I guess i feel ashamed asking this, but i don’t know where else to go.
Anyway, i am introverted. I think i am more an introvert than i am shy. How exactly am i supposed to meet people if i don’t want to talk to them? I don’t even talk to my family that much, why would i want to talk to a strange woman?
American culture has created this cult mythology that romance is the solution to all of mankinds ills, and that someone of the opposite sex can be your ‘rock’, i don’t see it that way. I don’t want to build my life around someone else, or feel incomplete without them. But due to neural wiring i desire women, but not on their terms (always hanging out with them, talking for hours on end all the time). I just want someone to talk to and hang out with every now and again.
I’ve thought of exclusively approaching introverted women as they would understand where i am coming from on this issue, but i figure they will be even more disinterested than run of the mill women.