You vanish for whole days at a time? My my, you’re quite the internet nomad, aren’t you.
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An individual should respond in accordance with (and responded to in kind as) their preferred pronoun(s). To me that is their gender identity, be it “he”, “she”, “they”, other or variable/fluid depending on whatever factors it varies with. Having that preferred gender identification associated in a poll with a nom de keyboard would bias against responding comfortably? Don’t think so.
But what’evs. Private it is.
Definition of “regular” for the purpose of this thread defined in the op. I’d have a hard time coming up with definition that did include someone with your posting histories as “regulars.”
Days, weeks, there was that one time it was years… there’s variance. It’s all a bit beside the point. In any case I now concede that, per the definition in the OP, I am regular.
But if I say I am I get it!
Good god, I didn’t take a breath as I finished the thread to post this! How does anyone leave that one hanging?
OP: Male. 12year old male trapped in an overfed, middle age, middle class, male.
Previous thread on topic:
https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=830200
Ok, I voted. I too am here sometimes, but also take breaks for awhile, so I guess I’m more irregu - no. I am NOT going there. 
TMI! 
Thanks.
Wow, the Dope really is male, then.
It’s a forum that allows us to mansplain to the world.
Why would somebody who identifies as male or female choose anything other than their identified gender (be that ‘other’, or their assigned sex), whether they’re cis or trans?
Now, non-binary people of all the various stripes are certainly more likely to vote if it’s anonymous, and thus one doesn’t have to out oneself as not identifying as binary male or female, in an environment where one can’t be entirely sure one’s identity will be accepted. But that’s not really ‘want[ing] to be thought of as the gender of their identification’, that’s ‘fearing or acknowledging that their identity won’t be accepted’, since the entire thing of being non-binary is that you don’t identify as one of the binary genders (could be agender, third gender, fluid identity, blending the genders, etc, etc, etc).
(FTR, as one of the ‘other’ voters - fluid, prefer ‘she/her’ as a generic, don’t mind ‘they’.)
Sometimes women and trans people get harassed online, purely for being a woman, or trans. So people might be reluctant to out themselves.
Wwel the perecentages are about what I would have expected the to be: M: 67%m F 33%.
Looks closer to a 3/4:1/4 split than a 2/3:1/3 split to me.
The percentages are right there…
~70% men
~29% women
~1% nonbinary.
Men outnumber women about 2.4:1.