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Male, 24, don’t like it. I know some people have the attitude of “It’s just blood,” thinking that my “ick” factor comes from the fact that it’s “oogy, VAGINA, blood.” But honestly, I could care less where it comes fro, because it’s still blood. I try to make it a habit to not have anyone’s blood from any body part on me. I’m not squemish (I was on an ambulance crew, worked in a hospital, frequently encounter pictures of surgeries/severed limbs/etc… in my studies) but I try not to get other people’s blood on me if I can help it. The few times I’ve done it I haven’t always been able to finish. The most recent was last October when I had a one-night-stand with a girl who didn’t bother to tell me at ALL! Being slightly drunk, I didn’t actually notice until halfway through…and went from rock hard to wet noodle in about five seconds. There was blood all over the sheets, her legs, my legs, my penis…blech. I know it’s not her fault for having a heavy flow, but it is her fault for not at least telling me beforehand.
Dude here. Not the slightest bothered. My current gf inserts a diaphram to stem the tide for the hour or so it takes for a frollic, but I’ve never been bothered even when things are unobstructed.
An accupuncturist who was my mentor when I was learning massage used to like to have the heat up around 90 when I worked on her, and since she was in her office on her table she was comfortable cleaning up after herself if it was her “woman’s time.” She used to say “tell you what, you sweat on me, I bleed on you, we’ll call it even.”
Male, 21. I have no problem with it. My wife (obviously female) - who is 24, has never had a problem with it. Usually it’s an excuse to shower together, and that isn’t a problem at all (except when we lived in the old house with the really little shower and then it was a little less fun - stupid stall showers…)
Brendon Small
Call me crazy, but I don’t see sweat and blood as “even” body fluids.
Female, 39. I hurt so much all over that time of the month I don’t want ANYTHING remotely sexual near me.
In my experience orgasms can sometimes help with cramps. Don’t mean to butt in, just trying to be helpful.
While I’ve commenced once or twice unwittingy – not becomingly fully apprised of the situation until already engaged – I do not particularly dig it and would rather not if given a choice. Menstruation is the reason God invented blowjobs.
Male, 26 ambivalent about it. The concept seemed yucky before I actually tried it, but later it wasn’t nearly as horrible/gross as some people made it out to be.
If we’re horny enough, we’ll do it. My girlfriend is in the “Well, if you wanna, go ahead, but if you’re grossed out I won’t take it personally” (she’s so cool
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Generally the main thing that bugs me about it is the smell…
That didn’t stop me from giving my g/f oral on her period once…
No, menstruation is why god invented anal sex. Oral sex was just the cherry on the cake.
God is weird. I think that’s what I like about him.
Doesn’t squick me out, but ain’t gonna happen either. I get really sensitive when I’m on my period. Sensitive as in DON’T YOU DARE TOUCH OR LOOK AT ME IF YOU WANT TO LIVE!
Just curious, which one is more whatever, which less? Can you insert piss into the hierarchy?
It completely grosses me out. My husband doesn’t care so every once in awhile we’ll make use of the shower but I never really enjoy it because I’m too busy being mortified.
Sweat and saliva are the “lowest” ranking body fluids. I don’t feel the need to wash off someone else’s sweat or saliva, save for getting spit on by someone.
I guess vaginal fluids and semen are next, in that, depending on who their from/how I get them on me, I might enjoy it, or I might want to wash them off. (Though I guess that unless it’s my semen, I’ll probably always want to wash that off me.)
Piss I will always want to wash off, regardless of who it’s from. Though if it’s just a few drops, a mere wipe might do (it is sanitary, after all, but then again…it’s still piss. )
Blood, at the top of the ol’ list, requires a washing with some soap as soon as possible. Having much knowledge of blood born pathogens and all that crap just serve to make one a bit more paranoid about that sort of thing.
I realize I missed several fluids (mucus, puss, cerebral-spinal fluid) but I think you get the idea.
Neither of us like it so it’s not much of a problem.
:eek: Sex that involves mucus, pus and and…CERBEREL SPINAL FLUID! Even I think that’s going to far.
Let’s stick to the the nice normal cum and piss please.
Tried it once. I didn’t mind the concept of it, and actually thought it was kind of cool (that was a macabre moment for me), but I just couldn’t get off that way. The texture was just different.
Female
I don’t mind having sex during my period. It is messy though and the boyfriend really doesn’t like it.
When I find myself considering the sexual potential of some dude I normally wouldn’t look once at, I know I’m about to have my period. My periods are not very abundant: on the second day it’s stronger, but on the other four it’s little more than funny-colored lubrication. So I’m not squicked by it… quite the contrary! Plus it’s a low-fertility time (relatively to other times) so I’m more relaxed than, say, when I know I’m ovulating.
My partners were all squicked, though
Morons.
Heh…unless you act like a puppy dog wanting a walk and come to the bed on all fours with towel in mouth…got a big laugh and great fun was had by all.