Frankly, big dicks are highly overrated. I much prefer to go with w guy who’s small to average than to try to take on Cockzilla. I once took home a guy with a dick so big that I couldn’t get my mouth around it. They’re nice to admire but not very practical. Smaller guys are easier to go down on or to take in the rear. Moreover, smaller guys think my slightly-larger-than-average endowment is humongous, which is always nice to hear.
Or on the other extreme…
I’d have to agree with the “big is not always best” theory. I once had an interlude with someone who had a dick a donkey would have been proud of. It was painful and so NOT fun. It was a drunken one night stand (or partial night stand as it turned out… he was leaving the country the next day and I felt no need to be “nice”) After a period of him attempting to ram his ginormous dick into me so hard I though it was about to come out my throat I made the very pathetic excuse that I had to use the loo (yes he should have got the hint!). Then I ran away into the night (clothes were in the living room) I felt bad but “Vlad the ginormous impaler” wasn’t going anywhere near me again!
My SO and I enjoy the odd threesome with a male friend. When turgid they have almost identical “normal” sized dicks (going by statistics above) but when flaccid SO’s shrinks a wee bit but the friends damn near vanishes. I was really shocked the first time I saw it “resting” I felt like asking if he had used someone elses dick earlier 
.I honestly hadn’t realised that they could grow so differently.
At the end of the day, as said by many others in this thread, it’s how 2 (or 3 ) people relate to each other and the way they use what they got that matters more then what they got.
Googling penis size information can be an eye-opening experience. 
I did find a site that mentioned that most studies had an ‘average’ size that was larger than reality. Apparently, there have only been two proper studies done (one was on a uni campus, can’t remember which one) where the member of interest was measured by a third party. All other studies were the result of compiling self-measured data, and it appears that self-measurement is a little more… generous than an objective third party
6.4 inches was the average length for self-reporting, even after the surveyor “has thrown out obvious cases of fraudulent responses such as respondents who claimed “American Zulu warrior” ancestry, for instance,”. When measured by a third party, the average was 5.1 inches. This difference (and the much quoted 6’ figure) could contribute to most men feeling they are smaller than average, when in fact they most likely aren’t.
So to anyone who still thinks they are too small, take heart with this :
or if you want to be proactive, learn as many other ways of sexual expression, so your penis isn’t your stand-alone party trick
Sorry forgot the cite : Health Central.
27 years. I have lived for 27 years and have never felt an urge to see if I “measure up.” OK, this thread finally caused me to caved in (that and I am pulling an all-nighter and desperately do not want to work). No, I am not going to give a measurement, this is not a TMI thread, but I will say that I see where the differences in reported lengths that Goo found for us arise from. Even without fudging the numbers you can get a wide range of lengths as the base where you are measuring to isn’t exactly immobile itself. One full inch between the max and min numbers. I can see where guys who are self-measuring can be tempted to “stretch” things.
“It’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion of the ocean, but it is hard to sail to France in a dingy.”
[Kim Cattrall voice] It was small, I’m telling you. Gherkin sized.[/Kim Cattrall voice]
To the OP: Do you tell your partner he has a tiny dick? No. There’s nothing he can do about it. And he probably already knows.
I’m reminded of an interview I saw with Sylvester Stallone. He was asked “Are the rumors true, that you’ve had sex with a lot of women?”
Sylvester smiles and says “Can a million happy customers be wrong?”
Of my many happy customers, only one complained. She like bigger thicker ones, and let me know it. Though we had orgasms together from intercourse, I was never able to feel comfortable when she made her complaints.
I have an average-sized penis (10.5 inches long, 7 inches around ;), just kidding it’s actually pretty average ). But I felt as though it was “too small” because of this one experience. Since then I have learned that it was just this one woman’s opinion. Others have said I’m the perfect size for them. Life has been fun.
I would suggest you not tell him if you’re going to break up with him over it. If you’re going to stay with him, then think up a solution to the problem that will keep you happy, and keep him reassured that you’ll be happy with him as a sex partner.
Okay, so tell me I’m not the only person reading this thread who now absolutely believes there is a guy out there who has slept with BOTH of these Dopettes… :eek:
I can see it now…
And then immediately,
Nothing like finding one’s quarry in the quarry, I always say.
I get the feeling I’m average to small, but I’m so fucking wealthy that frankly, I’ve never given it a second thought.
Okay. So this was a joke. Okay? Sheeesh. Tiny men sure are sensitive. So are rich men. 
Oh, yes… speaking of big dicks, one night I went home with this guy, he was really beautiful, we were making out, at one point I was lying on my stomach and he asked, “can I fuck you?” I idly turned my head to look.
And then executed the most balletic spin-skitter backwards-pull knees to chest movement, while uttering a high-pitched scream. I don’t think he could have fucked me with that thing if I had been a girl. It was f’in massive. Needless to say we found other ways of entertaining each other that night sweatdrop
My penis is so small :
My penis is so small: it has an event horizon
My penis is so small: Satre wrote long extended poems about it.
My penis is so small: muons walk up to me at the urinal, look over and snort: “Honkey”
My penis is so small: as it approaches the speed of light it gains no mass.
[sub]just had to be a smart-ass, sorry - [/sub]
Seeing as few other men are willing to “step up to the plate”, I guess I will. After all, part of being a real “man” is the willingness to being comfortable with oneself…including one’s ah…shortcomings. jeeze…this is one time I wish sock-puppets were legal!
I’m what you’d call small. Yes, as others have guessed, men generally are aware of their relative size. And the reactions I’ve received from women have run the gamut. I can’t count the number of times I’ve been told how “cute” it is. It’s not uncommon for the heat of passion to be disturbed by my lover glancing down & supressing a small giggle. Generally it’s more subtle than that…as she reveals my “little man”, I’ll catch a small smirk erupt across her face, which she’ll try to supress before she thinks I’ll catch it. But I always do…I’m ready for it. I really don’t mind that–it’s natural & not deliberately mean-spirited. But, please don’t be patronizing about it. I’d much rather get it out in the open & release the tension than have you patronize me. It bothers me when women try to pretend that they don’t notice, when we both know they have. And women who think they’re soothing me by telling me it’s “bigger than average…really” make me feel like they think I’m stupid.
Like a blind man who develops an extra-keen sense of smell, I’ve learned to comensate for my “handicap”. My…ah…oral skills have served me quite well. I’ve always been able to satisfy my partners…except for my last girlfriend. She had never been able to have an orgasm, so it was no surprise that I couldn’t take her there. However, I wasn’t able to please her in any other way either. We concluded that she just wasn’t able to “peak” with any of the standard methods. Or so we thought. We had a long-distance relationship, and as sometimes happens, she strayed. When we reunited she was completely honest with me (something I loved about her). She quickly confessed that she’d been sleeping with another guy. She went on to admit that this man was, as she put it, “very big”–something she had never before experienced. She took a certain glee in describing, in detail, all their sexual escapades. The main thing she wanted to get across was that this man…and his enormous appendage, had given her more pleasure in the month she had been with him, than I had in the entire four years we’d been together. To be honest, this didn’t bother me in the least. I cared about her a lot, and I was happy to know that she was able to experience pleasure like that. Plus, we still had an emotional bond between us that seemed strong. We resumed our sexual relationship…but something seemed different. She didn’t put much effort into hiding her boredom during our lovemaking. Eventually she told me what I already knew: Now that she had experienced what “super-sizing her order” felt like, she couldn’t go back to my smallness.
Contrary to the opinions stated in this thread, I was grateful for her honesty. I was saved from having to wonder what it was that made her up & leave me. It was a relief to know that it was something as simple as that. Romance aside, let’s face it–sexual satisfaction is a must for any relationship. And if I couldn’t provide it for her, I was glad that there was someone out there who could. I’m still secure that there are many women out there who I can satisfy.
So, ladies…no need to lie or beat around the bush. Guys have a good idea of how big they are, and if they’re secure enough with themselves, hearing the truth would be refreshing. Of course since so many guys aren’t very secure with themselves, don’t go out of your way to be cruel…
I can’t speak for everyone but I can sure tell you what happened in my instance.
I was making out with this man, and it was fabulous. I had never had anyone kiss me the way he had. After quite a bit of this making out, I reached down and undid his chinos. I slid my hand in and expected to have my hand meet up with his “member” at some point.
Well, my hand kept sliding down further and further. I remember I thought for a fleeting second “Where is it???” right before my hand came in contact with it. He stopped kissing me and said “I know. It’s small.”
He was completely erect and and an inch and a half long. It was thicker than my pinkie finger, more like cigar sized thick. He didn’t have a lot to work with, be he certainly was enthusiastic with what he had, lol. He was actually a good lover.
So, IrishRideGirl, were his testicles proportionate? Or did he have enormous balls and a tiny penis?
This made me think of the Dave Attell quote, “Maybe my penis is average and I just have enormous legs.”
Mr. Fink: applause
True, it is an anonymous board, but still brave honesty.
That’s what did it for me. “you’re not huge, you’re not tiny … you just work. That thing works well…” roughly paraphrased, of course;)
Where I used to care if I was bigger than so-and-so, I honestly don’t anymore. If I am, good for me, I guess. If not, I’m not worried because I fit the person I want. And that, my friends, is much better than having The Biggest Dick on Earth:)
There was a Clint Eastwood marathon on TV today and I came across the perfect capstone to this discussion.
In Unforgiven seven or so people die and two are beaten nearly to death. Why? Because a young woman giggled when a less than remarkably endowed man dropped trou. There is a lesson in this.
Ok, so there was this girl in high school who wasn’t able to accommodate an average sized dude. I mean, I tried from when it got dark to when it got light to gain entry to the palace. Didn’t happen. She was more than willing, but physically incapable. Later, I found out that at least one other guy had also given it his all…for naught. (I know him well enough; we were in the Army together.)
Then I found out she got married to a guy named Ron. I knew Ron. The other guy knew Ron. We now know more about Ron than we care to.
There’s someone for everyone. Ron and Vicki are still married, and they have two kids.