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I was impressed last night: the neighborhood was quite loud/noisy from 9-10pm, but there were no booms much after that! I had the front door open most of the night so Bailey could look outside through the storm door, and at one point I could see fireworks from my couch:
I remembered there being a similarly visible display last year, and got curious about where they might have been set off so I looked at Google Maps: there’s a small park just a few blocks away that I had no idea about! This neighborhood is kind of big and there are lots of little parks/playgrounds tucked around, but I’ve lived here for 11 years and didn’t know about the one closest to my house. Heh. It was kind of nice to be able to see not-bad fireworks from a comfy spot inside a cool house while wearing my jammies.
Ok, are y’all ready to hear about an amazing Mumper coincidence? 
Yesterday, FCM posted about passing herds of reindeer and I said that I’d love to see a photo. She replied that she’d posted one on FB and I should message her if I’d like a friend invite, and I did. Two things to note at this point: we both lived in the Baltimore area 40-45 years ago, and I have an uncommon last name. Turns out that for a couple of years in the early '80s she was in a church choir that my father directed!
I was a kid at the time; around 10 or 11. My dad – who has been an organist/choir director since he was in high school; he still does it now at the age of 76 – doesn’t remember her (not really surprising), but he does remember that choir being a dedicated little group. I don’t remember ever going to that church regularly though I knew he’d worked there, but yesterday he told me it’s where my younger brother made his First Communion. There’s actually a chance that I once attended the same Mass (or two) as FCM and heard her sing!
Bailey had no issues last night, though we were outside during one or two of the loudest booms and I think they were starting to stress her a little. While inside, she was oblivious. A silver lining of her being old and not hearing so well anymore is that she has a greater tolerance for fireworks and thunder.
She continues to recover from her 2-week “pain/not eating/pain” cycle, and yesterday she ate a fair amount…but then this morning she didn’t want breakfast. Who knows what’s going on in that furry little head! As long as she keeps eating the laced peanut butter, I’m happy; I know the prednisone helps.
I’m still not feeling like I really want to go to my BFFs’ tonight – with their niece’s 6-person family – but I’m going: last night I agreed to go pick up the 5-year-old’s ice cream birthday cake after dinner (so they wouldn’t have to try to find room for it in their freezer).
They’re all good people who I like and have known forever, the kids are smart and well-behaved, and I know that once I get there I’ll be glad to see everyone. If HusbandBFF wants to set off fireworks once it gets dark (~9:15pm), I’ll leave at that point and blame needing to get home to Bailey – unless the niece and family leave before me, because I know he’ll be disappointed if he only has WifeBFF as audience. I can suck up my apprehension one more time to make him happy, but I might say something about it to set up not watching them next year. I’m not worried about his/our safety, I’m just not a big fan of any amatuer fireworks: for some reason they set off the remnants of my fire-related anxiety (my family’s apartment building burned down 49 years ago this month).
I heard more from the appliance guy yesterday: he gave me a quote for the washing machine repair (I felt it was reasonable), but unfortunately he doesn’t have the part on hand so he ordered it. I told him I’d happily pay for expedited shipping if it’s available! If the part arrives on a day when I’m at the office, he’s willing to come out in the evening (after I get home); I greatly appreciate that. Either way, there’s a nice tip in this guy’s future.
Time for an early lunch, so I’ll have room for all of the yummy food (and ice cream cake!) that I know will be at my BFFs’ later. 