Foremost, I think Cecil needs to add an advice column to his Boards! 
Beyond this, I think the OP answers its own question. Just a matter of where your conscience and upbringing stand. You’re gonna hate yourself if this goes any further…when you wake up from this fool’s paradise of a fantasy very, very alone. By the way, isn’t her husband like a black belt or something? 
Better start taking those cold showers, dude, and do some serious soul searching.
Ok then.
You come home one day and find your wife and the husband nude in your bedroom and he’s giving her a full body massage. He has a big ol’ boner, 'cause, y’know, he’s giving your wife a full nude body massage.
She says “Oh honey, it’s not like I sucked his dick or let him fuck my brains out.”
Do you believe her? Really? Honestly? And if you do, might you simply wonder about all the other times you didn’t catch them?
Anyway, I’m really with Jbone at this point. You’re going to do whatever you want, so go ahead; it’s not like anybody’s ever ruined their marriage by thinking “Oh, it’s just a little harmless flirting/footsie/peck on the cheek/peck on the lips/backrub/nude backrub/blowjob/sex/unintended pregnancy.”
Time to discuss this with your wife. Then, depending on what your wife says (or does), discuss this with the other couple.
No shit; I’ve heard of long-term polyamory relationships working. But keep it a secret and I promise you it won’t work.
So either quit or take the next step. Either way you’re going to learn something.
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I think it’s spelled “playful 'tsie”
Plus, I’m with Onomatopoeia. Guy joins to post a poorly written “Letters to Playboy” story full of obsessive detail about “playful”-ness and touching feet with an “FOB” Asian woman, then admits he has a thing for touching feet and Asian women. It’s obvious BS and was typed with one hand.
asiansilvertoes, regarding your post #63 in this thread, you should realize that personal insults are not allowed here (except in the Pit). You might want to reread the Registration Agreement as well as the FAQs, here.
I burning your footsie.
I see that the FTSE is rising. Keep at it 'toes!
Google the first two sentences encapsulated in quotes.
Our friend has been at this since August.
So, asiansilvertoes, what progress have you made since August? Still playing footsie? Been thrown out and divorced? Become celibate?
I’m thinking its time for Absorbine Jr.
I can’t believe no one’s mentioned the true danger here! That guy’s Yakuza, just think about what he’ll do if you try banging his woman! This could be the last time you see Mr. Happy again!
Honestly though, why would you get married if you didn’t love your wife? Do us all a favor and just tell your SO that you think the marriage was a mistake, you prefer Asian girls instead. TBH, I can’t blame you for being attracted to Oriental ladies, they are quite hot, but instead of messing with your friends girl, just get your own, mail-order brides can’t be that expensive 
(that was totally out of line, forgive me, I just can’t help it).
So, do I take it it’s usually a bad thing if your wife ‘busts you with a hardon’? Because then I think there’s something you’re doing wrong…
All I find is this thread.
I’m having a little difficulty reconciling these.
And you “probably wouldn’t want her to …”??? Come back when you’ve made up your mind.
And here I always thought people bought glass-top dining tables because they were stylish. Now I see it’s quite possibly a last ditch desperate attempt to save their marriage.
How would I feel if “The Boards” agreed and said go for it? I would be amazed that a mass of people could actually all agree on the same thing.
I’m trying to look at a bigger picture as to why someone would be posting this? He explained what was going on, and what he wants to happen, and then asks what he should do. It sounded more like he was lookingpeople to say, “She’s sooo got the hots for you, go for it!” just so it would give him a sense that other people would do the same thing.
Kinky. I was flipping through the channels one late night and came across a show on HBO called ‘Real Sex’. It was a very old episode (like from the 80’s), but I remember a quote from a guy that they were interviewing who said: “My wife doesn’t care where I work up my appetite; just as long as I eat at home.”.
I think the main point is that you really, really, really, REALLY need to bring this up with your wife.
I got a hit from “Yahoo Answers - India”
Silvertoes has gone (even more) International!