I try to make posts that are thoughtful and bring something to the discussion that hasn’t already been done to death. As some others have mentioned about themselves in another thread, a hefty percentage of my proto-posts get deleted instead of posted. But every so often I manage to put down something I really like (and it usually sinks like a stone, but nevertheless).
I’m not quite ready to link to one of mine yet, but I’d love to see any of you folks linking to a post you’re proud of, whether because it’s well written or for some other reason. Style, content, good grammar and spelling, whatever you’ve done well, please share it with us again. I like to read a good post.
The overall thread was started by Maggie the Ocelot, about her experiences and frustrations with infertility. A few people, myself included, posted what I though were supportive messages, along with anecdotes about getting pregnant after giving up. Then, the thread went kinda sideways, some people blaming others for giving the kind of advice you wouldn’t want to hear and such. So, I made the linked post in response, a more complete story about my own experience through the heartbreak of “no baby for you”. I think the story touched a few people, so I’m proud of it.
I’ve had 2 or 3 posts free of spelling and punctuation errors without being edited. My goal is to have one that meets those criteria with excellent content to boot.
I made a post about how I felt as a woman in a locker room with a transwoman (on the side of peace and protection for the transwoman, being that her life struggle was more painful than any sweeping moment of uncomfortableness for myself in the situation) and someone responded that they really liked my post and gave me a great compliment and I’ve always remembered that.
In a thread about a clearance sale right before the closing of F.A.O. Schwarz, the New York toy store, someone else quoted the Blade Runner line about “All these things will be lost, like tears in rain.”
I was considered out of step at the time, by being so chary about prescribing them. But what I did back then is pretty much in step with what the CDC and other medical authorities advocate as the way to prescribe opioids currently. It seems I’m even a bit more generous with them than some experts.