I’m 62 years old. Still can get it up but it takes a lot longer and lesss often than when I was younger. (of Course) But, how do I explain this to my new girlfrend? ( She’s 50 + and and wants lots of lovin’. ( We have a great intellectual relationship, but…?
Can any old farts out advise me ? I’ve explained this to her but I don’t think she understands this: Ladies? Gentelmen?
Viagra???
Any British ancestry?
Perhaps that stiff upper lip might suffice on occasion.
See your doc, especially to review any meds or disease states which might decrease libido or erectile function. Consider Viagra. Also consider expanding your repertoire to include lots of ways to pleasure her before, after, and in place of penile-vaginal intercourse.
QtM, MD
What Duckster said. And report back with details. This might be a rare opportunity for an intergenerational perspective on cunnilingus.
Qadgop, when I grow up I want to be just like you.
Listen to the man.
The one thing I’ll add to Qadgop’s post is that you ought to have your prostate checked, not just for possible cancer, but to see if you’ve got an enlarged prostate.
An enlarged prostate can not only make you take awhile to pee, but it can also put a damper on your sexual response. It’s one of those things that can happen to us guys in middle age. Fortunately, it’s quite treatable with drugs or minor surgery. Talk to your doc.
Your bedroom might be in need of more kitchen implements.
lieu - you cracked me up - reminded me of the wedding scene in Bachelor Party and the egg beater!!