I just wanted to point out that I read SilkyThreat’s username as ‘Silky Throat’ the first time around and that it made me choke on my milk. In context and all. ::coughs:: Nevermind.
The biggest disaster. You are having anal sex, doggy style:
“Put it in!”
anguished wail “It IS in!”
This actually happened to a close friend (as the bottom, let me hasten to clarify).
HER: Who do you think you’re going to satisfy with that little thing?
HIM: ME!!
Seriously, has anyone considered that the woman’s technique may also come into play in a situation like this? There are other ways to be sexually satisfied, and they’re all good. It’s about mutual satisfaction, and it’s a two-way street. A smaller-than-average erection can be “compensated for” in many ways, unless all the woman’s looking for is a large penis.
Which doesn’t say a lot for the woman, IMHO.
I must confess, I just couldn’t comprehend the existence of a penis which is as small and as thin as a pinkie finger. I’ve seen more than my fair share of penises over the years. (Now, don’t look at me like that…) After years of Life Drawing (lots and LOTS of nude artists’ models) and working in the health field (lots of nudity there too) I’ve never seen a penis that is that small. Smaller than porn stars, sure, but not pinkie finger small. I can’t even imagine such a thing. Though, to be fair, I doubt that any man with a pinkie-finger-sized penis would ever want to be an artists’ model!
So I looked on Google. I thought it would be a futile gesture, because I figured all I’d get would be “enlarge your penis” ads. But I did find something. I cannot link to it here, of course. But look up the phrase (with quotes) “ricotta has a small penis” and you’ll find some pictures of a small penis. (It’s a joke site, you can put your own name in and it’ll say that you have a small penis. What will people think of next?) I wonder if there is some sort of medical problem there; I’ve never seen anything that small.
I’ve never personally never seen a penis that was so small as to be a turn-off, (I’ve seen 'em smallish, but they still looked normal). But the penis in that web site—good grief. That’s small. :eek:
As far as surgical options go, there are two of which I am aware. One is liposuction on the pubic mound and the other is severing the suspensory ligaments that hold the penis in place. Neither actually increases the size of the penis. The former just shows more of the shaft as being out in front of the pubic mound and the latter releases 1-2 inches. Cutting the ligaments can lead to erectile problems; the penis will not stand up at the same angle it used to. For girth increase, it is possible to inject fat into the shaft. The fat can become displaced and lead to lumpiness.
FTR, I have indulged in none of the above and have no plans to. While most men including me would, I belive, prefer to be larger I’m pretty OK with what I have and my new boyfriend is too.
It… it’s retracted! They retract!?
Never compared full turgidity with any other guys. Never got any complaints from women. Did get a few compliments. Then I met Jennifer. The first time we bumped uglies, I was the one wondering if it was in yet.
Woman coulda made John Holmes feel like a needledink bugfucker.
Can’t imagine what my life would’ve been like if that was what it felt like all the time.
Attitude has soooooo much to do with things here.
Expressing disappointment to your partner with the size of said partner’s penis size is, IMHO, just really bad form. There’s ways around it without making him feel like crap.
Intercourse is great. I like it a lot. But, it’s the overall sexual experience that really counts (again, just MHO). There’s other ways to satisfy that have nothing to do with size. Hell, even average-sized or larger men have their off nights, you know? You just learn to work with what you’ve got (and I don’t just mean penises here–I mean yourself and your partner), and sex will be a lot more satisfying for all involved. 
Wow, I’m beginning to think I’m the only woman who doesn’t care about penis size. And Dave is right, it takes both partners to have great sex. You can’t just lie there and expect fireworks. Hell, not even a sparkler.
In any case, if I were to have a partner with a less-than-monstrous member, I would find a way to make us both happy. Sorry for those in the “bigger is better” camp, but in my experience, (which is admittedly limited) that’s the way it goes.
If you’ll excuse me, I’ll go wallow in my sexually mature superiority now. 
Damn, Persephone stole my thunder! Scooped again!
That’s something that doesn’t seem to get brought up quite as much. For some of the women complaining about penis size, maybe it’s not that the snake is too small, but rather that the cave is a bit too wide.
Heh. The phrase “Like throwing a sausage down a hallway” comes to mind for some reason 
FWIW, I’m more of a cubbyhole than a corridor.
I have no doubt that two creative partners could have plenty of pleasurable fun despite the endowments of either party.
I think about how partners have handled my imperfections. The smart one have complimented the other stuff, or found ways to make me think a minus is actually a plus. For example, I’m a pasty, sickly white shade, but one guy said my skin was like alabaster. Smart boy-- it got me in the sack, and I’ve thought of that compliment for years.
For what it’s worth, I do want to know how I compare to other guys but being a virgin and not into exhibitionism, I haven’t a clue.
Whenever I finally get to that point and I’m comfortable enough with the girl, yeah… I’d be interested in her telling me how I stacked up so long as it wasn’t accompanied by giggling.
I dated a guy once I would estimate to be the size of an average 6 year old, and this would be when he was hard. All I know is this guy had skillz!! I am sure he was fully aware of his shortcomings, so to speak, and definately made up for it in other ways. Although I was shocked and disappointed the first time around, I ended up enjoying myself everytime.
I’m very tight down there. This runs in the family (on my mom’s side anyway). Even tampons used to bother me.
So, under the hypothesis that I were to find myself in bed with a man who was not my SO, and saw that his equipment was tiny, my first reaction would be “oh, thank GOD, it won’t hurt.”
If I were to find it unsatisfying, I’d say something afterwards (at least, if I intending the relationship to be lasting). In my experience, though, size doesn’t necessarily correllate to pleasure. Out of the two guys I’ve been with, the one with less of an endowment is by far the better in the sack. Not only did sex with my ex hurt, he didn’t know what he was doing (we were both virgins). Besides, the pain was way too much. And he thought my vagina was icky.
I don’t think my part is tiny, but I figure the meaningful competition is not other people with cocks, but from fascinating lesbians instead. And it doesn’t seem to be a problem for them
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Omigod, Cranky, didn’t it make you feel like a goddess?! Each time my ex described my fair-as-fair-can-get skin as ‘alabaster,’ I puddled. So nice. Glad I’m not the only girl to fall for that one.
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Angel of the Lord, how do you know it runs in the family? Just curious. I personally can’t imagine asking my mom something like that (or her telling me.)