Exactly. Once, near the end of the relationship, I woke up to find him actively (and not in his sleep) rubbing against me and trying to use me as a masturbation aid. I was pissed and I do believe that was the last time I let him share a bed with me.
And there are those of us who are happy when the boner shows up at all…
Actually, we can’t cuddle in bed any more. I have to wear a CPAP machine these days, and SWMBO says it’s like snuggling with Darth Vader.
I totally agree. When I was dating, in my opinion this was the best course of action.
When I was living with somebody and because we had a small apartment, we had to share a bedroom. But I insisted on separate beds. As far as I’m concerned one bed is for sex, two beds are for sleeping.
I think cuddling is annoying. If you’re that much awake, get up and make me some food! 