My parents both have dementia and are in a nursing home. While my dad is doing all right (considering the circumstances), my mom is not. Even before they were placed, she wasn’t eating well and over time that has gotten worse, which is a sign her dementia is advancing to its final stages. Hospice has been called and they will do what they can until the inevitable occurs.
Both of them have decided to be cremated and they did buy a burial plot where the cremains can be buried. Other than that, though, no plans have been made. I’ve been thinking a burial service for the cremains immediately after death would be good, with a memorial service to follow after we’ve had a chance to notify friends and family from a wider area of when and where the event will take place
I’ve never had to organize a memorial service though and I don’t really know how to start. While my mom was somewhat religious and did belong to a church for awhile, it’s been many years since she’s gone, and my dad is not religious at all.
I’m an only child and my parents’ siblings are all dead. No other family lives in the area where they live. So it’s pretty much on me to do this. Anyone else have to organize a service, if you did, what did you do?
Thanks for any insight, I appreciate it!