Some great suggestions, guys.
I like the websites that honestly lay out the “negatives” of their breed, actually. It’s not fair to a person or a dog to mislead the person as to what they need to be prepared for in order for both pet & owner to be happy together.
I’m not a first-time dog owner, BTW; I’ve owned a couple of cocker spaniels (American) and a couple of Golden Retrievers. (I’m also an avid watcher of the annual Westminster show.) I like these dogs a lot, but just don’t want to deal with so much hair! The cockers need a lot of grooming or they mat badly, and I ended up shaving mine down (which I hated doing) when I couldn’t keep up. Goldens shed a LOT, and it’s fairly long hair. I guess that’s the price you pay for a beautiful flowing coat, right?
Besides the dogs I’ve owned, I’ve been exposed the most to labs, german shepherds, a boston terrier, poodles, a min pin, a Westie and a shih tzu. The labs were my favorite of these, and is high on my short list. I like the looks of the min pin, but some of the things his owner tells me about sound like they’d clash with my personality. The Westie I know is an absolute doll. I didn’t like the boston’s looks, nor the grunting and farting. Standard poodles with the puppy cut seem an attractive choice, but that aloofness thing someone mentioned may or may not work for me (I’m very introverted, but that doesn’t mean I want to be alone - it just means I process internally and like lots of peace & quiet).
I had been very strongly considering the basenji, but the websites I’ve read have pointed out how destructive they can be if they get bored, and that worries me. I wonder if that means I have to pay attention to the dog 100% of its waking hours, or just that I should minimize how much it’s left alone and/or keep it crated when I must leave it. The websites aren’t clear enough on that. I’m thinking I should go to some dog shows and talk to some owner/breeders with my questions.
Another strong contender is the Brittany, but then I read in one book that no one should own one who isn’t planning to use it for hunting. Well, I don’t hunt. Period. So - is that just one person’s opinion? Anyone here with a sporting dog (or better yet, a Brittany) who can give a dissenting view? My cockers & goldens were sporting dogs, but they were happy enough just playing fetch - they didn’t have to be tromping through the marsh to bring me back a dead bird to be happy. Another question to take to the dog show.
I guess I’d be happiest with a mid-sized dog (even though I think boxers,great danes, newfies and mastiffs are awesome-looking dogs). I don’t want one that will try to dominate me, and I know the herding dogs would be wrong for me. I’d probably try a greyhound, but to tell the truth, I’m having a little trouble getting over that they’re not all that attractive, except in motion.
I think I’ll check out the wheaten and westie some more (maybe also the norfolk/norwich terrier) … and definitely go to the dog shows and talk to the owner/breeders.
Thanks for all the great suggestions!