normally sell for $20 each), but the traffic sucked badly.

Now to play around in the studio. :slight_smile:

  There actually are a couple of CD’s in the center console.  There is a two-disc set of instrumental Ralph Von Williams pieces, and another CD of assorted classical pieces, which we got specifically because it contains the proper orchestral version of my favorite Ralph Von Williams piece, of which only the instrumental version is on that first set.

Evening all. The third (and last) laundry load is rinsing now, it will go to the dryer soon as it is done and they all I have to worry about is hanging and folding all the stuff. Big Bowl of Sallit has been consumed and will head off to bed early since I have a full day of soccer tomorrow…at least the temperatures will be a little cooler (high about 82F).

Hope there were no casualties at the fire, Moooomm…either residents or firefighters.

nellie, at least you know what it is now. Make sure they get that PT scheduled, don’t take ‘no’ or even ‘perhaps’ for an answer! And I’ll have to remember that word for times I want to say it without saying it.

Swampy, there is a Newk’s fairly close to me, never tried it since they don’t have cheeseburgers , but may have to stop in sometime based on your recommendation, I like a nummy mac-n-cheese to.

Taters, hope the moving goes as planned.

OK, sounds like the washer is on the final spin cycle, so need to take laundry load #2 out of the dryer and put load #3 in it. Have a good night all.

We tried a new (to us) place today. Gateway 1890 Taphouse & grill. Wifey had the pulled pork sandwich. I had a bite of the meat, and it was really tender and smokey. Since it was our first time there, I had a cheeseburger. It was good, but I think Bay Breeze down the beach and The Beach Bar make better burgers. I’ll try a taco salad next time. I was going to try a brew I haven’t had before, but they were out; so I had a couple of Kiltlifters.

Seems like there’s a bear family wandering around in the greater Blaine area. Good thing you’ve got those otters to defend the kitties.

Yep. I’ve been seeing reports of black bears in Blaine. One mentioned a mother and two cubs, and one of the cubs was injured. (This was from a post yesterday.)

That’s what I’ve been seeing, too.

Up from naptime. Laundry is put away, I’m having a gin&tonic(in my Tiki Old Fashioned glass), and my perch and wild rice blend is almost ready.

“My shift key is wonky, and after a long shift I didn’t notice” :crazy_face:

snert-I grew up hearing that. I’d have thought I would have grown out of it by now, but I guess not!

Cause everyone knows that you don’t have just one hobby, your hobby is buying things for your first hobby, LOL!

We love you too, but you need to take care of yourself first. We will be here when you return and yes, we will want the scoop on yelling boss.

QFT.

NF was the one who suggested I bring the food over while she was gone, she would have been happy to hear that we had wasted the afternoon looking at his rocks and talking favorite writers and genres. I’m the one who got weird about it despite knowing that the neighbors probably wouldn’t have given it a second thought if they had even noticed.

I see Ryder trucks delivering FedEx packages on a regular basis. I see regular looking people driving Home Depot rental trucks, so maybe he’s going to pick one and a trailer up there.

I’m glad you know what is going on. I hope you can get the PT thing straightened out soon.

Ya never know, cats is sneaky!

Good mac 'n cheese is food of the gods.

Be sure to wear a shirt.

:frowning:

Today was pretty non-productive, as it should be. VBC is concerning me, we weighed her last night and she’s lost 2 pounds. She’s not acting like she is in pain and she’s eating and pooping so it isn’t an emergency. This morning I called and made an appointment for a check-up and some blood work to see why she “ain’t doing right”, which is an official veterinary term.

This afternoon I found a recipe for peach bars and gave it a try. I thought I was making bars that could be eaten with fingers, but these are pretty crumbly. I cut the sugar in half because we don’t like super sweet stuff, but I really don’t think that is why they didn’t work as promised.

I did learn something. Usually when I poach peaches for peeling, I leave them in the ice bath until they are cool to the touch and then peel and cut. Today I left them in the ice bath for almost an hour and the peels slipped off the peaches while I was taking them out. I’m lazy, Imma remember this for future use.

I wound up taking “Assassins” along. Only got halfway through by the time I arrived.

Happy Thorsday!

It was hot today, until the thunderboomers came through with cooler temps.

{{{{Wordy}}}} I am so sorry about your mom.

It’s been… so much around here.
Last night I fell asleep in my chair. I kept waking up and thinking I needed to go to bed, and then fell back asleep. The chair is great for my back, but my feet and ankles swell.

My son came home this morning, car sick from the cab ride.
He said the woman got a call from her son, something about his inhaler. My son said she then floored it, taking turns too fast and had to slam on the brakes to keep from hitting another car. He said he understood if there was a problem with her son, so he isn’t going to make a complaint. He was going to ask her to just let him out and he would walk the rest of the way once she was in the neighborhood.

Yesterday I really went off on him. There was a mix up with the cabs, and he never speaks up. He got off at 645 and didn’t get home until 815. I was still upstairs and needed to go out. I had to pee so bad, but I knew if I got up the dogs would get excited and race downstairs expecting me to follow. I laid into him about his shyness and his need to speak up, and that if he would just get his damn license, none of this would have to be this way.
Then I went off on myself, because if I was taking care of myself, I wouldn’t be going through all the shit I’m going through and I’d be able to get out of bed and go downstairs and let the dogs out myself.

I can get up by myself now. I was so weak before and it would hurt so bad if I didn’t have my son’s help.


Happy Friday!

I couldn’t finish last night because the dogs insisted that I go to bed.
They weren’t going to let me be, so I took my sorry ass, and back, up the stairs to bed.
Going up isn’t so bad.

It’s a cloudy 72 degrees outside. I’m content with staying in. My son doesn’t have to irk OT today, which makes me happy. We have only enough cash for one more cab ride, and if I have to go to the bank to get cash, then I may as well just take him to irk and save the money.

I took him to irk yesterday. We had to go over to the new house to take in some deliveries. I doubt that porch pirates are a problem over there, but there’s no sense in testing that theory. I’m a little annoyed at HD because stuff was delivered earlier than expected. I’m trying to do as little as possible until my back is healed. If everything was delivered as expected, I wouldn’t have so many trips to make over there.

We are going over tomorrow. I’m taking the dogs with us because we will be there for a while. Also, the GR are bored out of their minds and driving us crazy. I need to remember to take a water bowl for them. We’ll take a few small things with us as well. We can’t fit much in the loaner.
My son needs to put the lawn mower together and mow the lawn. He is bitching about it, though.
I know he is tired and sore from irk, I also know he is only 28, so get over it.
It’s supposed to rain every day this week, the grass is going to be waist high if we don’t tackle it now.
We can put the new rug down in the dining room and see if it fits. If it’s too big, it can go into the living room.

I get my truck back Toosday. The dealership had to order a part and that will be put on Moonday. I could take it then, but they recommend I let the technician drive it for a day and pick it up Toosday. I agree, let them make sure everything is good.
It’s gone from @ $200, to @ $700, to @ $1300.
I really have no choice, and they have no idea why the wiring went bad.

Should have listened to the ‘little voice’.
I wish it would give me some winning numbers, Doggio.

The GR have discovered the mail today. I wondered why they were squabbling at the door. Misiu came running with some mail in his mouth with Rayleigh in pursuit. I tried to get Misiu to give it to me but it was too chaotic for him to understand. I finally got the mail, and it was soaked. Good thing it was junk mail.

Jimmy Buffett, Gary Wright, and Steve Harwell.
Three in a row, too sad.

The laundry detergent I use, Aunt Nellie’s, is proud to let you know that it is vegan and non gmo, among other things. I thought it was a joke, but it seems there are people who care about such things in their laundry detergent.
I like it because it has no scent.

JtC, I am going to try to keep Adam in after we move. It may not irk because he likes to go potty outside. I got rid of the litter box years ago. I kept one in the house, just in case, and he never used it.

Happy new floor, Wet One

Swampy, I think I will like the new stove, being able to choose the burner size is a plus for me.
I can’t wait for the washer; I have huge things to wash and I don’t want to go to the laundry mat to do them.

I’m starting to get excited about moving.
I need to make a list, and a plan.

There is someone interested in my house. They want to do a rent to buy deal, which is okay with me except I don’t know where to begin. I’ll call the realtor tomorrow and see what she says.

FCM - leg and foot cramps can be dehydration, but also a B-12 or Magnesium deficiency.

In the wtf area. I got the check from the lawyer for the bounced check fee. We had to sign for it, a tiny check. We never had to sign for the 6-figure check.
It doesn’t make sense.

I rate my son’s sleep more important than mine on the days he has to irk. He irks 12-hour days, and it’s hot and tiring irk. Some of it, like selecting, isn’t so bad if you are sleep deprived. However, stocking and shipping both need you to pay attention to what you are doing or you can get hurt.
I irk from home and have more flexibility with my schedule.
But I know my body is screaming at me to rest.
I hear you Nellie, that I should have help. Barky/Humpy mom would do it; she has offered. But she is the kind of person who fills the room, if you know what I mean? She means well, and her heart is in the right place,
There are others I know would help; I just hate to impose on them.
My friend in Baltimore would be perfect, but she is not close. She is great at taking care of people. She steps in when needed, then goes back to her book and leaves you alone. She always volunteered to take me to the hospital and doctor visits because it got her out of the house, away from her family, and gave her a chance to be left alone with her book.
Anyway, the pain and weakness has subsided enough now that I can sit up by myself. It may take me a minute, or two, or three. I’m still leery of the stairs, but I’m getting down them now. I’m just very careful.
I feel like a big baby though.
A lot of y’all are in pain too, and you keep pushing on.
I don’t even want to think about the pain of a knee replacement. It hurts just thinking about it.
I hope your PT people start doing their job soon.

I’ll be happy to get my truck back so we can start moving.
I haven’t started packing yet, but we can pack as we go.

I’m glad your knee is no longer seeping, Cookie

I hope you enjoyed your mental health day, Red

I think blue dragon is pretty, Rocky.
I’ve been debating if I want to paint any of the rooms before I move in the new house.
I like just a hint of color though.
I did that once though, I picked a shade of pink just one step up from white. However, the walls I was covering were chocolate brown (remember when that was the rage) and I ended up with pink walls. My friends had nothing nice to say about them at first, but then all of them admitted that once you got used to it, the pink was pretty.

If it’s a circle you want, my advice to Shoe is - I don’t know. I know sometimes you think you aren’t okay, but I think you are okay, you just don’t know it. Being okay is a pretty wide spectrum, and I know people who are definitely not okay, and you are not one of them.
I’m really tired, maybe that doesn’t make sense.

UGH!
I’m trying to catch up.
I overslept this morning and that messed up my pill schedule. What I was taking at midnight has been moved to 2am. I’ll take the pill to bed with me and if I wake up at 2 or later, I’ll take it. Otherwise, I may have trouble getting out of bed in the morning.

Sari, in some ways, you and I think a lot alike, and I’m not sure that’s good. I, too, tend to think, "I can handle that if I just take it slow/keep moving/am careful. And for me, too, it’s because I HATE having to ask people for favors. Hate it. And asking one of my kids for a favor? Perish the thought! But one thing you and I have to learn, Sari, is that sometimes asking for help IS self-care. You’re still not steady. If it’s taking you a few tries to get up, you’re not recuperated enough to be doing so on your own every day.

Imagine if you fell and got hurt because you didn’t want to wake up your son. How would he feel? He’s a good guy who loves you, so he’d feel awful, that’s how. (And so would we.) Still, you need someone else. If you don’t want to ask your friends to help you, ask if they know anyone who might be able to help out for a few days for reasonable pay.

About the cab rides…don’t you have Uber or Lyft in your area? Either one is cheaper than a taxi except during surge hours, and your son doesn’t get off work during surge pricing. They also tend to be careful drivers because their customers rate them. The last time I took a taxi, the cabbie was high on something hallucinogenic. He kept seeing sparkles and was afraid to pull over at my hotel lest his cab fall into the Sound, a full three blocks away. Please, please don’t try to pick him up late at night any more. You’ll wear yourself out, and you’re already the kind of bone-deep tired that comes from years of little rest. Explain to him why you just cannot do it any more. He’s 28, and that’s old enough to understand.

OK, flip me off if you feel the need. I don’t mind. :slight_smile:

I have to admit, I got a chuckle out of the GR’s and the soggy mail. Now if you could teach them to lick stamps!

I think you meant to say, “I’m efficient!”

Up, caffeinated, and sheveled. Off to heave. It’s my Firday!

{{{{JtC and VBC}}}}

sari, definitely rest, and let Son do a bit more for you.

But there’s pain and then there’s pain. Some can be worked thru, since it’s no biggie, some is your body saying “Knock it off!!!” FCD had to have his last spinal surgery because he didn’t listen to Knock it off and he did irreparable damage to his spine, resulting in the neuropathy. You don’t want to do permanent damage, so listen to your body! I have spoken!!!

Does the USPS even make lickable stamps any longer?? You’re talking like an old lady there!!! :stuck_out_tongue:

Slept with Mel last night and I didn’t want to get up this morning, but Higgs needs her meds more or less on a schedule and I don’t want to get it out of whack. She’s supposed to take them with food and while she’ll eat any time, I prefer to limit her mealtimes lest she turn into a fatty fat pug. So she’s been fed and medicated and I just finished my egg-n-cheese-on-a-tortilla wrap.

This eating plan is working - I’ve dropped 7 of the regained pounds so far. And I do feel better, tho I’m still fighting the sugar cravings sometimes. A sweet tooth can be a real bitch!! But keeping the diary really does help, so I shall persevere.

Speaking of cell phones, this is similar to our first. It might be the same, but it was so long ago, I don’t recall the actual model. I remember there was a monthly charge plus a per-minute and I hated having to use it. I also recall a later pay-as-you-go plan where I was charged by the minute to talk and by the text to send and receive. Hated that, too, tho it was cheap since I didn’t talk and text much. Our plan now is unlimited talk and text, and 1G shared data. This month we didn’t even use half of the data - thanks WiFi!! :laughing:

FCD plans to work in his shop today. I have a bunch of chores I’d like to get done, at least one of which depends on whether it rains or not. Then this afternoon, I hope to crochet a few more critters for Daughter’s school fund raiser. It’ll be a full day, but not too taxing, I hope. We’ll see as we go along.

Happy Saturday!!

Good Mornin’ Y’all! Up and caffeinatin’.‘Tis < snerk > 69! < snerk > Amurrkin out and partly cloudy with a predicted high of 89 and mostly N.O.S. for the day. We shall have some quality cee-mint pond time today. Since the temp is a little cooler than it has been, should be nice to lounge out there. Perhaps even acheive some nappage whilst upon my float. Other than that, the ususal sloth, general over uselessness, day drinkin’, and bein’ useless drains on society shall prevail. However, I shall make an actual sup. Green beans, new N.O.T., ham steaks, and rolls. Not a whole lot of effort involved, but will be nummy.

For those of you who have a Newk’s in your area, I do highly recommend tryin’ it out. They do have really good sallits and sammiches, even pizza. Plus I could eat my way out of a vat of the mac 'n cheese.

sari do get some rest and let your body heal. OYKW went with a rent to buy deal for his house and it worked out. I was skeptical, but got proven wrong. He worked the deal through a realtor.

MOOOOOOM my very first "cell"phone was one of those bag phones. I felt so high class! After that I had a flip phone for years until about six years ago when I took the plunge and got a smart phone. I like to text now, and like the data for when I have to sit somewhere like the doc’s office and need to entertain myself.

Nellie glad you got some answers about your knee. Yay for bein’ able to use topical creams for the itchin’. Lean hard on the PT place so you can get that goin’.

Now I need more caffeine and to feed rumbly tummy. Then, onward into the day! Rah.

Happy Sattidy Y’all!

Good morning!

It’s 52F, dark and clear outside. We should see high temps of around 85F and it’s supposed to be sunny outside too.

I’m glad my son doesn’t have much in the way of big stuff to move and his new place is on the ground floor. He’s only moving his TV, TV stand, bed, and desks. The rest of the stuff is small and can be moved more easily. He insists he only needs our help with the big stuff, but I told him since we’re going to be down there, let’s just knock everything out. That way, everything is done, and he can settle in. He’s stubborn, though, so we’ll see how it goes.

I didn’t really sleep well last night; it took forever to fall asleep, and then I only catnapped through the night. My husband’s tossing, turning, and scratching didn’t help. Finally, he got a horrible Charlie horse which caused him to yell out in pain, so I gave up and got out of bed. I’ll need to get some bananas into him.

The grandkids seem to really enjoy the country life. My daughter sent some more pictures yesterday. I’m glad they like it so much, although I miss them terribly.

Alrighty, time for that second cup of coffee. Everyone take care!

Mornin all! Just sunrise here and I’ve been balconatin’ for about 90 minutes. NWS sez 79/26 now on the way to 91/33. The seabreeze has died as usual at dawn but will return soon, and the birds are just wrapping up all their morning greetings to each other.


{{Sari}}. You are beset on all sides and yet you soldier on. That is the definition of bravery. You’re a good person who deserves far better than you’re getting.

I’ll join (again) the chorus that your priorities need to be you, you, you, you, and you. Then son if there’s any energy left. And sometime next week month, your menagerie. Refusing to get out of bed to pee because it would disappoint the dogs is … well … “silly” is the nicest possible word I can come up with. Don’t do that. Please. For your sake.


As to me:
Well, yesterday’s irk was pretty triumphant. Had a nice crew, left early and arrived early both times, had pretty weather & a magnificent after-dark arrival into beautiful lit-up Miami with time to savor it all. While monster thunderstorms made an awesome lightning show just far enough away we could enjoy it without them wrecking our irkday. Even made two much better than average landings by my standards. When I was busy it was easy to stay focused on the task at hand, but the calm minutes had a lot of “never again” pathos; it is a rare and special place I’ve spent a lot of my life experiencing. A great privilege, and one that’s still hard to give up, despite years of watching the countdown approach zero.

Before we’d gotten started I’d told the crew this was probably my last trip. Unbeknownst to me on the flight home the lead FA had told the passengers this was my last flight. So I got a stream of congrats and "enjoy retirement"s from the departing crowd. 150-ish of the roughly 1 million I’ve transported someplace. Very touching, and a sweet way to wrap it up. As always, I’m last off the jet, a couple minutes after the FA’s. Take a last look around then up the jetbridge & close the security door behind me. Well, that’s that. All that remains is to walk to the car and drive home.

Not so fast, Batman!

I turn on my phone and am greeted by a cacophony of noises from HQ. Yep I’m workin’ Sat & Sun too. It’s pretty anomalous that they’d already found something for me to do almost 24 hours in advance. A more paranoid person would say they were abusing me. But I checked their decision process, and other than them being perhaps unnecessarily hasty, I got what was my turn to get.

So tonight mid-evening I fly to Newark. Then the next evening I fly back home after almost 19 hours off. In the biz there’s a saying: “First prize is a short overnight in EWR; second prize is a long one.” Ugh.

So having awoken early today after a late and therefore short night just now, today will be mostly wasted with a nap before irk. One upside is the hotel is near the train station to NYC. So I could ride over there on Sunday morning and wander around. Downtown Manhattan is never closed, but Sunday morning is not its best time. Most of the attractions open late enough I’d barely get there and it’d be time to turn around. Doubly so since the transit schedules on Sunday are a lot less frequent than on weekdays.

Sigh. So much for the storybook ending. They had to drop one last “aw shit” or at least “Ugh drudgery!” onto my pile. Today’s task is to get my attitude realigned so this’ll be fun. The weather is supposed to be a mixed bag: 80s, but good chance of showers & thunder. Might be great, might be a deluge. Were this February it’d really be a bummer. Glass mostly full.

After I get home from this, the next day Mon is my very final potential irkday. Which would have to be late afternoon-evening irk again. Which would be a mixed bag of possibly something better to wrap up with, versus just not being bothered and being done done. Hard to say which outcome I’d prefer. Not that I’ll get a vote in which outcome I get.

That last potential day is also 9/11. 22 years is a long time ago, a third of a lifetime and 2/3rds of a career. I was never too bent out of shape about it; war is like that. But it does bring out a lot of weirdness in both passengers and airline folks.

All in all, a bucking bronco of possibilities and feelings. C’est la guerre.

Morning all. Up early, will leave for the soccer fields around 8am and won’t be back home until after 2pm. At least it’s cooler, about 67F now and only getting to 82F this afternoon.

All the laundry got folded, hung and put away last night, which was doing very good work by my standards. Now have to get back to messing them up again.

Well, shift happens.

Sari, won’t lecture you, nellie and FCM took care of that, so I’ll content myself with {{hugs}}} and a stern but loving “Take care of yourself, y’hear?”

Looks like Ryder’s is more into leasing trucks to companies these days rather than the local family mover.

JtC, hoping VBC gets to doing better. Maybe missing the familiar smell/sight of COC.

Taters, happy child-moving.

Pilot, so instead of a perfect day of work to retire, they send you to Newark…like the Science Fiction author Larry Niven coined, “TANJ!!” (There Ain’t No Justice) should be a cuss word.

OK, need to get dressed and remember 10-12 things to take with me (forgot my whistle last week, only have 3-4 around the house). Have a good Sattiday all.