I believe that trans women are women, and trans men are men. My sister is nonbinary, my father is a trans woman, and I give to the Human Rights Campaign and the Trevor Project.
But I don’t believe trans women should be competing in sports with cis women. Being born and living for a certain amount of time as a biological male could potentially give one a huge advantage in sporting competitions. AMAB people are generally taller and stronger.
And I’m not sure there’s an easy solution to this problem. Putting trans women with men’s teams could cause problems, as well. Like how the challenge for trans women in choosing which bathroom to use is the difference between getting yelled at and getting beaten up.
I mean, not every AMAB athlete taking part in women’s athletics is going to be Lia Thomas, or like that South Park episode starring “Macho Ma’am” Randy Savage, which was criticized for being transphobic but now seems a little bit prescient to some.
Here’s my take.
Allow trans women to share locker rooms and restroom facilities with cis women. Allow them to go to all-women’s colleges if they want to. Don’t hesitate to take off your hijab in front of a close trans woman friend, as I heard someone freely did.
In almost every way that’s important, treat trans women like cis women, because trans women are real women, whether they’re pre-op or post-op, whether they’re on HRT or not. My dad is a real woman, even though she’s my biological father. She’s on HRT and is pre-op.
Being transgender is hard. There’s a lot of discrimination, both against trans men and trans women. A lot of people will find reasons not to hire them for jobs, or rent to them, and in some states, that’s not even illegal, though it should be. Suicidal ideation is high in the transgender community. I wrote a paper in college about the need to treat transgender people fairly.
But in situations in which being AMAB would put one at an advantage, such as competitive sports, it’s not unreasonable to consider limiting trans women’s ability to participate so they don’t run roughshod over cis women who don’t have that advantage. I mean, the fact that Lia Thomas is setting records as a woman when she was nowhere near being the best as a man goes to show that a competitive advantage exists from the fact that she was AMAB.
If the rules and times between the two leagues were the same, how many more points per game do you think Michael Jordan, or even a mid-level NBA player like J.R. Smith, could have gotten in the WNBA if they had identified as women and been on hormone replacement therapy? Not too many WNBA players of their height and skill running around.
I mean, the Republicans are transphobic assholes, and I hate that Texas Governor Greg Abbott is trying to get his attorneys general onboard with the idea that parents allowing their transgender children to have gender-affirming care amounts to child abuse, and he wants the system to use its power to remove those children from their loving parents and put them in foster care.
I think they’re wrong on the North Carolina bathroom bill. Is that still a thing?
But I don’t think they’re necessarily wrong on the sports issue, and though I still think it comes from a deep-rooted transphobia, they’ve actually got an interesting point (in an “even a broken clock is right twice a day” sort of way).