I think fobby Korean wife is wordlessly saying, “Hey, as long as my husband is already nailing your wife behind your back twice a week, you and I may as well have a little fun too!”
Go for it, dude!
I am enjoying this thread, since who doesn’t like hot Asian MILF-on-foot action really?
One puzzling thing, which probably won’t get cleared up since OP ‘silver toe’ seems to have vanished :
OK, I’m guessing the OP is from North America (or Europe maybe), so that works for the Asian-American hubby. Now, the Korean Wife is FOB… (4Chan style: “FOB Korean Wife is FOB”)
The Asian couple has kids, oldest 10 years old - the way the OP words it, it sounds like the kids are theirs and not from one partner’s previous marriage - so the Asian couple has been together for 10+ years.
- Did the Asian husband move to and live in Korea for that time, and the couple just recently to the (guessing here, in the US)?
- Or has the ‘Fresh OB’ wife NOT acclimated to America over the past 10 years that she has lived here? How Fresh is fresh anyway?
- Or is this yet another hole (no puns please) to poke in this touching romantic story.
Dear all,
Ta-da, I’m back! 
Thank you Sirray, among all the immature posts and redundant borish idiots, I found your post at least thoughtful. And there are others I appreciate as well, but very few. Now lets get to it:
To: Hello Again
I never said anything about fucking anyone.
To: Choie
You sarcastic bastard, lol.
To: Chiroptere
Yes, joined just for this post, no whoosh… Whatever that is… This is a legit and real situationa nd question. Which not many people actually answered all the questions I posed.
To: Fuzzy Dunlop
Way to pin it on the “funny man”.
To: Lancia
So you think she’s interested in me then? Or should I say, you think she likes flirting with me? I don’t think she or I want to fuck, but you never know.
To: Handsomeharry
Thanks for the advice. Taken into consideration.
To all:
No trolling here “fools” as Mr. T would say.
To: LurkeInNJ
Yea, ur right I do have a foot fetish, at least for asian feet.
To: AClockWorkMelon
Thanks, it’s hot I know. 
To: TheSecondStone
Are you kidding? She’s into me, at least enough to flirt back. I may be an idiot, but you’re definitely an idiot.
To: JoeBuck20
Good idea. Subtle is good.
To: obbn
Sorry, ur wife caught you reading this, hope she didn’t bust you with a hardon. Lol.
To: Gedd, FreudianSlit
You fools are the trolls.
To: Lieu
She prob didn’t realize I was doing it on purpose and just thought it was accidentally. We were sitting very close, lots of people. Of course she eventually realized, and that’s when she played back. She moved, not to get away, but because when she was up, someone took her seat next to me. My fault for not fully explaining that. The fact that she played footsie more aggressively when my wife was away, and then stopped when she retured, is proof I believe that she liked it, likes flirting with me.
To: SirRay
He was born and grew up in states, she in korea. By ethnicity, both are korean. He moved there, they got married, then moved to states after few years. I’m not when, but 5-10 years ago. Since, she spent first 30yrs of her life in korea, she will never lose her accent, or korean culture. Her english is moderate, she can communicate but it is broken english. So the kids are both from the current marriage. And yes, asian milf footsie is damn hot.
What are your intentions?
I just like flirting with her, and playing footsie with her is very exciting. I’d go for some light touching, maybe kiss on the cheek, something like that. I’d love to give her a foot massage or full body massage. I love the fact that she likes me and wants to flirt, so it seems so far. It’s fun, entertaining, and exciting. Plus I think her husband is annoying, I don’t really like him.
I can’t see how pursuing more intimate contact with her could possibly go wrong.
But it turns out, I’m right!
Question: do you think it would be appropriate, and not a violation of your marriage vows and/or whatever respect you have for your spouse, if she engaged in the sort of behavior you are in engaging in.? For example, if you knew that she allowed another married man to caress her stomach, or teasingly caressed his penis through his pants, would you be fine with that? Have you discussed this with her? Do you have an open marriage?
If the answers to these questions are no, no, and no, you are a pathetic scumbag.
If they are yes, yes and yes, AND you know that she has had the same conversations with her spouse, congratulations, you’re an Ethical Slut. However, even if all this is above board, you should note that you come off as having a juvenile and demeaning way of speaking about women which does not reflect well on you.
I’m not speaking negatively about any woman. While calling someone a FOB might not be PC, it’s not derogatory towards women either. And I definitely didn’t mean it in any negative way. I think foreign born asian girls, who didn’t grow up in the states (some might call the fobs), are extremely cute. So… You’re trying to fight a battle which doesn’t exist man. Sorry to dissappoint you. Sorry about that. Chin up, tiger.
What if your wife was playing footsie with your little lady friend’s husband? Would that bother you? What if she got a little kiss from friend’s husband? a little tickling? a full body massage? Would you be OK with that? Why or why not?
Why don’t you ask your wife what she thinks of you flirting with your little lady friend? If your first reaction to that idea is that you’d rather not ask, you might want to think about why not.
Ah, Mr silvertoes is back.
My question is simple - do you actually (still) love your wife?
You said you were both 30, couldn’t really have been married that long (well, I guess up to a decade) - heck, even MAD magazine claimed you don’t get bored of your marriage till your 36 or so. Bored now, don’t care, don’t love?
Many answers would automatically flow from that, as I think previous posters have hinted at.
Also, from the Korean wife’s perspective, can I be the first person who’s not a pandering politician to say ‘Think of the Children!’. No? Oh well, I tried.
Finally, remember, a key rule of starting a clandestine “affair” (very genteel, no?) is not posting on a major message board with millions of view - if you can’t keep your trap shut before starting one, its clear we dopers won’t be the only ones to find out.
+1
Ask your wife what she thinks of her. Maybe she’ll want in on the tickle/massage/foot-fetish action! 
Or go with plan B. Anytime your wife asks if you’re stopping anyway after work reply with, “Yeah, I have to swing by so-and-so’s and bang his wife.”. She will think you’re joking so after many many times she will eventually say, “Yeah whatever, go for it.”. Brilliant!
Do whatever you want. I’m guessing that no matter how many posts are in this thread, you’re going to do what you want anyway. Are you just looking for the boards to give approval for the actions you want to take?
OK two questions for you:
One: Would you be OK with your wife flirting, massaging, fooling around and playing footsie with Mrs Fobby’s husband? How would that make you feel that your wife finds another (married) man more exciting and “playful” than you?
Two: Would it be correct to assume that your physical relationship with your wife isn’t that great in your opinion, and because you are very immature and not committed to your marriage you think it’s all right to fool around with a married woman?
No, three: Bonus points for telling the teeming millions how you think your wife would feel about this, say if she read what you’ve posted here. Would she be hurt? Do you care?
Do you dislike her kids, too? Dismiss it as cheap “why doesn’t anyone think of the kids” melodrama if you wish, but your playful footsie partner is part of “mom and dad” to two innocent kids, and fooling around with someone’s wife could very easily destroy their marriage. Maybe they have problems, maybe she’s a cheater, maybe their marriage is on the rocks anyways, but why would you want to play any kind of contributing role to a situation that possibly leaves a couple of kids crying themselves to sleep even for one night, wondering why mom and dad can’t get back together and why can’t they be a happy family again? Just so you could play footsie and fantasize about giving her a full body massage? Is causing that kind of pain and harm to someone else really worth it for you?
I understand the temptation and the excitement of the situation, assuming you are being on the level. But why not consider conducting yourself more like and adult with some honor, pride and self-respect, instead of sniffing around some other man’s wife and some kids’ mother? It is not too late, the situation has not progressed so far that any real damage has been done.
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If your needs are not being satisfied by your physical relationship with your wife, the first thing you should do is talk to her about it. Maybe she is also dissatisfied, maybe she is unaware of what you need or want, maybe the two of you can work it out together, whether that be trying harder with each other or having an above-board open marriage. If you have any kind of love or respect for your wife, doesn’t she deserve to know what the true situation is, and be allowed to address it in a way where she knows what is going on and has her own input into the situation and the solution?
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If you absolutely need the excitement of the clandestine nature of your flirting, and your wife is dead set on a monogamous relationship that does not permit such extracurricular activities, and you have no kids, you should think long and hard about getting a divorce. That would be fair to your wife and to yourself. If you have kids, then you should think long and hard about whether you absolutely need such clandestine excitement. Sometimes parents have to make sacrifices for their kids, and that may have to be one that you have to make.
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If your wife is OK with the level of extracurricular activity you seek, then go to it, but find a partner where you are not hurting other people, especially kids. There are plenty of women out there, it is not like your friend is the last woman in the world who wants a foot massage.
Why not strive to conduct yourself in a way that is aboveboard?
…and when I say “high-quality Czechoslovakian angel dust”, I mean CZECHOSLOVAKIAN angel dust, Soviet-era circa 1991 and before, not that stepped on, watered down, candy-assed filth that is coming out of the Czech Republic these days; That shit is so mollyfocking weaksauce that the friggin’ cast members of “The View” are going thru an entire 8-Ball every 3 blessed days.
Would you play footsie with Mrs Fobby’s husband?
[Bolding mine.] +1
Honestly, if we’d said, “Yeah, she is warmin’ up to you and you should continue because, from all the signals she’s giving you, pretty soon you’re gonna wind up with a hunk of burnin’ love. Forget about any outrage to your or her marriage. You can cross that bridge when you come to it if ever” how would you feel? Do not tell me what you would do.
Wow. I hope he reads this. This is an excellent, thoughtful post.
I think the more you touch her, the more you will want to touch her. Right now you are just flirting, and thinking about more flirting, but one thing leads to another here.
I’m not going to go into the right and wrongs of it, but it looks to me like you two will end up having an affair. Unless you deliberately decide not to. Affair = path of least resistance = probable outcome.
If you have an affair, that will have all kinds of effects on your marriage, her marriage etc. That’s even without getting caught.
I think you are maybe at a point now, where you could still back out if you want to. It will get harder and harder to break away, the more you see of her, and the more you get involved with her. So your decision now will have long term consequences.
I think I might not mind my wife playing footsie with the husband, or kissing him on the cheek, or tickle, or full body massage nude. None of those are really too out there, or crazy. I mean I probably wouldnt want her to suck his dick and let him fuck her brains out. But, I’d be ok with a little flirting on her part, it would actually turn me on and make me want to fuck my wife all night long.