(Old) GoGo on Vacation - A Holiday MMP

One funny thing from yesterday, that is Wednesday, was one of the handouts I received was a wood clothespin with the head of one of the guys glued to the end. I clipped it into the V of my top. Later some young lady said he was her favorite band member so I gave it to her; she was ecstatic.

Thursday morning. Woke up a little later 7:30ish; ha. Sheveled while BF looked up possible breakfast locations because this Red Roof Inn did not serve breakfast. Then I also looked. There were 2 possiblities about a mile from the motel and they were across the road and kitty corner from each other. We tried Schultzy’s Place and Deb, our waitress, was tops. I had scrambled eggs, home fried crispy potatoes, 2 slices of bacon and 2 sausage links, whole wheat toast with orange marmalade and hot tea. BF had a vegetarian omelette with hash browns and GF toast. I gave her one of my sausage links and took the other to go. Then we walked over to the other diner and peeked in; the menu said they only serve breakfast on Sundays-weird- so that was off the list for Friday breakfast.

Back to motel. Made up more goodie baggies. Read some more of Alex Cross Must Die. Had some toast and butter that I had brought from first Red Roof Inn, the sausage link and some huge cherry tomatoes that I had brought from home. Rested a bit then it was time to head back to Gillette Stadium.

BF is enamored with use of electronics for in car routing. She had both a Garmin and Waze on phone going. They were giving differing routes. I generally study maps or Mapquest in advance when I’m going on a trip so I know exactly how to get where I am going. Many times I will copy and paste the route into a Word document so I can consult it, if need be. Since this wasn’t my trip, I did none of that. Well, I got out my phone and Mapquested which said to take the same route as Waze said. Which meant not going on I495 instead getting off I295 on US1 which was Washington St which you’ll remember from yesterday is where Gillette Stadium is. Aside: since there likely aren’t a lot of football fans amongst the mmp, Gillette Stadium is where the New England Patriots play; I have to believe you’ve heard of Tom Brady. Washington Street ended up being so fast as most traffic was routed on the interstates.

We parked at the same lot as it was convenient, clean, reasonable for where we were going (saw closer lots for $60, $80 and one for $100; cripes. We did not dilly dally, I just again hightailed it to the porta potty and while it was still clean, it stunk to high heaven; the contents from Wednesday obviously hadn’t been evacuted. But plenty of TP and hand sanitizer. Again a very hot day, mid to high 80s but also quite humid so it seemed hotter than Wednesday. I had taken 2 purple tank tops so since the band’s favorite color is purple which means LOVE to them, that’s what I wore along with my gray convertible pants with the bottoms again stuffed into the pockets. I also wore a pair of lavender smartwool ankle socks. (I do have a pair of purple convertibles but I didn’t take them as I didn’t know in advance of the band’s preference for purple). BF changed into the same purple T but a black pair of pajama type pants that had the names of the band members all over in purple writing. Then we were off.

Again met a lot of people walking along and traded with them or just gave out the goodie baggies. We particularly tried to give them to children meaning 5 yrs-early teen girls. I mean what does a woman, particularly over a certain age, need with those pictures, stickers, buttons, clothespins, etc. FCM: is Roxstar a fan of BTS? If so and she’d like some swag, DM me.

BF didn’t have as much trouble as Wednesday getting the tickets to load, some trouble but not as much, but once again the scanner couldn’t read the tickets so the woman at the turnstile let us squeeze through. At that point I asked her and her partner if they were BTS fans and they said yes; but they’re not allowed to go into the stadium. So I asked them who their favorite band member was then we gave each of them a goodie baggie. They were so thrilled as nobody seems to offer them as stadium employees any freebies.

You’re not supposed or hypothetically allowed to bring any food or beverage into the stadium but I was darned if I was going to pay $7 for another bottle of water. Plus I prefer to drink my filtered Detroit water. I brought more than a gallon of water in the cooler so after washing out my bottle from Wednesday, I had refilled it with my own water that I had put in the refrigerator in the motel room. Then I stuck the bottle along my spine with the bottom of it in my pants. I had my Spartan hoodie jacket wrapped around my waist covering my shirt and pants. The scanner that I walked through didn’t pick it up and the hawk eyes of the people purportedly doing security by the scanners didn’t notice the bit of a bulge around my waist on my back. I learned this trick from a former roommate who was definitely a wild child, how I ended up subletting a room in a house with her as a roommate for a summer term is a wonder. Anyway, we were going to a Sly & the Family Stone concert and she put a bottle of Jack Daniels down her spine into her pants and covered it with a leather jacket. Sly was an hour and a half late but we didn’t care, we were top row of the bleachers in the fieldhouse, and having a fine time sipping that Jack. Hubs, who also was subletting that summer in the same house, came with. At that time he was just a friendly guy who was subletting another room in the house. I was dating someone else. But by the end of the summer, the other guy was an X and Hubs was the man.

On Thursday we were in row 10 and much closer to the middle, probably about the 40-45 yd line whereas yesterday we were closer to the 25 yd line (note: the 50 yd line is the middle of the field), and just being 8 rows lower made a huge difference in being able to see them better on the stage. I didn’t look at the video screens very much. Concert was pretty much the same, mostly same song choices, same fireworks, flames exploding, confetti, pyrotechnics, same screaming, jumping, dancing by the fans but the band wore different costumes and again they changed during the break between each set.

I told BF that I didn’t want to sit and wait for everyone above us to exit so the second they started walking off stage, we were up and getting onto the stairs. We weren’t able to bound right up but did get out sooner than Wednesday. Since we got going walking back sooner, we were somewhat ahead of most people although there were still a lot at same time but a bit sparser so we were able to walk at a fast pace. Occassionally we would catch up to the peloton (BF didn’t know what a peloton was, she isn’t into sports at all) so we would have to wait until an opportune time to pass. Unfortunately, there was poison ivy along the sidewalk part of the way so then we would walk close to the curb, one behind the other. We jumped in the car and made it up the driveway out of the parking lot before many people had made it back so we didn’t have to wait long to turn onto Washington St. On Wednesday BF had stayed in the right lane the entire way from the parking lot to the first interstate and it crawled along. I convinced her to take Washington St way past the first interstate and so stay in the left lane which zipped along almost at the speed limit. So, we made it to the motel just before midnight. So we went to bed about an hour and a half sooner than Wednesday.

The Spousal Unit reminded me that our anniversary is next week, Here’s the menu for Au Comptoir in Vancouver, BC, where we have reservations. (August 15th, 2015 = 08/15/2015. 8:15 PM = 20:15. :wink: )

Good evening! I got Spike to make the cheesy sausage biscuits this morning. Then Chloé had her beauty day. She had a haircut, a nail trim, a walk, and a shower.

We then watched the Spider-Man movie, which we enjoyed. Mrs Magill made sure to bring Kleenexes, because we have learnt that Tom Holland can make her cry at the drop of a hat.

We came home, and I moved laundry. Then, after folding, I finished pulling out the potatoes from the back. There were a lot of big 'uns still in the ground. I finished pulling out my destroyed tomatoes, and saw my sweet peppers were coming along nicely.

I then took a shower and got ready for my meeting. I wore the green top I posted a picture of last week, jeans, and my boots. I was independently complemented on my boots, hair, and overall appearance. Affirmation achieved!

The group discussion veered towards uncomfortable conversations with cis people. I mentioned that cis folks never really did research on why they feel the same as everyone else.

I’m feeling really good tonight. There are folks who will shout from the rooftops, “I’m so glad I’m trans!” I’m still not glad to be trans, but I’m happy to finally be comfortable in my own skin.

cat gloves Holy crap, I can’t even imagine doing that, let alone twice!! I simply don’t see any fun in dealing with that many people at all.

Mollie I’m so glad for you that things seem to be getting easier.

Getting woofs from the other room, Ms Peach has been having trouble with the #2, probably from destroying a couch cushion last night.

Survived yet another Late Night (although this one wasn’t too bad, getting out at quarter till 2, and that’s with one of the other closers spending a LOT of time in the potty) and although I close again tomorrow, I don’t go in until EIGHT P.M. WHAT LUXURY IS THIS.

Monkey was howling at the door after I got home, so he’s wandering about now in his blue jacket, while I contemplate fudz for me.

Speaking of, on a recommendation from someone… here? or maybe the “dinner” thread? … Anyway, I ordered some bitter orange marmalade a while back, which arrived just before I had to head out (Wilkin & Sons brand) and as I was typing just now, I decided to pop it open to try it.

Smuckers marmalade is orange sugar-gel. This is … not that. It’s delightfully bitter, like good dark chocolate can be, but a lil’ goes a long way.

That’s not a bad thing. Matter of fact, since it’s been a warm, hyoooomid day, and I’ve spent hours dealing with other people’s hot food, I think I’ll just bust out the Triscuits and cheese, top with bitter marmalade, and call it good.

Besides, with such a late work schedule tomorrow - hell I can sleep in AND take a nap - there’s some lots of mindless media consumption in my immediate future.

Mornin’

JtC apologies, I forgot to say thanks for the lettuce explanation yesterday. Hard to know what to say really. I guess the tiny silver lining is that it’s probably helping the smaller market gardener type places, but their stuff’s not available for everyone…

Shoe I spent 6 months living really near the place that makes that marmalade, it’s just outside Chelmsford, in England. Bitter marmalade is pretty big in the UK. I wish I could sent you a selection pack of local varieties, cos there’s a few, but it’s probably a bit tricky.

A drizzly, grey start to the day here, but it’s supposed to clear up later. I started properly attacking another corner of the garden yesterday, full of unwanted shrubs- I’ve had to leave it until now cos the blackbirds were nesting in there. They’ve reared two big batches of babies, so I think they’re done for the year. I’ll start leaving tiny family planning leaflets out there if not. The plan is to replace the existing ugly bushes with some that will produce fruit or at least nice flowers; I don’t have much space, so everything has to earn a spot.

Good Mornin’ Y’all! Up and caffeinatin’. YAWN ‘Tis 74 Amurrkin out and mostly clear with a predicted high of 92 and partly cloudy with a chance of rain around five p.m. The big item on today’s agenda is deheathenization in which I have Verger duty and so must serve both services. I did take a look at the lessons and no really weird words, so there’s that. I will also go back to the church house at three p.m. for the group meetin’ we started last week. I enjoyed last week, so lookin; forward to it again. Any need to feed today will be via forage as we have plenty of sammich makin’s, chips etc. I may be able to squeeze in nappage as well.

Cat_Glove that was, indeed, an adventure! Like VanGo said, I could not imagine doin’ that two days in a row, or even for one day, but since you had fun, well, good for you! Red Roof Inn is not a bad place to stay. Hardly luxurious, but for the most part relatively clean and the beds are usually decent.

FlyBoy that menu looks yummy. Seems like a good place to celebrate an anniversary.

Mollie glad you enjoyed the meetin’ and are feelin’ better about yourself. Yay for the affirmation!

shoe glad you survived another late night. Triscuits, cheese, and the marmalade sound like perfectly acceptable sustenance to me. Hope you have a good sleep.

Now I need more caffeine and to feed rumbly tummy. Then purtification for deheathenization must commence.

Happy Sunday Y’all!

Up, caffeinated, and sheveled. Last day of vacation. I shall do morning cleaning, and afternoon sloth. Spot is in the sunroom watching the vermin.

Jack Daniels: Because no great story starts with a salad. But that was quite the BTS ordeal.

:heart:

Good, because when you get comfortable in another person’s skin, the authorities get twitchy.

Morning, mumpers! It’s currently 29c/84f with a predicted high of 30c/86f and partly cloudy. Weather app says “Don’t be a dirty fucking douchbaguette by staying inside. Get out there and take on the fucking world.” Err…not today, thank you, far too hot out there for such things.

Nut I am envious of the good bread. We have a rustic bakery in town run by an Eastern European couple who make really great bread. I have to do the same as you and make sure I get there early before they sell out of the best stuff.

52 pottery painting sounds like fun, and you get to keep the end result too. How’s your eye now? Is it getting better?

Oopsie yay for travel plans and bonus Ringo Starr! That sounds like a perfect little getaway for you.

Cat_Glove that does sound like quite the adventure. I would not like to be setting out on a long trip without a night’s accommodation ready and waiting. I don’t deal well with that level of disorganisation, I am usually the one who’s been on google maps looking at hotel locations, nearest hostelries and options for food.

Cookie I’m glad you had a good visit with your family, hope you got a good sleep afterwards!

flyboy I would fire that vet too, changing a prescription or cancelling it without notifying you (or even discussing it with you) is well out of order.

Mollie I’m glad the meeting went well and you had so many complements. It’s a good feeling when you are comfortable just being you.

shoe I love some bitter orange marmalade. I get some really lovely stuff from my local supermarket, it’s their own brand and has thick cut bits in it that are more bitter than the marmalade itself. It’s a real delight to bite into one of those.

Yesterday was a busy one for me. I did my out of town errands, came home for lunch, went back out to do in-town errands and then met up with 'im indoors and drove us both home. We had a couple of hours pottering around at home then had dinner and went out to see bands at the Giffard. Our usual beer wasn’t on (again!) so we settled for bottled beer because none of other stuff on tap appealed to us. Bands were very good, we bought a couple of CDs and chatted to friends in between. Afterwards, the downstairs bar had filled up with the usual townie crowd and also some folks from the music festival that took place in the park near our house.

Since it was so busy in there, we decamped and walked up to the Posada which was not very busy at all. Serving wench Dee greeted us with “you’re just in time, I’ve put a new barrel of Gem on” so that was a good start. We had a natter with Record Store John and Bandana Dave, and stayed there until closing time at 1am. Cabs were non-existent in town so we got an Uber home and I was in bed before 2am.

Got stuff to do today as we’re going on our travels tomorrow. So far I have dyed my hair so it looks slightly more respectable, and gathered up the last bits of laundry to go in the wash. I need to run the rollsuck later, iron some t-shirts that got washed earlier in the week, and decide what | need to pack. I’m making chilli for dinner tonight but that won’t take long. Might do that this afternoon and just reheat it when we’re ready to eat. For now, another cup of tea beckons!

That THUD! you heard at 9 o’clock Central was my head hitting the pillow. Ten hours later, here I am.

Daughter and her family stopped by yesterday and it was so nice and quiet after they left. The hugs from the grands almost made up for the added decibels. But I know exactly what you mean.

I have no idea. All I know is she was big on K-Pop Demon Hunters for a while, but she’s over it. She also likes a group called Baby Monster, tho I don’t think she should be watching their videos. But I don’t get a vote since her mom lets her watch them.

We’re starting the day with 71 Ferrets, on the way to low 90s and no rain forecast till Tuesday. If FCD gets the cabinetry work done today, I’ll apply Cetol to the teak trim. If not, I may have a go at the garden shed - too often it becomes a dumping ground and it needs a good organizin’. We’ll see.

BIL is in the ICU. They had to do a tracheostomy since they discovered he was having trouble breathing due to the tumor. This all came up when he was having a feeding tube inserted. It’s still 3 weeks till his surgery… if he lives that long.

Last night, I watched a version of Gypsy - an actual stage performance was recorded, and I was impressed how well the movie came out. That show had a lot of great music. And while I was watching, I added a few more inches to the latest lap robe. It’s almost done.

I also ordered some jammies for the grands and a couple of sweatshirts for Tobias - apparently the lad loves sweatshirts. I leave most of the clothing buying to their other grandmother - that woman LOVES to shop for the kids.

Speaking of kids, Daughter was telling us about a friend of hers from high school, so a 41-y/o friend… who just had her first baby. At 41!!! I got twitchy just hearing about it. Apparently she had been told she was infertile, so she wasn’t bothering with birth control. Then SURPRISE!!! She is thrilled, but I can’t imagine being a first time mom at 41. It was hard enough for me at 31. And I’m not being judge-y. Just flabbergasted.

Guess I should shower and dress and start my day.

Happy Sunday!

The kids are great, but my eldest never stops talking. He’s been like that since he was a child. When he was young we used to tell him that he had to rest his lips or they would fall off. He’s in his 50s now and still can yak non-stop for hours. You basically just have to be rude and butt in to speak your piece. It’s exhausting.

Good morning, everyone! We’re up and are caffeinatting ourselves. Not much to say this morning, except I did a piss-poor job washing my face last night. I looked like a raccoon this morning.

I’m fixing to fry up a bunch of bacon to go with the Cherokee Purple tomato I got yesterday.

Mmmm… BLTs… drool drool drool

Dinner will be fettuccine Alfredo as Spike requested. This will require a trip to the publix for fresh fettuccine.

I’m still riding the high from last night. I love the feeling of freedom from The Weight I get when presenting authenticly. The fact I was complemented three separate times on how I looked didn’t hurt either. Maus never heard “I love your hair,” or “Those are really cute boots.”

Will I ever love being trans? Probably not. Will I ever love being myself? As Gimli said, “Aye. That I could.”

Oooo, that was unexpected! :roll_eyes:

It falls in the category of “ceremonial” sword. In other words, it’s made of steel from a sword works in Toledo, Spain, but the edges aren’t sharp. The blade seems to be gold-plated, and the hilt/knuckle gaurd is gold painted.

My brother has a similar sword, which was a gift from our aunt when we were kids. He used to display it proudly. I’ve not seen it in many, many years. I suspect he had pawned it back when he was still drinking.

Morning all. Have broken fast, got my NY Times Sunday edition, and am now ensconced in my office space internettin’ the morning away. Bright and sunny right now but a 50-50 chance of pop-up rainstorms after lunch. Nothing much planned for today, probably gym as usual (it’s Logan’s Roadhouse Meatloaf day, so calories will be increasing drastically).

Now to see what’s up with the rest of you folks.

Cat Glove , while I have Google maps on my phone to back me up, like you I try to map out my route before starting. And good on ya for recognizing the workers at the stadium, I bet they really appreciated it. And bootlegged Jack Daniels may have had something to do with your eventual marriage…most interesting… :wink: Love your storytelling abilities, sounds like quite the trip.

Mollie, never got into Spider-Man as deeply as the rest of the Marvel Universe, but Tom Holland is probably the best one to date. Glad the group discussion went well.

Shoe, enjoy the mindless media like the rest of us today. Never been a marmalade fan, but will have to consider your recommendation.

boo fae, another Saturday night at the Giffard and Posada…someday I will have to come over to that part of England just to see those places (but I doubt I can stay awake until 1am…). Looking forward to hearing of your travels.

FCM, my Dad was 45 and my mom 37 when I came along and a year older when Brother was born, so I can understand it.

OK, need to get about the morning internettin’, so all y’all have a good day.

I’d cooked the salmon in a non-stick baking pan, and swished them in a little olive oil. Nevertheless, some stuck to the pan. I scraped up the remnants, and put it into a small container with the little bit of spinachanfeta. This morning I reheated the leftovers, scrambled a small egg, and wrapped it up in a tortilla. Breakfast was good.

Good morning! Awakened by a stray call from the other coast, but my plan is to sleep just a little more.

Happy Sunday!

Up, caffeinating, breakfasted, infused and fixing to to KP. The only thing on the agenda today is to fold the towels that have been in the dryer all night (I forgot about them until I got up for a bio break in the middle of the night). No plans to leave home, just be lazy.

Stay safe and healthy y’all!

Thank you :slightly_smiling_face: It’s a love or hate situation. I get it from my Dad, explaining almost every detail in chronological order.

I had mentioned to BF sometime on Thursday that since the rental car had to be back by 9pm on Friday that we should set the alarm for 5am, try to get to Schultzy’s Place as soon after they open at 5:30 as possible so we could be on the road by 6:30ish. As we were about to get to sleep close to 1am, I asked her what time I should set an alarm for. Didn’t receive a direct answer, she just said something about needing sleep. So, I set the alarm for 5:56am. I jumped right up when it went off and went straight into bathroom to wash up, etc then dressed, emptied frig into cooler, put the last few things in suitcase and my in car travel bag then took all my things out to the car and brought it around from back parking area to the door closest to our room. BF didn’t get up until I had almost finished packing. She hustled and we went to Schultzy’s where I enjoyed a vegetarian omelette accompanied by hash browns, orange marmalade topped toast and coffee. BF had the breakfast special: scrambled eggs, hash browns, 3 slices of bacon and coffee. Right as we were sitting down, waitress Ashley asked how we were doing and I explained we were in a bit of a hurry as we had to return the rental car to Detroit Metro Airport by 9pm. She rushed our order, we didn’t linger and we were on the road at 7:18am. Gave her a 25% tip.

Encountered some rain in western NY. We needed gas and more so needed to relieve ourselves. But when we were close to a service plaza, we saw the sign that said next service plaza 38 miles and I said that I could wait and that maybe we could drive out of the rain. That’s exactly what happened and so we were able to relieve our bladders and fill the car in record time. Back on the road, uneventful through PA, OH but we rejoiced when we saw the Welcome to the Mitten sign! Actually the anticipation for almost being home started as we entered Toledo which we blasted through. Hubs was disappointed that we didn’t stop at Tony Packo’s and pick up some coneys. He always did when he was working and his territory included northern Ohio and the western edge of PA.

We exited I75 at the normal exit which had been closed for months and I wasn’t sure it had been reopened yet. Stopped for gas to fill up rental then drove to car rental mall at the airport. Got there at 7:09pm so trip took 11 hrs 51 minutes. There’s close to a dozen rental places and BF entered the gate for the incorrect one. Took about 10 minutes before this was discovered and we were redirected to correct gate to enter. This was not good for BF’s nerves. Then when we got out of the car and started unloading the car, the attendant said we would need to carry all our stuff back to the road and wait outside the gate to wait for our ride. BF was no longer calm and told him that the gate attendant had told her it would be ok for BF’s daughter to come onto the lot to pick us up. He wisely understood BF’s emotional status and quickly said, that’s ok, you can just go to the bus pickup stand that was a short distance away. He then offered to carry some of our things. So, I had him carry my cooler. BF’s daughter showed up within 3 minutes and the attendant helped pack her trunk.

It was great to get home and see Hubs. He had bought chicken on corn tortilla tacos and steak on flour tortilla tacos. After all of that I just had one chicken taco that I put some muenster and tomato slices on. This was not normal for me, having just one taco as all I had to eat on the drive was some leftover omelette and half piece of toast that I took to go from Schultzy’s and 2 big cherry tomatoes but hey, after all that happened the previous 3 days, I just wasn’t hungry and wanted to get into my own bed. As I was eating, BF called and said she had left both her purses with all her money, credit cards, license, etc in rental car; she just wanted me to know. A short time later she called sounding like she was holding back tears, saying they couldn’t find the car or didn’t know which one it was and asked if I remembered the car license plate number since I had gone out to the car to get it Wednesday night when we were checking into the motel. Unfortunately I did not, the only thing remembered was that it was a Pennsylvania license plate. Fifteen minutes later she texted and said “They found it!!! Nothing missing” so crisis averted. Then texted a little with my daughter and went to bed.

Up yesterday and walked to work. I had 4 days of transactions to record and addressed various other non-normal issues that arose during the day. Ended up working 7.75 hrs which is more than double my norm. Today I’m taking a day of relaxation. I will attend mass, otherwise, I’ll be a RDOS, likely watching dvr’d shows that piled up while I was gone. Er, forgot I’ve already put one load of laundry in; Hubs just checked soas to know whether it was clear for him to take a shower. That load is done so I need to go hang it up.

Have a great day friends. See you on the morrow.