There is an unfortunate event during sexual stimulation involving a male that follows ejaculation. It is known as the refractory period. The refractory period is a time when a male is unable to immediately have another erection and as a result is not (typically) open to further stimulation or ejaculation.
I’ve been sexually active for a number of years, and I’ve come to know the refractory period as an unfortunate but ubiquitous experience following the climax of stimulation. Until recently.
I cannot fathom why it is so, but recently I have been able to maintain a full erection and continue sexual stimulation despite having a full orgasm and ejaculation. I’ve read that such a thing is not unheard of, but my question goes beyond this.
From what I’ve read, I’ve had the impression that when a male is capable of this, they have always done this. For me, it is a recent development that happens about every other time I engage in sexual stimulation. I’m 21 years old. Why has it changed now? Is this unusual, or unheard of?
FWIW, I have never had much of a refractory period at all. I can usually go at least a couple times before I take a break. However it isn’t as grand as it seems, the lady usually wants to stop before that becomes an issue. The trick is to mix activities up to give her a breather.
I don’t have a refractory period either. I can either stop or not stop. (I tend to feel satisfied but I can also be quite greedy sometimes). If I don’t stop the blood stays in the caverno-whatchamacallit tissue and things continue as before. Except that each orgasm is increasingly difficult to chase down until eventually there’s one dancing out there beyond my reach and I run out of steam.
1 out of 5 times I have no refractory period so to speak. My erection maintains for several minutes after orgasm. Usually it remains unused since my partner and I are both satisfied.
When I was 13, 14… I had no refractory period… but alas no other person to enjoy it with beside myself.