:rolleyes: Well, I did figure out how to add the poll but I screwed up yet again by forgetting to include “Evil” option… that was the reason I had one extra option left over… so I added "I take 5th option. :rolleyes:
I couldn’t find the poll but I understand how that happens. I understand how guys can not get things up
If there was a poll, I would have voted other. Bill isn’t my soulmate. I’m not his. We are both agreed that we are a port in the storm and when our life storms move back to sea, we will look for other ships.
I don’t believe in destiny, much less a single destined soul mate. As a wise woman once said, “The ‘one’ isn’t a man; it’s a relationship.” I do, however, think that I’m lucky to run into one of my possible perfect mates. We complement each other so well, he often seems to understand what I really need long before I do.
I don’t think I believe in soul mates, but friends who do say he and I are the real thing. Single friends look at my relationship with my man and tell me it gives them hope that love exists and can be found. If there is a perfect person in this world for me, he is that person. There may be another person with whom I could be happy, but I’ll never know because I’ll never be looking. It took us 17 years and a lot of heartbreak on both our parts to realize that we belonged together. We’re done now.
I tend to be drawn to slightly eccentric women, even though I’ve had relationships with fantastic normal partners. I think this allows me to be a bit weird and not feel like I’m the odd one.
Yeah, I think I could’ve/should’ve done a multi choice poll, in hind sight. The poll choices are essentially based on what I felt as *** the one thing that stands out*** in my relationships… as for the negative ones, they are the ones that can “break the horse’s back”, aside from infidelity, like “temper”. If I’m really in love I’d say to myself I can deal with this one uncalled-for out burst of temper… then there would be another one and so on and eventually I would find that I cannot.
Soulmate, no question. He is also fairly normal (I’m the weird one) & stunning & romantic & lovely. But why didn’t you make the option “he is my soulmate & I love him, but sadly my soulmate turns out to be an incompetent fool, despite having an IQ of about 5 billion”? That would work for me.