I am attracted to men who are comfortable with their bodies and move well. It doesn’t really matter what type they are (as long as they are taller/bigger than I am, which isn’t THAT hard, considering I’m not that tall or big). My boyfriend has awesome calves and thighs (he runs), decent arm muscle, though he isn’t cut, and a pot belly. He has very broad shoulders, but that doesn’t affect me one way or the other. I like his legs and that he is comfortable with his body. I also like it that I feel safe and protected when he hugs me My other long-term relationship was with a guy who wasn’t much taller or bigger than I was and I never felt the same way about being safe and protected. I like the teddy bear feeling, I guess.
I like looking at very muscular or cut men, both more wiry (soccer/swimmer) and bigger, but it’s more a matter of aesthetics. Like, wow, the human body is put together in a really interesting way kind of way. Not a wow, he has muscles, I want to jump his bones kind of way. I feel the same way about looking at women. It’s more an interest in aesthetics and how the body works than anything else. I do NOT like looking at women body builders, though. Those women scare me.