(Old) Hauntings in the MMP

Did go back to the gym for a little more calorie burning, made it home before it started storming (wind and rain now, lightning and thunder expected shortly). Have consumed all the calories for the day, so will head off to bed in a little bit.

FCM, I have a couple small cases to hold them, just got to remember to take them along (I had them in the case when I swam and showered, but in changing and dressing for departure I laid the case to the side and forgot to put it in my pocket–no problems tonight). Not subscribed to Paramount+, I don’t watch all than much TV anymore, but if I did that would probably me the one I would pick.

flyboy, hopefully the package will arrive tomorrow. most of my Amazon stuff has the US Post Office doing the final delivery and so far there hasn’t been any issues…yet…

Cookie, small steps with Sadie, but they are adding up. Yay for you!

JtC, best of luck with the lemon tree.

Shoe, glad things are settling down some, and EAT!, even if it’s and improper meal.

And just looked at the clock and it is 10:45pm, this evening gym stuff is messing with my time senses, so need to sign out and head off to slumberland. Catch y’all tomorrow.

DHL says Monday.

I’m not in a rush to get the package. I just hate being lied to. The driver should be admonished for failing to deliver. He/she should be terminated for lying.

Up, caffeinated, and sheveled. Off to heave

Morning, mumpers! It’s currently 10c/50f with a predicted high of 11c/52f, and partly cloudy. Weather app says “It’s fucking partly cloudy. What’s the other part? Fucking shame.” I believe that today, it’s quite dreary out there. Clouds are grey and it was drizzly when I left home this morning.

You’re doing all the right things in such awful circumstances. It is very hard to watch a loved one wasting away in front of you, the only thing you can do is make sure they’re comfortable and know that they’re loved. I realise MIL doesn’t make that last bit easy a lot of the time, but the fact you’re caring for her in your home instead of dumping her in an old folks’ home probably means the world to her.

RealFish love the new glasses, they look awesome!

{{{{{shoe}}}}} Just keep checking in so we know you’re ok, 'kay?

{{{{{VanGo}}}}} you, too!

Hurrah! I hope it lives up to expectations :slight_smile:

Yay for you and for Sadie! She’s decided you are good people and worthy of being her servants.

I have a “safe place” logged with all the delivery companies, so they can leave items in our unlocked porch. I have found things behind the bins, in the bins, yeeted over the side gate, and under the car. All while the dry and relatively secure porch was unlocked and available.

Yesterday the Travel Gods were being capricious as ever, my morning commute was a mess of signal failures and slow-running (or not-moving) trains. The trip home was better although I missed the train from campus that I usually get, caught a later one from Big City Station, and ended up on a bus route at the other end that drops me a longer walk from home. But I got there in the end. Today was not much better, the nice train was cancelled but I was early enough to get the one before it, which I don’t usually bother with. Got a seat which is a rarity, and was in the Big City Station early enough for a relatively empty train to campus (missed the schoolies by about 20 minutes).

It’s a day of meetings and minutes today. I have to have a conversation with my older minion about something, she won’t like it but perhaps it will divert her away from all the other stuff she complains about regularly which is historic stuff and there’s nothing that can or will be done about it. Then I have my regular catch-up with the ADHD squirrel this afternoon so I need to do some prep for that. More joy.

Good Mornin’ Y’all! Up and caffeinatin’ YAWN ‘Tis 62 Amurrkin out and cloudy with a predicted high of 76 and rainy later in the day. We shall see. This mornin’ I am takin’ twuck in for an oil change etc. Beyond that a day of high RDOS inactivities is planned. Sup shall be chili/cheese/onion/slaw dawgs and oven fries. Fartfest to follow.

cookie yay for Sadie! Perhaps she has decided y’all are worthy servants.

Flyboy sorry you’re havin’ such a problem with the delivery.

CupCakes great idea about the drawin’ for the gingerbread house at church. Someone will be a very happy recipient!

shoe hurray for successfully runnin’ the oven!

JtC have fun with your new toy and the lemon tree. OYKW likes to run his mouth (way more than I do) so the combo of good food and folk to yak with is win-win for him.

MetalMouse conga rats on the award. It is a well-deserved one!

WetOne* yay for gettin’ back to the gym and gettin’ to ride Ariel.

Coppertone was the dental place able to sand down your dentures right then, or do you have to go back yet again?

Now I need more caffeine and to feed rumbly tummy. Then I suppose I must purtify and don attire acceptable for bein’ amongst the great unwashed yet again. Oh the humanity!

Happy Thursday Y’all!

MIL’s meds come via FedEx, and they’ve been pretty good about putting them on the porch by the front door. We almost never use our front door, but when we’re expecting meds, we check frequently if we don’t actually see the van/truck drive up.

We’ve had other FedEx deliveries left in the middle of the drive or against the garage door directly behind a car - despite a covered porch being all of 10’ to the left. Honestly, if I didn’t have to walk behind my car to get to the driver’s side, I may well have driven over one or more of the boxes. (Front of my car nudges up against shelves on the left to leave room for both of us to open doors without hitting the adjacent vehicle, hence the need to walk behind.)

When the garage is open, Brown will leave boxes between the vehicles or carry them all the way in. And if I happen to see the delivery, the nice folk in brown will carry them exactly where I specify. Otherwise, they leave everything on the covered porch. doggio - pass on my thanks! :wink:

FCD promised both of his parents that we’d care for them ourselves to the best of our abilities. Plus, frankly, we couldn’t afford a nursing home - what little MIL has in the bank might get her thru 2 months… maybe…

She (therefore we) had a rough night. I heard her around 2AM in her bathroom weighing herself (talking scale, remember?) She went back to her room leaving the bathroom lights on, and when I got up to turn them off, she was in her room looking for something. When I informed her of the time, she went back to sleep.

Then around 6AM, FCD got up and went to her room. I couldn’t make out much of what was said, but apparently she didn’t know where she was and she’d forgotten how to operate her lights (she often forgets to say Alexa) and she had no idea what day or what time it was. He got her to go back to bed, but by then, I was wide awake. So I got up and (I hope) they’re both still sleeping. Her confusion is getting worse and worse.

And just now (it’s after 7) she went in and weighed herself again. I went back to see if she was OK, and she was saying stuff about not being able to use the walls, and blood, and Sarasota. I persuaded her to go back to bed. The decline seems to be accelerating.

On the other hand, Ziva is getting better. She’s eating and pooping after of couple of days of doing neither. And in the evening, she comes into the living room and wanders around a lot more than she ever did before. The other day she even went after the yarn as I was knitting - very kitty-like. One less worry there.

It’s overcast and dreary and in the 40s right now. Accuweather shows rain moving into our area after noon, so I’ll make sure to deal with the leaves before then. But the greater chance of rain comes overnight - we surely need it. I’m hoping FCD can haul the truckload of miscellany to the convenience center this morning. It’s all stuff from the garden shed, but I may add a couple of bags of household trash and recycling since there’s still space. Oh, and I have a couple of houseplants to divide and repot.

That’s the plan for today. So far. Who knows what lies ahead??

Happy Thursday!

Showered, dressed, and I finally remembered to get the sheets out of the dryer - they’ve been there since last Firday. They’re folded and put away and I carried the box of MIL’s stuff that she wanted to give to the thrift store back downstairs, since Daughter expressed and interest in the dishes.

I also tied up the bags of garbage and put new bags in the cans, so all that’s ready to go to the convenience center. FCD will be home shortly and will take them, then I can tend to the leaves. The way MIL is these days, I don’t think it’s wise to leave her in the house alone at all, ever. (She insisted that she’d be “fine” if we want to go to my sister’s for turkey day, which would mean being away from the house for 7-8 hours. Yeah, she’ll be “fine.”)

Guess I’ll knit a bit till it’s time to attack the leaves.

Is there a dog shelter anywhere near you? Maybe he could volunteer there? (Although I suppose that presents the risk of bringing a puppy home with him.)

Our street is perpendicular to another street, and the two streets have very similar names. I can understand how someone might be confused. I don’t see how GPS could be confused. What torques my jaw is that DHL did not attempt to deliver my package, and the driver stated s/he did and that no one was home. I was watching on ‘Follow My Parcel’! I do not like dishonesty. Especially in these times.

It really is! I would so love for a portal near me but I live in a small city, ain’t gonna happen. Volunteering to teach English to new refugees and immigrants will just have to do. I’ll make do by waving to y’all :wave:t3::wave:t3::wave:t3::wave:t3::wave:t3::wave:t3::wave:t3::wave:t3:

And from me to all of you Mumpers~hanging in by the grace of all of you hanging in with me.

Good morning, Mumpers, Just making my periodic visit to see how everyone is doing in Mumperland.

We have exciting happenings in the family. Nephew and GF are buying a house. We’d just had a conversation about what a bad time this is to buy a house when they came across a house they just couldn’t pass up. It has virtually everything they wanted long term, already done.

Previous owners are master gardeners and he’s an electrical engineer. So it has solar power, a huge garden with 16 raised beds and covers and a well that feeds the irrigation system. Interior is amazing. They have 5 little nieces and nephews and my niece has 3 through her husband, so they’re picturing all sorts of kid parties and family gatherings. I get to see it tomorrow when we walk through with an inspector.

Also, I went to Ohio’s newest state park yesterday with a friend. It’s Great Council State Park and covers the history of Native Americans in Ohio. It’s a beautiful building (a modern interpretation of a long house) and is really well-organized. Really interesting for people of any age. It’s not large, but we managed to stay about 90 minutes anyway.

rosie’s sig to all.

GT

Also looking at productive volunteer opportunities. Hugs.

Truth, truth, truth, the absolute truth. It’s happening to me right now and the jury is still out whether my soul and spirit is going to survive it intact. Liars have to lie (often for no good reason), haters got to hate and those with even a shred of power punch down just because they can. Over and over again-lies, lies, lies , fear morphed into hate and power into punching down. At least I’m not one of the liars, haters and punchers.

A wet and chilly morning at about 48F. I may wait another hour before taking my walk. It’s supposed to get up to the 50s again in the next couple of days, but next Wednesday we’re looking at a high of 38 and “wintery mix”.

We’re supposed to go to a concert this evening, but I’m hoping the wife craps out on it for a couple of reasons. I have a hard enough time staying awake for classical music at midday, let alone in the evening. Also, I prefer to avoid crowds. Thirdly, it’s at the Jewish temple, which these days is like putting a bullseye on your back. They usually have hired guys in aviator shades and suits on the street corners whenever there is an event there.

Thank you~the {{{{ }}}} from y’all are working, thanks one and all.

Yep, it sure is. Will bring some joy to who ‘buys’ it and then hopefully more comfort and good to wherever that donation goes. Good all around. Plus we all got to have fun talking about it and imagining kittehs playing with the krinkly candy wrappers-win, win, win, win, all from a Mumper cookie baker’s kindness.

More ‘yays’ for yah from the windswept prairie grasslands of Nebraska (and the Siamese curled up on the afghan keeping my toes warm).

In my excitement I may have overstated the numbers of Lifesavers or Jolly Ranchers needed. I love Jolly ranchers but my dentist has forbidden them after the second crown they made necessary, sigh.

The number of candies needed depends on the size of the candy (a jolly rancher equals 4 or 5 lifesavers) and the size of the space in the cookie that you hope to fill with ‘stained glass’ and even if the stained glass will have a layer of cookie behind it to stabilize and support the thin, fragile melted candy pane of ‘glass’.

Yep, but I always have to remind myself that I am not the customer, the sender is. Those lies happen day after day, year after year and there never are consequences. You and I get to like it or lump it. Infuriating and soul-sucking.

Morning all. Stayed in bed until 8:30am today, so slow start to the morning. Have broken fast with a big bowl of Cheerios and outside of putting the garbage out there is not much on the agenda. Rain has departed the area, but the temperature will only get to 65F or so according to the weather wizards. Will set the mower blade down a notch and trim the grass short in preparation for the winter hibernation (probably Saturday). Otherwise slothage will prevail.

Boo fae, my front door is recessed with covering in front of it, so usually they leave my stuff there or at the garage door. Little things come by mail and it’s amazing what they have stuffed in my mailbox…hope the conversations were not particularly painful.

FCM, sounds like systems are shutting down for MIL. Just hope her passing is peaceful. Good news about Ziva, though…

gardentraveler, nice of you to stoip by, put up your feet and stick around awhile. And great news on nephew; sounds like house is pretty wonderful. And that new park sounds worth a visit…to bad I’m 450 miles away…

{{{BBBoo}}}

Cookie, some interesting times we live in…

And time to get…well, not having to get much of anywhere, I’ll just do some more internetting and check on the AMTRAK Southwest Chief progress (due in LaPlata, MO in 20 minutes, need to get the You Tube channel up). Have a good Thorsday all.

I’ve just eaten two slices of toast, with marge, Vegemite, and cheddar cheese. Heavy on the Vegemite. My breath will be deadly for hours. :slight_smile:

Kakistocracy: Government by the least suitable or competent citizens of a state

I was heaving on the 200 and 300 tables today. Reasonable day otherwise. I did my Senior Day shopping, beer was on sale, so I got 4 cases.

I got November Rain

Have you considered snapping, and chasing them about with a pointy stick? I hear it’s theraputic.

gt! : tacklehug :
And congrats to the Nephew and GF!

Now I have Men At Work stuck in my head.

{{{{FairyChats}}}}

Periodic? After 4 years?? Don’t you love us any more??? :face_holding_back_tears:

Nephew’s house sounds wonderful - hope it all works out.

No, he wouldn’t consider it. Plus, frankly, he barely has the energy to deal with his mom. And he is always saying “I wish we had our lives back.” Cold and heartless as it sounds, we need this all to be over. We need our lives back.

I’ve done a semi-decent job of de-leafing the front and back. At least it’ll give tonight’s rain a new bare yard to knock more leaves off the trees. Stoopit leaves.

FCD has done the trash/recycle run. MIL is sleeping on the couch after eating half a bagel. All she ate yesterday was 2 meals of half a bagel each, plus a cup of coffee and a few Andes mints. And her weight is down another half pound. 'Nuff said.

I’ve lunched and I really should do the repotting of the houseplants. Maybe. If I get motivated. Somehow falling asleep after midnight, then being awakened at 2 and 6 doesn’t make for a restful night or much energy next morning. I may just knit and watch TV.

And since we didn’t eat the weenies yesterday, that’ll be tonight’s supper.

Hugs right back atcha :wave:t3::wave:t3: :people_hugging::people_hugging::people_hugging::people_hugging::people_hugging: