(Old) March forth into victory in the MMP!

Good Mornin’ Y’all! Up and caffeinatin’. YAWN ‘Tis 61 Amurrkin out and cloudy with a predicted high of 66 and rain beginnin’ shortly and then all day accordin’ to TWPTB. Fine by me as there are no intentions of goin’ anywhere today. Laundry is the main event here. Be still my beatin’ heart. Outside of that a good day for sloth, general overall uselessness, nappage, day drinkin’ and stayin’ inside and dry. We grilled two big hunks o’ cow for last night’s sup which neither of us could finish, so the leftover steak will be turned into cheesesteaks for tonight’s sup along with fries, cause why not fries.

Real_Fish glad you are on the mend! I remember Persephone. Hard to believe it’s been twenty years. I wish you peace.

Flytrap come back and play some more.

red glad you had Dogtor Nelson as a caregiver. Hope you’re feelin’ better today.

Now I need more caffeine and to feed rumbly tummy. Then, onward into the day! Rah.

Happy Tuesday Y’all!

FLYTRAP!

Well, I did try to go to irk today, I really did. Remember that pothole that I hit and thought that it knocked my car out of alignment? It did more damage than that. When I shifted into reverse to back out of my parking space, it moved, but made a terrible grinding sound. I’m waiting until 0730 to call the dealership, then call a tow truck to take it in, My vacay this spring may well be having my car in the shop and without wheels. :frowning:

Stay safe and healthy y’all!

so weird - I had a dream the other night where I discovered the rolls were now bigger diameter so you got less TP, and I was majorly pissed off! Not that I shop by diameter - I do read the count-per-roll labels. OK, I don’t even do that - I buy Scott 1000 sheet rolls.

OMG - you sound like FCD. He wants a penguin. And a llama. And a cow.

My baby girl is 38 - HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE??? Durn kids, growing up and all that…

Not only that, they’ll throw up on a carpet not 2’ from a tile floor. Devious critters, they are!

This morning I finally had a chance to talk to FCD about the hospice nurse visit. And he did explain to his mom that it was about Hospice. Anyway, she’s either in hospice care or not. If not, she continues her assorted Dr visits as usual. But if she opts for hospice, they take over everything. The decision is hers, and I’m not sure she’s ready to make it.

FCD thinks she’s resigned to giving up her apartment. She has said she wants her bed here so our spare will go to the basement with the others. We’ll need to figure out how to deal with all the stuff from the apartment - some of the furniture will be tricky to place in here. Her kitchen stuff will be boxed and eventually sent to Habitat, unless BIL wants some of it. I don’t know what else - it’s overwhelming. Thank goodness we have a big basement - we’ll just stack stuff down there and gradually deal with it. That is, once she says to let the apartment go, and I’m sure that’ll come when she gets notification of lease renewal.

She seemed better yesterday, but this morning, she could barely make it to the bathroom. Her tremors were especially bad. We feel so helpless, but in reality, no one can do anything. Her body is failing. She hasn’t very long left.

On a less dreary note, I flang some wildflower seeds on the side hill yesterday before the rain came. We’ve had steady, gentle showers on and off - with luck, not enough to wash the seeds away. We’re promised rain on and off all week. So much for yard work.

HVAC guy is on the way to do our pre-season a/c check. Excitement abounds!!

Happy Tuesday!

Thank you. I don’t feel like I’m often graceful, but I’ve been trying lately.

MetalMouse and Nellie, Persephone was a '99er, Euty*'s other half and one of the most caring women in the board. She loved going to DopeFests, especially the NYC Fests. When I’m back home, I’ll see if I can find one of my pics of her to share.

Swampy, thank you. The longer we’re around, the fewer that we’ll find remembering her, I think.

Belated happy birthday, Spicey! Hope it was great!

FCM, they really do need to stop with their growing! How dare they?!!

Thanks, all, for all the positivity regarding my recovery. I’ve missed you all!

Now I’m off to see my gyn for the yearly check. Hubby’s driving me which, I’ve got to admit, is one of the best things about this collar!

Reasonable heaving, but it looked like Midnight was FUBAR(to be expected, considering) I breakfasted, now it’s off to vote in the Primary, do my Aldi run(at the Poor People Aldi), and drop some donations off at the cat rescue thrift shop.

Long enough to grab a few CD collections. :wink:

Since you’ll be up in stirrups, you should wear a cowboy hat, too. :crazy_face:

{{{{FairyChats}}}

He’d have taken it in stride if I had! But I found out sad news there. My gyn, who I’ve had for over 18 years, pretty much since first coming to Nashville, is retiring. How does one know who the good ones in a practice are stride you haven’t had to worry about it for so long?!!

Hi folks. I just have time for a quick story from yesterday.

After dinner did the pub crawl with about 20 folks; a few solos, some couples, and a couple sets of unrelated folks traveling together. Anyhow I met a pair of 50-something women traveling together. Their accents and mannerisms suggested upper Midwest so I asked. They’ve been pals since grade school and live in Muskegon. I said “I know somebody who lives and works in central Muskegon”. It being a small town, of course they wanted the deets; might be a friend of theirs too. Without getting doxxy I mentioned that she works at Mr. Scribbs pizza.

Cue instant squeals of delight. “That is utterly the best pizza!!!”. “Everything else on the menu is sooo awesome.” “You can’t imagine how wonderful it is”, “You have to come to Muskegon and try it.” etc., etc., etc.

They were utterly tickled to be able wax ecstatic over the wonders of Mr. Scribbs.

So dear Shoe, know that you are loved and appreciated all the more. You’re doin’ good in the small world of Muskegon.

Morning all. Stayed in bed until after 8am today, so should be well-rested. No outside shopping or other activity is planned which is good as there is supposed to be fairly constant rain all afternoon. Like FCM I have to schedule the HVAC folks to re-Freon the Air Conditioner but I’m dropping the service I used the past couple of years so need to find a new one. If I accomplish that and gym today I will consider it a success. It’s about 60F now and not due to get much warmer during the day.

Annnddd…just like that I have an appointment for Friday morning for the HVAC tune-up.

Pilot, nice story, it is a small world these days, if I win the lottery someday there will be a Mumper party at Mr. Scribbs, promise!

JtC, I have a grudge with Applebee’s and don’t go there normally (when I hold a grudge I really hold it) but for you my dear I would be happy to eat there.

Coppertone, it sounds like you should be in great shape with all the run-arounds you are getting. Be well.

doggio, not bad, but bide your time.

Real Fish, thanks for the remembrance. Sounds like a person I would have been pleased and proud to have known. And can you Gyn recommend someone new?

red, ouch on the car. Hope it’s fast and cheaper than my engine head gasket last year.

FCM, sounds like things are coming together for MIL’s care. Hopefully she goes for hospice and that will relieve at least some of your burden.

OK, Cheerios are resting comfortably in my belly, the Southwest Chief is due in LaPlata in a few minutes and there is a world to explore out there, so time to go. Take care all.

It’s just about time for a nap here. The kitchen is a disaster, but it can wait to be tackled until I get up. In other news, I am so $*#@! tired of Burning Mouth Syndrome. It is made worse by stress and lately 99% of the things that I eat cause a stinging pain to my tongue and throat. I guess I should just go buy some grits and plain mashed potatoes and live on those. Enough grouchiness, time to go relax.

I’m doing better, lager had a though early morning. He got sick at midnight and around 4 am. I thought I snuck some anti nausea med into a treat… I am not very sneaky at 4 am.

Got it into him at 8ish, so we will see if it works when I give him his first spoonful at noon. Koritza also decided to join in the fun with hairballs.

This is why we can’t have good floors.

I remember Persephone, and am glad I met her in nyc. A true bright light.

On the one hand, I utterly sympathize with anyone who’s “taken short” while riding in their car on a freeway. I’ve had one or two times that getting to a bathroom was a close call.

On the other hand, I could have gone the rest of my life without

seeing turds shooting out of a naked ass on the side of the freeway

which happened yesterday while we were driving to a pizza joint for lunch. Sorry for giving you that mental image!

But on the bright side, the pizza was sublime. It was one of those Neapolitan-style thin crust pizzas baked in a wood fired pizza oven. It’s my favorite kind, but I only get one about once or twice a year.

Today I’m making chili verde for lunch. I have the pork cubes simmered until tender and at the ready, and in a bit I’ll peel several green chiles and blend the with tomatillos, onions, and cilantro and cook it all up into a verde sauce. The pork cubes go in about ten minutes before serving. Now I’m off to buy flour tortillas.

Today

My regular girly doctor is decent, but when I had a hysterectomy 8 years ago, this guy was the one who did it. He and his staff are very professional and I felt confident in their work.

lucky, you made me like a nine year old boy with the potty description.

The car is towed and I’m awaiting the diagnosis. I don’t know why I didn’t think of it before, but my insurance may cover the road hazard and a rental. I will be talking to my agent as soon as I get the verdict. Meanwhile, it’s drizzling outside, so I’ll read and play around in the studio during my forced spring break. Sucky way to use up my PTO.

What about the neighbors’ bins? The recycling drama on your street is too entertaining to miss!

Someone needs to do something, that is such a sneaky thing to do to people!

They once gave me super strength hairball stuff to give VBC. I’m not stoopid enough to stick my fingers in a cat’s mouth so I put some on her foot and rubbed it into her fur so she would have to lick it off. She took one sniff, gave me dagger eyes and then got in the litterbox and dug around (she didn’t need to pee) and got out with her paw covered with litter which of course scattered all over the place while I was trying to catch her to wash everything off. I didn’t try to give it to her again.

That is so not fair. Do you have any recourse against the people in charge of the roads? A pothole that deep sounds like a major hazard that should have at least been flagged.

See how smart you are! I was also majorly pissed off when I figured it out. Bastids.

I am so sorry about MIL. She sounds like such a lovely person, it is horrible to be so helpless in the face of oncoming death.

All of your children are still living. Sometimes that’s all the grace a mother has left!

Continue healing :slight_smile:

What a lovely story!

Of course we know that our dear shoe is beloved by all, but conformation is always nice :slight_smile:

I understand grudges, we fired AT&T 32 years ago and refuse to have anything to do with them to this day. I respect other people’s grudges, heck, I’m boycotting a thrift store that my BFF has a grudge against. They weren’t rude to me, and I wasn’t even there when my BFF got so upset with them, but I haven’t stepped foot inside it for years.

There is a McDonalds at the Grand Canyon. Two of them, one at each end.

Laminate is so wonderful!

I’m glad you are feeling better, someone needs to be able to clean up after your fuzzbutts.

It is over 70 degrees but is to thunder and rain all day. I went and got a few groceries, and slothing for now.
Laundry later, but its my favorite chore.

Looks like MIL has made the decision to give up her apartment. So now we need to figure out where to put everything. FCD will go over there and find out if they’ll let her out of her lease a month early.

They’ve also been talking more about hospice, so I expect a decision there soon. We’ll find our what resources are available to us thru hospice so we can maybe get a break once in a while.

Shit’s gettin’ real…

On the plus side, we’ve set up a tablet so MIL can listen to library audio books.

Late afternoon here in Bimini. The internet has been very flaky this whole trip and was really bad this morning while I was trying to tell my Muskegon story. So I wasn’t able to spell-check Shoe’s pizza place. I now learn it’s “Pizza by Mr. Scrib’s”. So one “b” and an apostrophe.

Except of course in a couple places on their website where instead they spell it “Mr. Scribs Pizza” with the words in a different order and no apostrophe.

Both of which of course are spelling / grammar screw-ups beside the Branding 101 failure to have exactly one name for your company and product. “Mr. Scribs Pizza” should have the apostrophe and “Pizza by Mr. Scrib’s”. should not. Folks from the Midwest are so sweet. Not so great at English (or websites), but sweet.

Go Shoe.

As to me …

Yesterday (Mon) at sea was pleasant. This time the boat is going the other way, westbound towards Florida. With the result that my cabin is on the south sunny side and we’re traveling with the wind. Earlier in the voyage we’re going ~20mph and the wind is about 15mph going the other way, so it was darn windy except when hidden behind a shelter. The boat has lots of sheltered spaces, but a big gust blows by often when driving more or less into the wind. Now, our motion just about cancels the wind and it’s super pleasant outdoors with just a gentle waft of moving air.

After breakfast, they day had couple of single group gaggles, some nappy sun on my balcony, and a multi-course 2+ hour nouveau cuisine Mexican dinner with a nice 40-ish lady who lives a few miles from my brother in SoCal where I grew up. She had been a nurse in USAF and now is in medical insurance admin. Then I pub-crawled (and met the Muskegon folks plus many more) while she napped then we reconvened for dancing once she’d recharged. Which dancing ran until about 1:30am.

As to today:
At about sunrise we docked at Bimini. I slept in to 8:30 (!) so missed sunrise and docking.

After breakfast I got ready for my shore excursion to snorkel at an old wreck a mile+ offshore. It got driven onto a shoal during a hurricane. Sapona - (tripadvisor.com).

So about 25 of us droned out there, swam with the fish and in and out of the wreck for awhile, then returned to land. Very pretty water; some of the best in the world. Like all wrecks, this one was kinda creepy, but creepy-lite compared to some. Otherwise not a lot of coral right there, so the fish were plentiful, but just a couple of ordinary sorts. We did not see sharks, although that was a possibility.

Once back on land I went to the cruise line’s shore compund nearby. Lotta great sand at a real beach, a huge pool with (spoilered for JtC)  about 800 people in the pool and another 500 on the sand, plus about 300 people at the eateries / drinkeries. The tunes were cranked, their cheerleaders were keeping the party alive, the drinks were cold, the food hot and good, and more alcohol and solar radiation was duly absorbed. It seems a lot of the older lazier less photogenic folks stayed on the boat, so this crowd was heavily selected from the [cute to look at] subset of either gender. One of life’s simple pleasures that never gets old.

Now back on the boat, showered and cooled off. About to finish dressing for an hour of music, then back upstairs to get fully pretty for long fancy dinner tonight. Of course there’s more dancing even later until stupid-late or I get sleepy.

Overnight the boat goes back to the real world. Or at least as real as Miami gets. It’s a pretty unreal place.

I’ll get off the boat around 1030 and get home around 1pm after a dawdly morning every step of the way.


FCM - best of luck. Hospice there at your place, with suitable staff on duty to relieve you and FCD of almost all direct care responsibilities is probably the happiest option if it’s available. {{Hugs}}.

I did read everything else.

:people_hugging:

Sounds wonderful. Nothing like good sheets.

We stopped using scented candles because my husband has gotten much more sensitive in the last few years. Yay for Nelson‘s support - such a good boy.

Belated Hippo Bird-day, Spicey

{{{FCM}}}

Thought I had written more, but maybe I‘m just sleep-deprived. I should be sleeping, but my sleeping pattern is all messed up. Some work stress, some menopause fun, a little bit of other stress makes for less sleep.

And a good late afternoon all. Made it to the gym and since the cycling machines have TV attachments I was able to watch the Champion’s League Soccer game while getting my exercise, so that worked out well. Rain has been on and off all day and will continue into the night, but temperatures will stay warm in the 60’s. Got some soccer stuff done, Firefox won’t log me into my e-mail but Edge and my cell phone (Chrome) will, so hopefully Firefox will figure things out shortly. Otherwise a quiet day to be completed by reading, internetting, and sloth.

FCM, It sounds like MIL at least has her intelligence remaining (it’s much harder when dementia is involved, IMHO, like your FIL). Hope things go as well as they can in such a situation.

Pilot, you seem well-adapted for the cruising lifestyle. Welcome home for a bit.

Sticky Buns, I had to look up Burning Mouth Syndrome, I didn’t even know there was such a thing, but I feel for you, hope it gets treated and you can get back to enjoying food again.

Lucky, I’ve seen more than a few things in my life, but the only motorized road apples I’ve ever seen were from horses asses. Of course the gentleman was likely to have been one…

red, couldn’t hurt to see if insurance can’t help out, we pay enough for it anyway.

JtC, doubt the 2 Mickey D’s are in commuting range. And I’m like an character in a SF series I like, who “holds grudges until they die and then has them stuffed and hung on the wall.”

Pardon me, What!?!?! Ah well, to each their own.

Dicey, go to sleep, does wonders for your outlook on life.

Will have some dinner here in a bit, already ate the evening apple when I got back from the gym (I eat 2 apples a day Tue-Fri and 2 bananas a day Sat-Mon) so the Mac-n-Cheese won’t have any competition. Take care all.

I’m sorry y’all are going through all this. I hope for the gentlest, most peaceful path.