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Although anything about Hitler’s immediate person is at best difficult to disecern from myth, it is fairly accepted that Hitler was not known for loving his family, if you don’t qualify courting your own niece and then driving her to suicide by ignoring her when she gets lovesick ‘loving your family’. In fact his relationship with close and extended family was rather distant especially post his mothers death in 1907.
Hitler was notorious at maintaining hardly any personal relationships according to the entourage he kept who survived the Nuremberg Trials. Even Eva Braun complained about it and attempted suicide a couple of times saying she felt abandoned and lonely. Hitler only avowed to having one friend whom he confided in namely Ernst Röhm, the founder and leader of the SA and eventually Hitler’s only serious competitor for NSDAP leadership. Hitler had Röhm murdered during the “Night of the Long Knives,” January 30 1934 - so much for being friends with Hitler. The only evidence we have of Hitler being soft hearted in any way is that against a stated unwillingness to marry, he did after all marry said Eva hours before they committed suicide in the Berlin bunker. He was pretty close with his German shepherd dog though…
Regarding taxes, although I have no good cite at the moment, I’d say that this is pretty unlikely. The only paid jobs he had in his life was as a soldier in WWI and as a clerk at the Soldiers Union in Munich 1918-23. I don’t know off hand how the Bavarian standing army employees were remunerated, but I suspect that their sold would have been under mild if any tax, which was until not so long ago the military norm. As of 1925 Hitler has no real private life and all that he owns, does and lives from comes from the NSDAP. From 1933 and on Hitler and state are synonymous. If he at all paid tax it was a paper issue in the Reich administration. In any case tax in the Third Reich is a pretty complex matter. The NSDAP dissolved private management of industry, agriculture and trade, but did not collectivize. Owners of business were allowed to collect profit and workers were paid taxable income. Hence there was such a thing as tax, but it more resembled tariffs and profit sharing than actual tax.
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Re the OP, Godwin’s law holds out. Comparing anything or anybody with Hitler is futile – he remains a singular and very, very strange personal phenomena in history, both psychologically, historically as well as through his actions.
It would be better to compare the friendship here discussed to the young men, women, boys and girls that joined the various Nazi youth organizations in the 20s and 30s in Germany. A large part of the success of the NSDAP was that they were able to provide a disenchanted, disillusioned and embittered young generation with a social structure where they could find meaning and safety in world that was otherwise very confusing and threatening. They attracted these youths through the sporting nature of the organizations, the superficial ideals of a better world a la NSDAP and the social communality they provided. The internal group pressure and mass psychology then played a large part to uniform the ideas of these pliable minds, still in development. Turning these youths into an instrument of hate and destruction was a small matter after that. Hate groups and ethnic gangs operate under pretty similar dynamics, although thankfully they have far worse leadership and less resources.
I once rode with a cab driver through Munich and as we passed by the old HQ of the NSDAP and the SS, we came to talk of the Nazi years. He looked over at me and grunted as I laid out a rather complex argument about the German national guilt that still mires the people here 57 years later. ‘Nah, it’s not the German’s fault at large. It’s my fault. Me and all the other stupid 16 year olds who thought it was cool. We were so angry you know, like 16 year olds are, and when the ‘Jugend’ came along we just let it sweep us away. We built Hitler’s foundation and we carried him to power. Our parents they were just happy that we seemed to be doing something sensible and outdoorsy with our free time. We were so stupid though, so, so stupid. Not only were we wrong, not only did it kill millions of innocent people, look at what it brought us personally,” as he said that he lifted his right leg up a bit and knocked hard on it sounding wood. He glanced over at me through the rearview mirror; “Stalingrad… I was 19 and lucky, most of my friends never came back.”
On that note I think it’s important, very important that if we have the opportunity, strength and bravery that it takes, we should always provide a better alternative for anyone about to walk down or already on that road.
Sparc